Marriage & Divorce - 2 October 2007

do you think that marriage should be renewable like every 7 years? If you decided not to renew your marriage you would be divorced within 1 month of the renewal date?

2007-10-02 15:18:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-02 15:15:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When one is having an affair - why is it so difficult to break it off and quit? I find myself fantasizing constantly about my lover and counting the days till I see him again. What should I do? I am being tortured by this....

2007-10-02 14:52:00 · 14 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

I am a widower, lost my wife some seven months ago. I loved her a lot, miss her very much. Yearn for the company of a female, not for physical pleasure, but company. Not in excellent health myself.

2007-10-02 14:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by muthya52 1

has anyone ever gotton married in less than six month after dating if so howis the experience? Would you doit again?

2007-10-02 14:49:49 · 19 answers · asked by butterfly 3

In a wife, some people want a homemaker. Someone who will care for the kids, take care of all the appointments, extracurricular activities in the childrens lives, or even just have dinner ready when the significant other gets home. YOu get the idea..right...so what do you want in a husband?

2007-10-02 14:43:34 · 7 answers · asked by ohmj21 1

2007-10-02 14:23:47 · 37 answers · asked by tyshauna j 1

if my husband and i are looking to spice up our sex lives, can porn be an enjoyable experience for us. we are both up to trying new things, and this seems like an experience. please if any one has advice that would be great.

2007-10-02 14:23:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I got married in a court. My mother-in-law knew about me and had talked to me before we got married. Since she lives in a different country than us, we didn't have a chance to meet. Last year, she was kind of sick and was going to go for an eye surgery. My husband felt bad that he couldn't get off from work so he could go and see her. So I took off from work and went there for a whole month. The first day she was real nice 2 me, after that everything went down hill. She always wanted to know where I was going. When my husband would call she would eavesdrop on us. If I would cook something, she always had something bad 2 say abt it. My husband sent her some real nice things, she didn;t like any of them, she told me that to my face. She would invite girls over or talk abt them with her friends while I was present(girls she wanted my husband to get married to-in our culture arranged marriages are common). She would go around telling ppl my personal stuff.

2007-10-02 14:09:52 · 16 answers · asked by Lonely 2

how many of you actually want a divorce or think about it more than you should?

2007-10-02 14:04:46 · 30 answers · asked by b.moretee24 2

I am currently separated from my husband of 5 yrs. I love him dearly but we don't see eye to eye. I began to talk to this man who is older than me but was in prison for 10 years. He asked me for money and of course i said no! He then told me to get the money from my spouse and I again said no..I told him that I have more respect for my hubby than that and can't do it. Long story short, his family kicked him out of their home (he is on house arrest) and his mom lives in town. He wanted me to go get him and bring him to live with her. I didn't do it. He sold drugs, did armed robbery, has a violent past.I feel like he would be a danger to me and others if I went and got him..I don't want him to be my man or anything like tha but I feel so sorry for him.....PLEASE TALK SOME SENSE INTO ME!

2007-10-02 14:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Lana 3

I know this is the oddest place to reach out to someone for advice,but I have no where else to turn at the moment.

in 2,003 at the age of 23 I married a guy from another country,who later admitted to me he married me 50 percent to get to USA and 50 percent to come to America.From the begining he was controlling and forced his religion on me.There was allot of fighting daily,verbal,emotional and pyschological abuse and emotional neglect.This escalated to me getting hit and blamed for being too loud and deserving of a slap.
We were not married in a Christian church,and the whole thing was done in his traditional way,in another language that I couldnt understand.I felt overwhlemed but at the same time I believed I loved him so went through with it.My self esteem was very low and I didnt know how to stand up for myself.
After 4 years of living without love and facing abuse and daily quarrels,crying on every Holiday,every birthday and every Christmas,after countless prayers

2007-10-02 13:50:20 · 33 answers · asked by IMWOMAN 1

2007-10-02 13:50:09 · 16 answers · asked by jax725 2

I have been engaged for about a year now, but last month I met an old friend at a wedding and we really hit it off. We have been staying in touch and even fooling around a bit. I am so confused. My wedding is in 3 months! Please help. Only serious answrs please!

2007-10-02 13:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by KfromCleveland 1

My son's father and I have been apart for almost 4 years now. He is now married, and has my son for visitation every weekend. I am very active in my sons life, and give him everything he needs as a mother, as does his father. My concerns are with his wife and how she sees her role as my son's stepmother. For example, she has called me periodically to question decisions that I have made concerning my son (claiming that she was trying to keep an argument from happening between me and my ex) ... she sends notes to my son's teachers concerning his schoolwork ... she attends parent-teacher conferences ... she attempts to make holiday/birthday plans for my son and tells him to "talk to your mother to see what she thinks" rather than talking to me directly ... I could go on and on. In a nutshell, she attempts to do things in my sons life that I, as his mother, already take care of ... I can't seem to get my point across to her to let me be the mother ...

2007-10-02 13:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by anon2009 1

2007-10-02 13:41:46 · 7 answers · asked by tyrill b 1

2007-10-02 13:36:55 · 29 answers · asked by IMWOMAN 1

I am seriously scared to death of my husband. He has threatened on more than one occasion to bash my head in, kill me with his bare hands. He has put guns and knives in my face. He has only physically hit me twice. But he has threatened many times. The last time he threatened to bash my head in, he actually took his night stick and swung it and put a whole in our bedroom door. I ran for the phone to call the cops but he took it from me and would not allow me to do so. I recently found out that I am pregnant. He has a daughter by another relationship who is a wonderful father to. I think he'd be a great dad to my child as well, but I don't want my child in that situation. How do I get out? I don't want to ruin his career by going to the police department he works for but I want out, and I don't know how!

2007-10-02 13:27:26 · 16 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1

My husband ex wife moved across the country with their son and her new boyfriend. She decided that it did not work out and wanted to move somewhere else. So, she decided to move to our city. She sent the son ahead a few months ago and she will be out here next month. She is living with a family member right now, so she does not have much bills and is able to save money. My husband told her that he will pay for her to move into a place out here and cover the rent for a couple of months. She makes several times the amount of money than we do, but she drinks a lot, so she's broke. We do not have very much money AT ALL and we can barely afford our bills. Plus, we have a newborn baby. It really burns me up that he offered all this without talking to me and this is financially going to hurt us. I do not know now how we are going to pay our own rent. Should I be upset with him???

2007-10-02 13:26:27 · 17 answers · asked by iluvmyhubby 2

Is it possible to get Child Support Payments raised? How do I go about doing that and would I have to go to court? Can this be done with out going to court?
Its been four years since we divorced, I got very little child support, and now I really need more help...
Any advice or information would be helpful.. Thanks!

2007-10-02 13:01:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He likes me. I like him. For 3 years now and recently I just can't take it anymore. I'm tired of playing mind games with him, or loving him from "afar." I want to take it to the next level. He is someone I work with. He's 10 yrs older than me, has kids and is at a more senior position than me. Should I just wait until he makes the first move? I'm married w/ no kids. I feel like if I wait for him, then I'll wait forever. I was thinking about sending him a lunch invite over work email. Or should I just confront him in person?

2007-10-02 13:00:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you be interested in a 34 year old army officer with an mba about to retire with two nice vehicles?

2007-10-02 12:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by Robert 1

I had an affair with a married man few years ago. He ended up to divorce his ex and to be with me. I refused him at the beginning. It was hard because I was in love with him. Recently, I saw there were text msgs/email from his ex on the phone bill, I was hearbroke because we are talking about future together soon and they have done it all the time when he was with me. Now, I know I was wrong to date a married man at the first place when he told me that it was a mistake to marry his ex. He is the only guy I have dated since I divorces years ago. Why the ex won't let go? Or, there are things I could not see the whole picture? Please adv.

2007-10-02 12:39:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the relationship/family section why do they have marriage and divorce together?
I think it needs to be separate. You don't know if you should be happy or sad going to that section.

What do you think?

2007-10-02 12:39:38 · 7 answers · asked by Karma Eve 5

My husband has recently begun to have occasional problems being able to complete the act of lovemaking successfully, but it doesn’t appear to have interfered with his ability to – or interest in - satisfying himself successfully. How do I know? Because I have awakened several times recently to his masturbating while he is lying right next to me in bed, while he thinks I’m asleep. He knows I’m more than ready and willing. Why does he prefer his own hand to my warm body? He doesn’t want to talk about this, but I’m so frustrated and feel so rejected. Why can’t I stop crying?

2007-10-02 12:24:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf of a 1.5 years doesn't want more kids. He has 1 - previous marriage. When we 1st started dating he said he would have 1 more. Then suddenly he broke up w/ me last April saying that 1 day I would want kids & he would not. (Note that I didn't bring it up.) After 6 weeks we got back together, our issues were unresolved. He says now that he knows we still have issues to work out. Also, that it is my choice to stay knowing what he wants & on the flip side I feel the same way. 1 of us would have to give in 1 day. He says that he definitely does not want another child but then at times he says that deep down he knows that he would be depriving me of something. So what gives & what is going through his head? He talks about getting married & buying a house knowing that this issue is there. I am nowhere near ready to have a child, I love him to death & can't imagine life without him. I think deep down I would choose him over the unknown I just want to know that I am doing the right thing.

2007-10-02 12:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by rayneyblu 2

Why do only women get engagement rings? I was chatting to a friend and this came up , why is this?

2007-10-02 12:13:33 · 29 answers · asked by Peter 4

Okay ladies, I'm not trying to offend anyone here but what is the big deal about getting married before you get pregnant? Don't get me wrong- my boyfriend and I have been together almost 5 years and we defiantly plan on getting married.. but wouldn't care if we got pregnant first. I understand the religious aspect of it... I am fairly religious (I believe in God, but don't follow the bible) but what about those of us who aren't? What about couples who do not believe that marriage is necessary if they're union is already strong enough? Seriously, in this day and age with divorce rates SO high... I just feel like bashing someone for having a baby out of wedlock is... pointless. If you love each other does it REALLY matter?

I'm just aggravated- I went to the docs today for a follow up from my miscarriage and when the doctor gave me a weird look after I told her we'd be trying to have a baby in the next couple months after she asked if I was married and I said no... I wanted to punch her

2007-10-02 12:11:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

have one of my own ( 11) and he has none. I married under the pretense that eventually, before im 32 to have a child and maybe adopt another if possible. He knew this! Just last yr i begin to notice that it didnt look like it was going to happen, so i came to him, we talked about it and i strongly told him that i would not have gotten married to some 1 who didnt intend on having ne kids, he replied that we will work on it. So time passes and nothing.He then says he'd rather adopt and not have a baby.So im thinking is there something wrong? He's 35!! The subj. has now become a tochy one when it should not be. So i ve excepted that i may not be having a child by this man and let god handle it but i strongly feel that he may not understand the commitment w\ adoption. So say he's sperm healthy- and doesnt want a kid 4 whatevr reasons, Im thinking about leaving him, becuzz i feel deceived i mean we could have just stayed lovers! What u think ladies? & Guys, whats the deal w\ this man?

2007-10-02 11:54:47 · 11 answers · asked by beachie909 1

2007-10-02 10:59:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous