See my husband is a mailman too and they know each other. I really want to boink the mailman and he wants to boink me too. Should I boink the mailman anyway or change my mind, as we have already planned a playdate.
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2007-10-10 07:25:52 · 49 answers · asked by Lesson Learned 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
read the ten commandments.. after this life your going to be judged and this life is damn short to just have a 1 night/day stand with your inner feeling down there. Seriously, i feel bad for people like you and you will be decieved. havent you notice how big our universe is. It makes sense to just be an overall good person and treat other the same. Remember positive brings positive and negative brings negative and a whole lot of unhappiness to your life. You are the kind of people I dont keep as friends and i am so happy that "I" am happy !
2007-10-10 07:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by tam at peace 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sexy Mailman
2016-11-13 10:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by apodace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing Ashley. 1. Are you working, can you afford to raise 2 wee ones all by yourself. 2. Is your husband havinga an affair, and so reason for divorce. Does he know about the babe. You know you have rights. If you don't hire a good lawyer or look up on women'ts rights. Child support, alimoney, half the property, all these are some of your basic rights if you are non working housewife. There are more, ask someone who really knows. Take him to court now and keep the hurt for a day, when you have time for crying. Right now, those kids (I am sorry, I too am opposed to obortion, until and unless it is advised by my doc). You want the child I believe. A new baby will keep you busy enough, not to think about that lousy jerk, who would do such a lousy thing to a woman. Better tell that friend of his, you got pregnant when he was suppose to be having a affair with her, spice it up and tell her u feel sorry for her, for who knows 2maro he might leave her alone and pregnant, when he sees the next pretty face. crafty but true as well. If he can do it to you he can do it to anyone else. KIDS, MY GOD!
2016-03-17 04:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, do NOT cheat on your Husband! Not if you really love your husband and want to stay married to him...
You don't say how long you have been married, but I don't think very long...
Church people or not, cheating on your husband / wife
will start to put cracks in the trust element of your marriage.
If you rationalize and do it once, you will most certainly do it again. The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence, but when you go there, you will see the same or worse flaws. I can speak from experience on this.......I have been married 20 years, and there have been many temptations occur, but it is always best to not go there! Would you be mad at your husband if he "boinked" some other hot babe, just because she was hot??? You would be better off in the long run if you went home and put more effort into "boinking" your own husband. Keep it HOT, HOT, HOT
between you and your husband. Try some new stuff together with your husband! Be creative! Be Bold! In the long run, you will be much happier and it will be easier for you to face your husband knowing that you have been faithful to him......
Especially if you have kids together.....It is just plain SELFISH
to cheat on your husband / wife......
Signed, Been there, Regret doing that !!
2007-10-13 00:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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My mailman is so sexy and wants me, but my husband would be hurt if he found out?
See my husband is a mailman too and they know each other. I really want to boink the mailman and he wants to boink me too. Should I boink the mailman anyway or change my mind, as we have already planned a playdate.
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2015-08-14 23:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already planned it so if you don't do it now, you will later, and if not with him, it will be someone else. You made a commitment, now you want to break it, you already have broken it by making the plans. That's called cheating and people who cheat are called cheaters. Of course it will hurt your husband, but then again he is only a husband in name to you or you would not be asking this question. What you should really do is go ahead and get your divorce attorney lined out, because you will need it. I hope there are no kids involved.
2007-10-10 07:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Brad M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's the deal. You can fantasize about it all you want. Create scenarios in your head, talk to your girlfriends about it...but don't do it! No, I'm not a churchy pereson, but if you're serious about staying in your marriage, sometimes it's just nice to know that someone would want to do us and we're not the most undesirable scum on earth, you know? Especially if you've been married for a long while now.
You can be flattered. You can...*eh hem*...take care of business to thoughts of him...you can even get your husband to dress up in his uniform and pretend it's your mailman all you want! But if you really are concerned about not hurting the hubby, then just don't mess with fire. Because, all morality aside, if you could just do him once and "get it out of your system," you don't know if he'd want you to leave your husband, fall in love with you, and all that stuff that makes for a messy, messy situation. Who needs that?
So yes, you can fantasize about him but just DON'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT!!! :-)
2007-10-10 07:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whether or not I agree with your proposed actions, you ultimately must make your own decision. Whatever you decide, be prepared for any consequences that may follow. In my opinion, if you really truly love your husband and want your marriage to last, then I would not sleep with the mailman.
It's up to you though. Good luck.
2007-10-10 07:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
PLEASE LISTEN TO MY REASONING!!!!!
No because eventually you will regret it and you will find yourself putting up with way too much crap from him because you will feel guilty. Instead just use your imagination the next time you and your husband are together (don't say names) and then you can give him crap because you know that you are a good girl and he needs to pay you back for being so good to him! Besides there really isn't that much fun in doing a new guy because the first time you are too nervous to enjoy it anyway and you don't want this thing to turn into a habit because you will eventually get busted and that is NEVER fun.
Also, what if he's actually a closet freak and decides to tell his wife/girlfriend that he did you and he feels so guilty....blah blah blah.......then it gets right back to your husband.....messy divorce........just not worth it.....(this last scenario actually happened to one of my good friends who was using me as a cover up for her affair....really nasty....especially when my husband found out I was covering for her!)
2007-10-10 07:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by kim 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Apparently your marriage means nothing to you if you are even considering this so it really does not matter what you do. If he is a friend of your husband then your husband will find out, simple as that. It seems kind of silly to throw away a marriage for a fling with a mailman.
2007-10-10 07:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by mn lady 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋