Marriage & Divorce - 2 October 2007

2007-10-02 08:01:41 · 33 answers · asked by sam 1

I have a spouse that hit on a friend of mine. I had my friend call him back and talk to him on speaker phone.He flirted and when she asked where was I he said Amy Who? I was saddened crushed and angered but
.Then I found out he told my daughter, his step daughter23, that he wished she would come into his bed at night three years ago.
.I need some advice.I am in a state of emotional shock.
What do I do now.I am devestated!!!!

2007-10-02 07:54:56 · 22 answers · asked by angelbaby1 3

My boyfriend just found out he has maybe a month or so to live from cancer.. we've been together almost 3 years and we know we were meant for eachother. After I found out he was going to die my mom's friend said we should get married, and so did my sister's friend. We want to go to Tahiti or somewhere (where's the best island?) but marriage never came across our vocabulary. Should I propose to him or ask him or talk to him about it or what? Everyone in my family seems to agree that it's a good idea but i havent talked to him about it at all. What should I do?

2007-10-02 07:50:10 · 17 answers · asked by sotsommersvette 1

It hurts so bad! I really would like to think he's telling me the truth, but I dont see what he sees in the mirror. How can I be more confident in myself lean to take a dang compliment from the man I'm in love with?

2007-10-02 07:44:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been having an affair with a guy for three years (I'm married). He has always been the one to want to break it off and remain friends....and then always the one who wants to start things up again. He loves me and I love him also....what does this all mean. Does he really care, or is it that he can't live without me?

2007-10-02 07:43:24 · 33 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

I recently moved in with my fiance. Things seem to be doing great, except for one thing. He works but his job isn't steady some weeks it is busy and some time it seems slow. Well of course that affects the paycheck. I moved an hour and a half away to be with him. However, we agreed I would drive back and forth to my job (an hour and a half each way) for a few weeks until he can find something more steady. I've tried to be really understanding and considerate. He recently got A+ certified hoping that would make job hunting a bit easier. It has been almost 3 weeks and he has only filled out one application. I love him and care about him but I'm getting tired of the drive and I feel like he's letting me down. He says I'm depending on him and that I'm not looking for a job. What he doesn't seem to understand is with me working here at least I do bring home a paycheck. Anything beats nothing. The agreement was when he found something better, then I would quit and begin looking....

2007-10-02 07:43:13 · 9 answers · asked by Bubbles 3

why do they tend to act cold towards the woman, and avoid her, and act like a different person ???

2007-10-02 06:49:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you still considered a virgin if you don't have sex till you married? And why do people always get so defensive? Not being a virgin isn't a bad thing if your married is it? Lol, just thought I'd ask, cause I've always wondered, and well, that is kinda an akward question to ask someone in person, so thanks everyone!

2007-10-02 06:45:52 · 7 answers · asked by Mouse 3

We purchased a home almost three years ago and expected to have at least one child by now. However, a little over a year ago, we found out that we have a very slim chance of having a child. He deals with it in his own way that seems very insensitive to me at times, and I hurt everyday because of it. We do not want to adopt, although it is very noble, it is just not for us. I am so sick of people's "home remidies" such as, tequilla, relaxation, a hot bath, stand on your head, etc. I want to tell people to just stop asking and stop the recommendations! Neither of us like our jobs and we are almost ready to just leave the entire area to do something completely different. Life just really stinks and it shouldn't. I'm only 29! How do I cope?

2007-10-02 06:33:24 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer M 3

in about three months i will get married .
i am starting to get second thoughts .
not for the right gye but for marriage itself.and now?

2007-10-02 06:13:51 · 16 answers · asked by trust me 1

I don't know how to feel.Im lost.I want so bad to understand what the need for this type of awful visual stimulation is.Why am I not enough and how do I trust again?He said its because Im not fun anymore.Wow that makes me feel good!There are other factors he said but all of them amount to the fact that he isn't happy sexually with me anymore.I am so hurt and betrayed.This isn't the first time either.Thats what hurts the most.I told him it bothered me and I saw it as form of cheating,but he did it anyways.I have no problem with looking with him but I just don't see the need as much.We have done just about everything sexually and I don't get how he can be so damn selfish.

2007-10-02 06:07:13 · 35 answers · asked by shader98 1

I know I have made a lot of bad choices in my life including marrying my ex-wife and having a daughter with her. Even though she was a nice person, she took everything she could money wise after I worked so hard to make it happen. I also supported her studies, time off job, financial laissez-fair. She demanded alimony, child support and now I am unemployed, making less than her and she won't support change in CS without a fight. And on top of it, she is always the outgoing happy social person that doesn't really plan on getting an 8 to 5 job. How can I make her life miserable? Any success stories out there?

2007-10-02 06:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i have been together for almost 5 years. Almost this whole time he has been trying to get me to join the military! About a month ago he told me he wanted me to take the ASVAB and I didnt want to, About a week ago I finally agreed to take it and get him off my back. Well, since then I have realized that it is a waste of my time, I have NO intensions of Ever joing the military. He says that is fine he just wants me to take it because I said I would. I know if I dont take this test he will be extremely angry at me and it will cause problems in our relationship. But I feel like I shouldnt have to do something that isnt going to benefit us? I have a feeling if I take the test he will be trying to get me to join even more! Am I wrong to feel like I shouldnt have to do this? Why should I have to be stressed out? Or should I do what he wants me to do and Take it?

Im 22 and will be going back to School to finish my BSN in Januray.

Thanks everyone!

2007-10-02 06:02:56 · 34 answers · asked by nicks_tulip 2

To comfort them? I really find it hard...

2007-10-02 05:59:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an American married to an Indian man. Need advice on how to handle his mom. We get along fine but she does not know when to butt out. Like:
1. We have a 7yr old, facing medical problems, trying for 2nd one. She hears messages doctor leaves for me, wants me to change to female doctor, wants to know my "dates".
2. Even after 9 or 10 pm, she is still around in the living room, leaving us no time to talk as husband & wife or watch a movie together.
3. I'm cooking, get a call, it is private, she stands and listens to all my conversation.
4. My kid comes from school, upset about something, when I'm listening to her, mother-in-law interferes even before my kid is done talking. Then, my kid clams up.
5. My husband prefers to eat breakfast at his work, even if there is lots of it at home. she nags me no end about it.
6.He goes out with friends once in 3-4 weeks for a beer bash. She nags ME about that.
7. I got my hair cut short, she nags me.

Any suggestions?

2007-10-02 05:56:02 · 19 answers · asked by gori 1

Last night I casually mentioned to hubby that I "should go to bartending school". I like making drinks ( not drinking them, but making them). He got all tensed up looking and mumbled something about "late nights". He was then pouty and quiet the rest of the night. Is he being insecure ( thinking I will be up to no good), or is it reasonable to asssume that bartending is a bad job for a married person?

2007-10-02 05:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by undone 4

My friend and I are having this debate. If a man is 22 and a woman is 29, is this too much of a age gap for a marriage in India?

2007-10-02 05:47:29 · 15 answers · asked by Brat Sheila♥♫ - the Precocious 6

If my husband and i decide on child support through our separation agreement, what happens if he doesnt pay?

2007-10-02 05:37:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Share you personal experience!

2007-10-02 05:35:58 · 30 answers · asked by Glenn S 2

Why would you be scared what will happen in court? Is it just because i mean there my kid's how can i not be scared what the judge might say even though i really have nothing to worry about?

2007-10-02 05:35:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lived in a nice neighborhood now for 9 years. While there are a few of of young (late 30's) people here, a good handful of them are older.

We have two houses in the neighborhood that have been bought and are now being rented out to section 8/hud. Our neighborhood has gone down the toilet in just one summer.

The people that live in the two section 8 houses know each other and are CONSTANTLY fighting, both verbally and physically. The fighting has escalated so much that the whole neighborhood is upset.

I have called the police several dozen times over this past summer but it doesnt seem to do any good. NOT that it's because of the police, but because the women ALWAYS bail their husbands out. Both families have young children under the age of 5 and nobody seems to care about these young ones. when the adults are fighting, the kids are there watching and screaming because they are scared.

we can't move right now, does anyone have any advice? I am out of idea's.

2007-10-02 05:32:08 · 7 answers · asked by just forgiven 4

How many of you have had intercourse before marriage? Why did you do it and was it worth it? I am saving myself for my husband only, but I interested in others' opinions...

2007-10-02 05:27:39 · 18 answers · asked by Reea 3

2007-10-02 05:16:45 · 35 answers · asked by notyochic 6

For example. Couple A and Couple B are married. Male from couple A meets female from Couple B. They hit it off and decide to leave their spouses so they can be together as Couple C. Common? Succesful? What if they were both married the first time just loving the person they married but not IN LOVE with their partners? Thanks!

2007-10-02 05:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Kevin Federline would turn out to be the more fit parent.

As ordered by the court.

2007-10-02 05:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

the same way about dating and marriage that they do? Most guys are not looking for wives when they go on dates. Most women apparently are looking for husbands.

I know, I know..."You're not like that!" But the majority of the other women are.

2007-10-02 04:43:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyf. who broke up with me in February has just emailed me that he wants to meet me as he misses me. He says he cannot forget about me and he would like to meet me before I go off travelling. However, he has mentioned nothing about trying to be together again. He said that he feels scared that if we don't meet, we will loose each other for good. But last week when I tried to call him, he had no time for me and he brushed me off. The break up hurt me a lot and he was constantly calling me for the last 6 months not wanting us to cut all contact. I don't know what to do. Should I meet him? He said he would come to see me. I still haven't replied and he is calling me, texting me constantly asking me to reply.

2007-10-02 04:36:05 · 15 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

2007-10-02 04:19:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I know this is wrong but I've formed this relationship with a married woman. I'm married too. She says she loves her husband. I love my wife. But her and I have this incredible chemistry. We have not slept together, we have'nt kissed. We're saying we're "special friends". Whatever that means right. We've both expressed that our feelings go far beyond the freinds level. We're trying to do the right thing. How do you deal with this? Has this ever happened to you? Does it just go away over time. Part of me wishes it would, part of me fears it will.

2007-10-02 04:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by Lucas M 1

I am 24 yrs old and i have been with my man who is 28 for 2 1/2 years. We love each other very much and will spend the rest of our lives together.We talk about having chi, we are not married yet but rngaged to be just trying to save $$ for a wedding, and we both think we shold be married first

2007-10-02 04:15:19 · 21 answers · asked by joanna g 2