For example. Couple A and Couple B are married. Male from couple A meets female from Couple B. They hit it off and decide to leave their spouses so they can be together as Couple C. Common? Succesful? What if they were both married the first time just loving the person they married but not IN LOVE with their partners? Thanks!
2007-10-02 05:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's more common than you think. There is a 50/50 chance that it will be successful, it's just a roll of the dice...
2007-10-02 05:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation and it was a disaster. I got involved with my first love after my class reunion. We were both married. We felt like the love we once had was still there and we both was not happy at home. So, we left our spouses to be with eachother and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I just traded in one problem for an even bigger one. I had a good husband who loved me unconditionally, who provided me with a home, a new car, and security. I left to be with my first love that had two kids, no job and a crazy baby mama(who was not his wife). You always think the grass is greener on the other side and then when you get there its not. You never miss what you have until it is gone. I left my marriage because I was bored and I thought I wanted something different and I didn't realize my husband was the best thing for me until it was too late.
2007-10-02 12:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by concernone 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is quite common, however, the success rate isn't very good. Think about it, if they left a spouse for one they found to be better, why wouldn't they do it again? I know of a few couples that have made it work (20 or more years together), but not very many.
2007-10-02 12:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That usually dosen't work,,, what happens is you will eventually end up with the same boring life you had with your original wife..... Turns out, what you make of your life starts with your mental state...... if you are a miserable person, it won't matter who you end up with... sure you'll be happy for 6 months or so, but ultimaltey all the same problems arise.
There are exceptions..... but think about the girl you now want to marry.. She's a cheating SOB.... you want to marry her??
2007-10-02 12:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A plus B equals C, That would leave couple D not a very happy couple. So lets just say couple D subtracts couple C? Problem solved.
2007-10-02 12:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by iceman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it happens on occasion...may or may not work out depending on the issues in each person's original relationship that caused a partner in each to look elsewhere rather than trying to fix their first relationship...
...running off with someone else may well just be taking the same problem(s) with you into a situation with a new partner.
2007-10-02 12:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens more than you think it is possible for it to work but they probably will not trust each other since they both did the same thing
2007-10-02 12:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by stacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋