Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2007

2007-10-10 09:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a pregnancy is about 40 wks then if you were born:
First week ofSeptember means your parents were being more thankful than just for Turkey

Second thru Fourth week of September someone was trying to get a better Chrismas present.

First week of October means your parents were having a HAPPY New Year.

Third week of November means your are Valentino's Kid

First week of January meant you were a joke (April Fools)

Second week of February means someone had too much Tequila.

All of March and first week of April means someone went to a Wedding

Second Week of April means your parents did more than watch fireworks.

First week of August means your parents did more than dress up halloween

So when were you born?

2007-10-10 09:48:47 · 10 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

My wife and I love each other dearly, she's a wonderful person. However, I was talking about kids and she broke the news to me that she used to be a man. I'm really torn up about this, it doesn't seem right. Any advice on how to deal with the situation?

2007-10-10 09:47:09 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i am ruining my marriage..i am very insecure about the way I look and I always am thinking that my husband would rather be with someone else that looks better and last night a friend had text me this pic of the olsen twins topless and my hubby always makes fun of them so i thought i would forward it to him and told him to erase it when he was done looking at it..so i got home and asked if he had erased it he said no because he wanted to show his buddies at work..which i was fine with well when i went to go plug in the phones for the night i saw he had a text so i thought it was me and i was going to check it..well i clicked on the sent and not the inbox and saw he sent it to his work phone..when i woke him up i confronted him about it and he told me it was cuz he wanted to show his friends which didnt make sense because the pic was on his personal phone and why couldnt he show them on that?? so I freaked out on him called him a liar and that he was just trying to hide it from me...

2007-10-10 09:40:14 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany R 2

2007-10-10 09:39:48 · 4 answers · asked by byron m 1

I lived with my boyfriend for 8 years. I moved out 3 months ago but still continued to see him and help him with rent and bills. Yes when we were together I kept us up financially. He is 32 and I am 25. I think I became co dependent on taking care of him and having him around. 8 years is a long time. Any way when we first got together he went through a divorce and also had his parental rights terminated. Now after 7 years the ex wife is starting to bring the child around. She is having problems with her current husband. I am trying to give my boyfriend space. He has no job, no license or transportation. I just wonder why he has not called me. I know that may sound dumb but he told me he loved me. Do you think he thinks about me?? This is really bothering me. I have not spoke to him since Monday and I am not planning on it. I want him to call but I am torn inside. He lies to me about things and he has problems. This is killing me inside. It is consuming me. Can u help

2007-10-10 09:33:59 · 14 answers · asked by Sunny 2

My name is Jessica and I am 31 yrs old. I'm currently married with 3 young boys (8, 5, &18 mo.). My husband has become an alcoholic and is very verbally abusive to all of us and has begun smashing things in the house. I want really want to leave but have no resources to do so. I have been a stay at home mom so I have no money or job. I can't even afford to get an apartment. My children are scared and asked me to leave their dad but I don't know how to go anywhere. I want to move as soon as possible. If anybody could please help me or give any suggestions I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you

2007-10-10 09:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jessy1012 1

2007-10-10 09:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by Ann M 1

Well it appears that my dad was cheating on my mom for a long time with atleast one other woman at work...

he wanted to keep living with my mom and act like nothing was wrong but my mom got furious an they got a divorce.

it all happened when i was away at college, an i was really angry i mean i always picture them growing old together and being happy, now i dont know what to do im really pissed at my dad cuz i had heard him talkin on the phone with another woman one time an said he liked to lick peanut butter or something off woman and then i hung up the phone without him knowin i had heard awhile back

what should i do?

2007-10-10 09:22:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 29 he's 52. We met through friends at work3 years ago and hit it off. He is married to his third wife with 3 young kids and claims his wife never wants to go out. Before we met he spent a lot of time out with the guys from the office. We share an interest in sports and because he is pretty well off he gets tickets to any event he wants. We have gone out to dinner and games several times as just friends and he hasn't tried anything. I am worried what others will think of us just hanging out. I know his wife would not be happy but it seems so innocent. He has asked me to take an overnight trip out of town to a sporting event . I would really like to go but I'm worried what others might think. I am not attracted to him sexually, I just like his company. Should I go or not.

2007-10-10 09:17:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-10 09:10:10 · 2 answers · asked by cheri 1

How do you communicate to your partner that you are in the mood to be intimate? If your partner is more passive, how would you encourage them to participate more?

Suggestions for subtle and or non-vulgar ways would be appreciated

2007-10-10 09:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by banjnkmail 2

i never look for anything long term just a little short term fun with no strings attached

2007-10-10 09:03:52 · 36 answers · asked by sexynsweet 1

is there a time limit of length of marrige to do an annulment?

2007-10-10 09:00:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you married women think when you see a cute guy, or what happens to you when a cute guy passes you by? I am curious to know this because of the reality of it. By no means do I mean to ask anything about cheating and I hope none of you ladies ever do that to your men! Are there studies related to my question? Has that ever happened to you? Or has this ever not for one second gone through your mind? Thank you all for your responses. : )

2007-10-10 08:55:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

what options do i have?

2007-10-10 08:54:44 · 3 answers · asked by Rick and Tammy 1

2007-10-10 08:54:00 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Lasha♥ 3

We have been married for 14 years. 3 years later I gave birth to our son and 3 weeks later he had sex with my best friend in the back of her car. I found this out 7 years later and 2 more kids later. I asked if he had a girlfried and he said that he has been talking with a girl via phone, email and on business trips to CA. This has been going on for 3 years. He says that it is over and nothing sexually ever happened between them but I don't believe him. He say that I am the only one he loves and wants to be with. How do I know that he is not playing me again. Is it possible for him to change?

2007-10-10 08:41:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

It will be a year this saturday that my boyfriend and I have been together.He sold his house in Florida and we moved away from all family.I wished for us to reside in NC. About 2 months after we were together I started noticing his insecurities and controlling behavior. I have left and came back to him 4 times already thinking it would get better. After our move it's not better and he is more down and negative now then ever. He is a hard worker and a great father to my son.He has never beat me or anything of the sort.Yet, my family is concerned that one day it could lead to that. He has threatned to kill himself many times if without us. I just feel I have lost myself, I feel as a prisoner, walking on egg shells to keep him smiling. I've left to visit family~ I'm torn on wether or not to return. Please help Me!!!

2007-10-10 08:37:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do my hubbys lunch box for work each day, he keeps it in a rucksack that has lots of pockets.

He took our recently processed holiday photos to show his work mates who happen to be mostly female.

I emptied his bag earlier on to do his box, and noticed the photos at the bottom, i took them out and later on decided to place them in the album.

I discovered that the photos were only of him and the children, and the ones of me alone, with him and children were gone. Wondering where they were, i looked in his bag to see if they had fallen out...

and in the secret zip there they all were.

Am i making a big thing that he could of not shown these photos to his mates?

Is he ashamed of me?

why would he seperate these from the rest?

2007-10-10 08:35:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me preface this by saying that I am putting it in the marriage and divorce category because I am hoping to get some better responses that I would from the teeny-boppers in singles and dating. I am dealing with this situation, which, admittedly, is a little weird. I have been with my boyfriend long enough to have worked out all of OUR issues - he's not the problem here. The problem is that about a week ago, he had an awful nightmare that I was cheating on him (preposterous) with one of our mutual acquaintences, and that I was very cocky about it, and not sorry at all. This is an awful dream, of course, and he woke up very very upset after having it. We talked about it, and he knows that I would never cheat on him, so things mostly smoothed over. Until yesterday. A group of friends are planning a get-together, and we are invited. Unfortunately, so is the acquaintence that he dreamed I was cheating on him with.

2007-10-10 08:28:09 · 20 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5

I have been dating my best friend for the past 7 years. He and I have always had a lot of fun; though he has always participated in acts I do not agree with (He does drugs and drinks a lot). I have been supporting him and his habits for at least 6 of the past 7 years, and now we have 2 kids (a girl age 2 and a boy age 7months). He has been unwilling to keep a job for more than 3 months at a time, quitting stating that it drove him crazy. He has discovered online gaming (World of Warcraft, Also known as WOW) and now he sits at the computer all day and night, in his underwear while I work, take care of the kids and house – not to mention pay all the bills as he is not working. He does not cook, clean or help out in any way that does not involve complaining about how little we have.
At this time, neither of our kids wants much to do with him as he constantly ignores them, or sends them to me for whatever they need, be it a drink or snack or anything.

2007-10-10 08:24:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have 3 children, 2 of which were his from a previous marriage that I adopted. I have had them since they were 4 & 6 and have never heard hide nor hair from their birth mother. MY girls are 12 & 10 now and then we added our son 2 1/2. Our son is disabled and has ALOT of doctor appointments and also therapy. My oldest is in braces and has constant orthodontist appointments and our middle daughter has tutoring and chorus 2 X per week. ALSO I take his mother to dialysis 3 X per week. Nobody is going to give me a job. I sell insurance and bring in around 12,000.00 per year just working in my spare time but this isn't enough. It's not that it bothers me that he asks for help but he demands it and degrades me constantly as if I'm a liability. He says that it's his responsibility to provide for his children but not a grown woman who is his wife - she should be helping out too. By the way - I am up and gone EVERY morning TCB! Is he wrong 2 B so selfish or am I blind 2 his request?

2007-10-10 08:18:19 · 30 answers · asked by cannonkd 2

2007-10-10 08:17:38 · 2 answers · asked by sammy 1

I told my bf that my wish was to be married in 2009. We are both 27 and we have been together 2 years. He said he never though about it especially a particular date. He says that he wants to marry me "someday" but didn't want to talk about it. Does this mean that he doesn't want to marry me? If he is not interested in the long term should I stick around?

2007-10-10 08:17:12 · 17 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

I know there are exceptions, but why do you think this is usually the case?

2007-10-10 08:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I'm happily married and recently my ex contacted me after 7 years to see how things were going. At first everything was innocent enough and I thought we could be friends. Then she started to send me nude pictures of herself in my email.

At first I didn't think anything of it as her hobby had always been Photograhpy and they were tasteful and she would ask me if I liked the lighting and things. Then they became much much more raunchy to downright porngraphic. When I said she didn't need to be sending me those things, She thought I was joking. So I backed off talking to her for a awhile other then saying hi when she emailed me. Then she emailed me one day about her going to a club and making out with 3 people 2 men at once another women then almost having sex with her bestfriend who is female. Then she asked if I would have an affair with her which I flatout refused.

They have a child who has a disiese and her husband works doulbe shifts to pay the medical bills. Should I tell him

2007-10-10 07:57:26 · 25 answers · asked by moscow1677 2

I think a lot of men are unhappy with their marriage. Especially after 10 years. They don't leave because the alternative is living in a 1 BR apartment (not nearly as nice as their current 4 BR Colonial), not seeing their kids, complete financial ruin, and "starting over" is far more painful than living an unhappy yet stable life. If a man had assurances the "new" life was as good or better than his current life well....adios. Ask your self this: if you met your spouse today for the very first time would you still marry her? Taking into account interests, personality, ambitions, etc. My answer is a resounding no. What to do?

2007-10-10 07:41:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello everyone..I posted question regarding my problem yesterday.Thank you for the feedback.I want to move on but it's so hard and painful.If i try to win her back which is what i'm doing right now it is still a painful process.I love her so much.I really don't know what to do.I have prayed to god but i don't know all this sign is telling me to give up or try harder.For now i'm still trying to win her back.Hopefully even if my family is againts it but at least she know that my two sister do like her and welcome her to be in the family.All i know now is she still confuse to stay on with me or to follow her family choice.Both parents are persistent on not wanting us to be together.On my side it's my father and on her side it's her mother.I wish i know how to convince her to be strong and go through this rough time together with me.Any feedback would be deeply appreciated.

2007-10-10 07:40:52 · 7 answers · asked by Heartbroken 1

What are your thoughts?

2007-10-10 07:36:05 · 16 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6