My ex-boyf. who broke up with me in February has just emailed me that he wants to meet me as he misses me. He says he cannot forget about me and he would like to meet me before I go off travelling. However, he has mentioned nothing about trying to be together again. He said that he feels scared that if we don't meet, we will loose each other for good. But last week when I tried to call him, he had no time for me and he brushed me off. The break up hurt me a lot and he was constantly calling me for the last 6 months not wanting us to cut all contact. I don't know what to do. Should I meet him? He said he would come to see me. I still haven't replied and he is calling me, texting me constantly asking me to reply.
2007-10-02 04:36:05 · 15 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
meet him in the daytime for a coffee maybe on a lunch break from work when you don't have much time don't let this man use you
2007-10-02 04:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's best not to hun. It sounds like a good old case of not wanting you-but not wanting anyone else to have you either. He needs to let you get on with your life, He knows that you are still crazy about him and wants to ensure you don't feel that way about anyone else! It's so hard to let go, I know. I'm going through exactly the same thing at the minute so I understand your struggle. Be strong x
2007-10-02 22:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by R1 Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish that meeting then meet with him, if not, not. If he wants only chat with you and his presence is painful for you then tell him that and leave him. If he wants to start the relationship again, and that is not against your will, then do that. Only meeting and having a chat maybe good if you feel friendship for him, but painful if you are still in love with him.
2007-10-02 04:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't meet him, you call him and he has no time for you, but he call you and wants you to make time for him. Don't do it. cut him off completely. He misses you but can't make time for you when you call is one sign of a confused person, or a person who is playing the field, and using you as a last resort.
2007-10-02 04:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that he wants to keep you hanging on. When it came time to meet him, he brushed you off. YOU have to decide whether to lay your heart out for him to hurt again. You have the ball in your court now, you know your already going to see him, just be careful.
2007-10-02 04:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as this will be I would prob advise you not to meet up with him. What will you gain from meeting up with him? Have you discussed with him his reasons for wishing to meet up?
I have a bad feeling you will end up hurting again. You have obviously began to move on from him, are you prepared to put yourself back and start again?
Good luck,
X
2007-10-02 09:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Baby B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say no
hard as it might be just think about all the hurt hes caused you and he thinks he can click his fingers and your gonna run!?
tell him no youve moved on and so should he, tell him that you will always love him but not in that way and that he broke your heart, make him feel bad
some men are so cheeky, expecting you to run and meet him when he clicks!
2007-10-02 04:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by spongebobs biggest fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to have sex with you before you go off. By him not talking when you tried leads me to believe that he has no intrest in you other than what he can get before you leave.
2007-10-02 04:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by John p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a case of either i don't want you but i don't want anybody else to have your or I'm hedging my bets in case nobody else wants me forget him get on with your life block your phone from his texts and calls and have a great time on your travels
2007-10-02 05:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by mini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm a very mixed up chappie !
Wait till youve done your travelling and see how you both feel but txt him to let him know !
2007-10-05 04:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋