2007-10-02 04:19:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
See a doctor about your snoring problem i guess.. A few more details would be nice.
2007-10-02 04:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Except for the pictures, I think you are WAY over-reacting. In the case of the pics, you have the right to insist they be taken down. But if you also have pics of your son online somewhere, then it will damage your positioin. You can't complain about her putting pics online if you are doing the same thing. Just because your child is sleeping in the same bed as your ex and his new girlfriend doesn't mean they're having SEX in the bed while your son is there, or ********* naked and showing their jiggly parts. If you have evidence of THAT, call the cops. But it sounds like you DON'T have evidence of that, or you'd have called the cops already. You say she lives there, right? Then she has a right to be there even when your son is there, and you DO NOT have the right to make her stay somewhere else. It is her home, and you must deal. Your ex has moved on and found a new woman. That woman is absolutely going to be a part of your son's life, and you have NO CHOICE in the matter. This became inevitable the moment you and your ex decided to split. Likewise, you may find a new man, and that new man is ALSO going to be a part of your son's life and your ex will have no say about that. 3 year olds often want to sleep in the same bed as their parents. Even if it's only one parent and a significant other. When I met my fiancee, she had a 2 year old. That 2 year old is now four, and has ALWAYS climbed into bed with us. We know what is appropriate for her, and what is not. It doesn't make us deviants, anymore than it makes your ex a deviant. Please do not make the mistake of using your son to drive a wedge between your ex and his new gf. It's tasteless, unfair to your son, and will ONLY end up causing MORE problems between you and your ex. That's not good for your son.
2016-03-19 03:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sleep on the couch all the time. My wife says she cant sleep with the TV on and I cant sleep without any kind of background noise. If I lay there in silence my mind runs wild thinking about random things that doesnt allow me to sleep. I also snore.
2007-10-02 04:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by twinturbo1994 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is only a matter of him trying to catch the news or sports and he falls asleep then, get a small T.V for the bedroom. But if he has made a bed out of the couch and intentionally stays away from you at night you need to sit him down and have a candid talk with him
2007-10-02 05:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by blackpearl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it is an issue of comfort- Does his back hurt?? or something else??? Ask him about it. Ask him why he is sleeping there.
Some people read too much into things. I remember before I married my now ex wife she woke up one night and I was sleeping in a recliner- she was seriously hurt by this and was crying and stormed out saying I didnt love her ( I should have taken the signal that she was nuts) The thing is that I had mono at the time and literally would sweat so much that the bed was soaked and I didnt want that to happen so I moved so she could sleep comfortably.
2007-10-02 04:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I used to do the same thing, and my girlfriend at the time wouldn't like it either. I didn't fall asleep on the sofa because I didn't want to sleep in bed with my girlfriend, it's just that I'd stay up and watch TV and fall asleep from lying down. There was no hidden meaning or affair behind it.
2007-10-02 04:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Guybrush 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why is he sleeping on the couch? If he just happens to fall asleep there...wake him up to go to bed with you.....but if he is choosing to sleep there...you need to find out why he would rather sleep on an empty couch then to be in a nice cozy bed with you.
2007-10-02 04:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ask him why he is sleeping on the couch
2007-10-02 04:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a heart to heart with him. Tell him how much you love him and want your marriage to work. Then ask him about it. You may already know of some possible problems in your relationship so start now by thinking of some solutions before your talk with him. Pray about it too. There is no problem too big for God.
2007-10-02 04:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You definitely need to talk to him, ask what you can do to help? I sleep on the couch at my home, because of several reasons, 1) hubby has restless legs and he kicks me! 2) hubby snores, 3) I can't sleep because I get worried about bills and stuff
2007-10-02 04:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Wow sorry to say but he is probably having sex with someone else. My ex slept on the couch for a good 2 years before i listened to my womans intuition and realized he was fooling around. I would definately talk to him about it and find out what his excuse is for sleeping there, just be aware that what he is telling you is probably bull s**t.
2007-10-02 04:26:53 · answer #11 · answered by Steviemercury 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋