Being a psychologist, people expect us to be able to deal with our problems easily, but applying our own advice to our problems is sometimes hard. My long time friends (since elementary) have never accepted my husband. Since I met him, they have not done the slightest effort to get to know him. He is from a different country and that seemed to set them back from the get go. He is compassionate, funny, outgoing, wealthy and you can tell he really loves me. Shouldn't they be happy for me? I feel like I can't count on them for anything. Now I never attend any events where they might be because I feel like I'm exposing myself to get hurt again and again, but they think I'm just not interested in them. I have tried for over 1 year to keep them close and to have them as friends but they have disappointed me again and again. I already tried telling them about my disappointment, and they have done nothing. Should I sit down with them and let them know that I am still hurt and disappointed?
2007-09-26
04:09:35
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