he says I'm so fat, I can't even dodge responsibility
should I be mad?
2007-10-10 09:54:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He shouldn't have left you for that reason, but you do need to take care of yourself. It is not healthy to be overweight. If he is that shallow, don't worry, you can find someone better. For the meanwhile you need to concentrate on yourself.
2007-10-10 10:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by why ask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he left you. I'm married 27 years and very overweight. I was skinny when I got married. My husband said he can't stand fat people. I know I must lose weight for my health. He calls me names and criticizes me almost everyday. I know I don't look good but I shouldn't be abused for it. I'm sorry but, if he left you, you can do better. I'm sure you are a nice person. Have your doctor guide you on a healthy eating plan, get the weight down, exercise and you'll be sexy again. For you!! When he sees you again, he will wish he never let you go. You go girl!!!
2007-10-10 15:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tina!
My now ex left me 1 week ago for his co-worker for the second time. His excuse was our rocky past (why the f... did you come back?) Sorry *** men who can't take some responsibility of relationships.
Bottom line you married a turt and my ex is one .
Remember its his loss he will realize that but you know by then you moved on, wiped your tears away and found somebody who gives a damn about your weight. I think that was just a sorry *** excuse of his sorry ***.
Keep your head up high, cry be angry get over it move on (there will be setbacks) but @ the end you will be free.
Come over we talk s.... drink some wine cry a little and move on.
E-mail me if you like.
I feel your pain so deep and you think this is the end!
Hell no keep going.
sending my love
2007-10-10 10:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hunny I even have been the place you're. in case you have a good chum that assist you to reside with them i might, that's what I did and it helped me the main because of the fact i did no longer experience like this variety of loser leaving my hubby and shifting in w/my mom and pa. it extremely is ok to cry given which you will pass over the good circumstances, your coronary heart is broken. yet now and lower back you will possibly desire to brake your man or woman coronary heart. I did it, you reside by using it and you will locate greater valuable. i'm married lower back to a spectacular guy it particularly is the daddy of my 2 toddlers been a spectacular 4 years. So merely bear in strategies each and every of the undesirable issues. With the mastercard call a criminal professional straight away. you have gotten to call the law enforcement officers to ask the criminal professional. in case you haven't any longer have been given any youngsters and not that plenty stuff you may break up genuine elementary (nicely in wyoming it would desire to be diverse in each and every state i do no longer likely comprehend) yet you basically bypass to the courtroom residing house and bypass to district courtroom and ask approximately divorce papers and it basically coasted me sixty 5 $ for the paper artwork and 10 to document. I have been given divorce by utilising default because of the fact my ex moved out of state and that i could no longer locate him. however the paper artwork is easy and explains each and every little thing. good luck take care and continually bear in strategies you will locate genuine love sometime it merely takes time.
2016-11-07 22:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry..ugh..some men can be such jerks.
i was thinking about this today, a woman i used to work with told me that she was obsessed about her weight and working out because her husband said he would leave her if she got "fat". This woman was 5'3 and about 115lbs...not "fat" at all.
Honestly, you are 100% better off without him. There are plenty of men who will love you for who you are. Dont give up.
2007-10-10 10:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by noones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be feeling a lot of emotions right now. Was this person verbally abusive all along. You know the deal, words hurt!!!!! Tell him that you can always loose weight but he will always be a jerk!!!!
2007-10-10 10:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by P D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE SHOULD NOT HAVE MARRIED YOU FOR SIZE AND IF YOU WERE BLIND WITH A PEG LEG HE SUPPOSE TO LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY!!!!!!!!!!! IF HE LOVE YOU SO MUCH WHY HE CAN'T PROMOTE GOOD HEALTH AND CHANGE? Don't allow him to depress you live your life for you and him but don't loose sight of who you are and what makes you, you and a beautiful person.....
2007-10-10 10:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe some people didn't catch on that your question is a joke.
2007-10-10 10:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by renamed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it might be that you look like your avatar.
Fat! Now that's just wrong.
2007-10-10 10:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt , tell him u will change and really change from ur heart.
good luck
2007-10-10 10:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋