I am a widower, lost my wife some seven months ago. I loved her a lot, miss her very much. Yearn for the company of a female, not for physical pleasure, but company. Not in excellent health myself.
2007-10-02 14:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by muthya52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have only one son, 24 years of age, living with me, what will he think, would he approve whole heartedly?
2007-10-02 15:02:08 · update #1
Yes it is a good thing for you to marry someone just as long as your not expecting great sex. At that age your body isn't what it use to be and sometimes sex is the last thing you have on your mind not because you don't want to your body is telling you no. If you are really doing it for female company and not just to have a woman take care of your house cooking cleaning washing your clothes then go for it.
2007-10-02 15:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...you don't necessarily need to get married, however if a relationship leads that way then thats outstanding. I guess it depends on your personal beliefs if marriage is a concern. Personally, I would not plan to spend the remaining years of my life as a lonely ogre...you have a lot to offer and there are many out there in need. friends are hard to find....but remember Viagra...ha ha...hell you still have a good 20 years at least if you play it right...don't give up so soon...my condolences on your loss, and don't attempt to predetermine the rest of your life in a day...determine the remaining years of your life for as long as you have it. and use up every last minute...get greedy and take whatever life has to offer, and give back with everything you have, especially to another special someone, papers or not...making that decision now is like setting a goal you dont want to keep. Good luck
2007-10-02 15:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by ca_ruff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
55 is still young, its hard to be alone, companionship is what life is all about. Volunteer, take up a hobby, go out and meet people, get a part time job, mentor some kids...... Seven months is still a short time and you must be in a lot of pain. Take it one day at a time. You are not the only lonely person out there. Good luck and go for it
2007-10-02 15:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Beatrice C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see nothing wrong with that as long as you give your wife the respect that she deserved as to not get married 2 weeks later. 7 months is a good amount of time to start moving on.
2007-10-02 15:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by <Carol> 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready to move on, find a companion, take a lady to lunch, find someone at your local church or a social gathering and doing something nice together. I know there is somone out there looking for the same thing and would like to share some common interests with you.
2007-10-02 14:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by hiba 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you truly love the person of course not. There is no such age as to how old is to old to get married, regardless of health as well love is love no need to hold back from one if your love knows your situation.
2007-10-02 15:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by fiestynay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's good for a man to remarry. God did not intend for man to be alone. Hopefully, you son will appreciate and respect your feelings. You need to share your feelings with him so he understands.
2007-10-02 16:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carla said better than i can.Some times the wisdom of a child,is worth more than a pound of GOLD.
2007-10-02 15:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an adult you don't have to answer to your son. If YOU want to get married get married don't worry about what you son, or anyone else thinks.
2007-10-02 20:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything wrong with that at all Congratulations, no one is guaranteed another breath, and if you can find happiness then go for it and enjoy it, be happy you deserve that
2007-10-06 19:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by smilie9862 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋