Marriage & Divorce - 26 September 2007

when my husband tells me to leave i ask if he wants to be with me if you dont the i'll go he says he loves me but cant stand to be with me right now. we have been married for 4 and a half years and have a 4 year old daughter and hearing that just because i made him mad he cant stand to be with me it hurts so bad. i have gotten so tired of it the last time he said it i started packing me and my daughters thing and when he calmed down he came and talk to me and said sorry will u forgive me and i said i forgave u every other time i just cant this time it hurts to much. am i wrong not to forgive him i feel i am but i cant change the way it makes me feel

2007-09-26 15:02:55 · 20 answers · asked by alishia g 1

2007-09-26 14:49:01 · 13 answers · asked by lachi 2

I'm having some issues with my MIL (she's controlling and acts like she has more rights to my one year old than I do, lets her son get away with hitting my baby, and most recently ruined my sons bday party by pretty much refusing to let anyone hold him, kept sneaking off with him alone, and even said that SHE was going to help him open his presents!) OKay, so my husband agrees that this is all crazy, but won't talk to her. I can't seem to get him to understand where his responsibilities lie.. not with her, but with US. It's like he's afraid to confront her. I've already confronted her once (the last time her seven year old hurt my son) and haven't been back over to let her see her grandson, so now I feel it's his turn. He needs to stand up and be a man and back me up, am I wrong?

2007-09-26 14:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by ... 1

It's been 3 years since they offically broke up but in the past, while we were together, she would attempt to break us apart and make our lives miserable. I would find old pictures of her here and there which my husband would delete but it still upsets me. She finally got engaged and married but I still hate her with a passion. It's so bad that I have nightmares about her trying to interfere with our relationship. I've never spoke to her before but she still makes me angry. Why can't I get over it?

2007-09-26 14:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by Sweetybab3 1

i am 13 years old and i really want 2 be a disney star or movie star like miley cyrus except i cant sing and im not good at singing.... what is a way I can prepare for acting auditions for the future like when im 16 or 19?

2007-09-26 14:13:59 · 2 answers · asked by Gloria. 2

I Got The Perfect Life If There Is Such A Thing. Wife,2 Kids. House Mini-Van. You Get It The Works, But I Am Bored! Wife Talks About Same Old Stuff Life IS In A Rut.My Kids I Love To Death. But I Feel My Unhappyness Is Starting To Show Thru. I Have No Other Women In My Life. But Missing The Single Life But Know Even With Divorce. Single Life Wouldn't Be The Same As It Once Was. Is This Mid-Life Problem At 34. Or Is This Something Else.

2007-09-26 14:07:44 · 18 answers · asked by TomKat 2

2007-09-26 14:00:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your husband talked dirty to other women and refused to stop.

2007-09-26 13:56:07 · 16 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4

I may need some examples on this. Thanks guys in advance.

2007-09-26 13:49:21 · 20 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

While I think it is awesome that woman can work and support themselves, I have noticed that in families where the wife makes more or is more educated than the man they are very likely to divorce. Am I incorrect? If this is true, why?

2007-09-26 13:48:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can I do to help him not be so prude? He is all about him and none about me. He is a five minute ejectulation and he is done. We have been married almost 20 years. We haven't had a physical relationship for over half of it. I recently let him know I was not being fullfilled and he said he try but that hasn't happened yet. How can I help him to help me?

2007-09-26 13:39:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well this is goin to be hard to explain but ill make as short and simple as i can. My mom and dad Seperated about a year+ ago, But they are not legally seperated. And My dad left but my mom stayed with me and my sister. And my dad started dating My moms bestfriend. Today my mom n her are not friends tho. Well my mom is still inlove with my dad and will take him back whenever! And my dad says he is over my mom and is moving on with his life. But heres the proublem the girl my dads with was my moms bestfriend... and my moms bestfriend stole my dad, and after that i didnt like her at all. But my mom got a guy that she is starting to like and im accepting him. And im kinda caught, becuase i want to spend time with my dad alot, becuase i only see him like once a month. But i just dont wanna be around the girl hes with, and i want to accept it but im afraid to accept it. im afraid my mom will get sad that im accepting her after what she did to my family. What should i do?

2007-09-26 13:32:38 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie L 2

I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months- We have fallen head over heals in love and we have been discussing marriage for the past 3 months. We have both been in other relationships are we just "Got It:) We have been using birth control for the entire in time. We have been living together happily in San Francisco since July and are both successful. Yes, we moved fast- But things are working out perfectly!

And now ther juicy part- After a routine check up "B" was told she was pregnant. We both found out today and I went with her to the dr. office. for the actual ultrasound. I took her to back to work and I took the rest of the day off.

This woman is my dream come true in every possible way. Tonight we are going to discuss this together- I am going to ask her to marry me- She is 24- I am 32. What do you think of all of this? I want it all with her- I am off to pick her up from work- Thanks for your input!

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2007-09-26 13:19:26 · 28 answers · asked by EverydayExpert 1

My husband sometimes drops me off at work. My schedule is 9:30am to 6:00pm, I dont always get off at 6pm. He gets mad because, in the past, I would come down around 6:10pm or 6:15pm after cleaning up some last minute details on loans I was disbursing. He says for this reason, he started emailing me to find out what time I am getting off. I got used to this being the "norm" Today, he came to my job to pick me up at 6:00pm and I wasnt out there. I didnt get an email and I didnt get a call. I had no idea he was out there. When I called at 6:45pm to say I was ready he was screaming at me because he had been sitting outside with our some for 30 minutes. He said I am inconsiderate because I didnt call. I am ignorant because I didnt know he was out there and I should have found out. I know I should have called earlier to find out what was going on, but I assumed he was sleeping because I am so used to getting that email. I understand he is mad, but does this make me inconsiderate?

2007-09-26 13:18:39 · 40 answers · asked by forever charmed 2

I someone says 'you really spoil your husband/wife girl/boyfriend does that mean a good thing or does it mean you're whipped?

2007-09-26 13:00:12 · 16 answers · asked by Nash M 1

My husband and I have been separated for over a year. We both would like to work toward bringing our family and relationship back together?

How can we start?

He is currently involved with someone who has been like a "girlfriend" but he is now running her business...I would like him to eventually cut all ties. Is that unreasonable? It is his current income.

Our separtion came after some horrible events in our lives. There was serious illness (i had cancer, my dad and his mom), death, (his mom) and several other tradgedies. I know they say it brings you closer but I can understand why couple who lose a child usually end up divorced. it's hard. We've had time to reflect.

He says he dreams of us being a family but can't commit because he doesn't know if it is just going back to comfort zone or not.

We are both open to councilling. We just don't know where to start. I just want to move on as a family and he says he needs more time...it's been almost 2 years.

2007-09-26 12:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Sandra C 2

My best friend's husband has just broken up with her via text message! this is no joke! he didn't have the maturity or decency to walk the block to her parents house to tell her in person or even call and tell her verbally over the phone- he won't accept her calls either. they've been married for almost 4 years - and were married in the lds temple (ie. for time and all eternity). How can someone throw that away so easily? He's refused councelling and doesn't seem to want to do anything towards a reconcilliation. Do you have some advice or words of comfort for my friend?

2007-09-26 12:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 12:51:55 · 18 answers · asked by Gé Bauzá 2

My husband had an affair with a co-worker while I was pregnant (beginning my third trimester). I had my baby and two months after I confronted him since I was suspecting something was up. When I asked he confessed everything, and said he'd dumped her the next day. I gave him another chance & a week later they're still in contact, confronted him again and said it was finally over & this time was for sure. I'm trying to rebuild our marriage but don't know if I'll ever get over this. I'm trying but I find myself crying and depressed all the time. How can I overcome this. It's killing me inside. I ask him to give me access to his cell bill and he doesn't want to, does this mean he's still in contact with her? I don't know how to deal with this, help.

2007-09-26 12:51:11 · 17 answers · asked by Mari 1

Does sex make marriage official? Please don't call me stupid. I just want to know.

2007-09-26 12:43:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just found out for sure that my husband is a bigamist. What do I do? I'm so scared! I suspected it for a long time but finally found out through vital statistics in Kansas that he was married and it took about 2 weeks but I found that no state in the US has a record of divorce. What do I need to do?

2007-09-26 12:32:52 · 15 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6

Ok... Before my divorce was filed, My then husband married the woman he cheated on me with. They were in another state than I and he lied on the marriage application. We were still married at the time. How do I go about getting him charged with bigamy?

2007-09-26 12:22:58 · 22 answers · asked by daniegirl917 2

It's 10 months and counting to my wedding day. I am really looking forward to my wedding day. Can you give me advice about anything regarding finances,children,in laws, sex etc.?

2007-09-26 12:13:38 · 13 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4

Did he start slacking on showering and shaving and putting on deoderant? Did he start passing flatus and thinking it was funny? Did he stop cleaning up after himself and leaving huge messes in the kitchen?
Did he all the sudden not care about his clothing and personal hygeine?
Tell me about it?

2007-09-26 12:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I looked at him, GIGGLING of course and said, "anytime".

Now, please tell me if there is any "slang" that I can say back to him to rock his world...

Thanks;)

just for fun!

2007-09-26 12:06:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a married woman of 12 years and was given a bunch of tests prior to the birth of my daughter. My DR gave me some other tests and when I went into the hospital to have her..he said that he had to give me a c-section because my results on one of the tests came back positive for herpes type 2!
I have never touched nor thought of another man! I am deeply religious and would never forsake my vows!
I have a son who is ten by husband, but nothing showed up when I had him!
How could I get this if I have never been with another man except my husband?
He swears that he has never touched another woman, and i am so distraught after giving birth to my daughter.
Please help me.

2007-09-26 12:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4

I need serious answers please!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My husband has just recently been accepted into the RT program in the state where we live. The program is from 8-5 Monday thru Friday for two years. I support my husband in everything he does but I don't know what to do in this situation. My husband will be taking a $4.00 pay cut and also be cut from 40 hours a week to maybe 20 hours. He currently is responsible for paying the rent and his car note (both totaling almost $1300). We have two kids and I already work a full and a part time job. I take care of all the utilities, my car note, and anything that concerns the children. My question is should we consider moving in with my parents until he finishes school or should he reconsider going to school?

FYI-We will be paying my parents $300 a month to stay with them so that would eliminate the light bill, phone bill and the rent.

2007-09-26 11:39:32 · 20 answers · asked by Nubian_Princess 1

Me and my husband have been married for going on five years. It used to be about me and him (and the kids of course), but now it just feels like it's just me and the kids.
Don't get me wrong, he is a wonderful hubby and daddy, he doesn't go out and party with his friends....its his work. He is a firefighter/EMT. For instance, today was his day off, he still felt the need to go to the FH to catch up on work, comes home to eat...then goes back over there for a meeting. I'm so lonely. Its not fair that I am at home 24/7 with the kids. I tell him how I feel but all he says is..."its part of my job. I know that he loves us unconditionally...I just wish he showed it more.

2007-09-26 11:36:19 · 7 answers · asked by sunnysideup 4

Is it more acceptable for a man to cheat? Are women being silly asking men to be monogamous?

2007-09-26 11:23:38 · 15 answers · asked by Carm Soprano 1

My ex bf...when we were together was supposedly depressed and wanted to kill himself, come to find out he got a one nightstand pregnant before we met. He only wanted to talk to me, said he trusted me. Well...when I helped him come to terms with it. He left me to be with the mother of his child, and I found out while I was in the hospital. He didnt even care that I was ill, he told me never to call him again. This is what I got for being there for him. Please tell me and help me understand,...so I have every right to call him and tell him what a piece of **** he is??/ Because I did ...amongst other things I said. I helped him meet his daughter and helped him with suicide and I got huge slap in the face. Mind you, him and the other one are no longer together, but I hate him sooo much for what he did to me. He messed with my mind with the suicide threats that I had to see a therapist. I feel he is an ungrateful sob, is it wrong to feel this way??

2007-09-26 11:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous