Are you still considered a virgin if you don't have sex till you married? And why do people always get so defensive? Not being a virgin isn't a bad thing if your married is it? Lol, just thought I'd ask, cause I've always wondered, and well, that is kinda an akward question to ask someone in person, so thanks everyone!
2007-10-02 06:45:52 · 7 answers · asked by Mouse 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I'd say that being a virgin WHILE married is a bad thing - especially for your spouse !
2007-10-02 06:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by aa889d 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex you are NOT a virgin.
People get defensive when they aren't comfortable with a situation or idea.
It is normally encouraged to have sex if your married.
2007-10-02 06:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're either a virgin or not,virgin is someone who's never had sex.if you stop having sex that' doesnt make you a virgin and if married people are still virgins,there's something terribly wrong w/them
2007-10-02 06:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Adrienne L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are considered a virgin until you have sex. it used to be (back in the day) that you were generally seen as "slutty", "whore" "loose" if you had sex outside of marriage, but in today's society it is rare indeed if there is a virgin (male or female) on the wedding night.
2007-10-02 06:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a "v" until you have actual "relations" with someone. You can be married and a "v" up until you consummate your marriage.
It is not a bad thing to be a 'v'. It just goes to show you have self-respect and/or you have not found the right guy.
2007-10-02 06:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually the true definition of sex is penis in vagina intercourse. So you can masterbate by yourself or with someone, be fing3red, have anal sex, participate in oral and be titty screwed and still be defined as a virgin.
2007-10-02 08:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mouse, My dear people are supposed to be virgin"s when they marry. Then on their honeymoon give it up to their spouse ! That is God almighty"s plan !
2007-10-02 07:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋