Marriage & Divorce - 26 September 2007

Or one who was beautiful but was kinda.....ya know.

2007-09-26 03:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband seemed to get bore with me after a couple of weeks since we were toghther..and seeing he looks at other woman i fell in love with other man...

i never cheated....but i wanted..later i realised it would have been better if i would have divorced..instead of letting him cheat me so many times..

2007-09-26 03:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

His ex wife married him sometime while she was in high school and divorced him in the 1980's.
I want to know when they were married. Are these records public? Can I call the courthouse and ask when their marriage was registered and when they were divorced?

2007-09-26 03:46:00 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6

My ex has not been paying child support so I took him to court. He is now married, and she is paying all the bills. We have court Friday, and I need to know if he shows nothing earned on his past two W2's, will her income come into play. Also they own five homes, two in both their names, and three under just his wifes. Four are vacation homes that they rent out, and one is their residence. They have asked me to settle before court, I don't want to make a decision to settle, then regret it. Any input asap would be greatly appreciated!! Thank you!

2007-09-26 03:45:33 · 16 answers · asked by Angel333... 2

My husband and I split up because he drank too much, was using drugs and was abusive. He started an affair with a girl half his age. He was doing it with her in my house while I was at work. And threatened our children if they told me. I got a restraining order against him. He keeps violating it and the police won't do anything because we live in two different states. How can I stop him. He gets my number off those "search for anyone" sites.

2007-09-26 03:43:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 2 years, have a beautiful child with my stunning wife. We have very healthy sex life, and very happy marriage. Even though I'm sitting here in an office with 20 of the finest hotties, all I'm doing is fantasizing about my wife at home. is this normal?

2007-09-26 03:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by James 2

When my boyfriend and I have sex he always comes in 5 mins or less?

Do that mean it's bad or good?

He has sex before mean?

or he just don't like my sex?

and please don't reply as a 5 min man because I don't need the jokes.

I will like to here from the men.

2007-09-26 03:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by msgris2000 2

I was having a good relationship with my wife for more than 9 years.
Recently about a month ago she started to hear voices in her head and she is blaming me and my parents for that.
She thinks that we want to get rid of her for another girl.
I have given all kind of assurance but she is not convinced.
Once of the voice in her head resemble my father's voice and that voice tell her that she married me for my money, she is not fit for me.
I love her but she is bent on destroying our marriage.
We have 3 kids and I love them. Now I am worrying about their future if there is a divorce.
I have tried everything like talking to her, taking her to doctor, making her realise the future of our kids.
I am sure she is not having extra maritial affair.
I was having fanancial issue and since I am the only earning member I never told her the true financial picture but I was talking care of all the bills and groceries.
The only thing we could not do was to take vacation.
Any suggestion?

2007-09-26 03:24:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i decided to switch partners with two of our good friends. We were all drunk on new years and said we'd like to try something new. It was too good to be true. I ended up getting pregnant. I don't know for sure who the dad is. My husband or our friend. My husband asid he would leave me if the baby isn't his. How can he do this to me? Didn't he do the same thing? Can anyone justify his thinking?

2007-09-26 03:15:42 · 12 answers · asked by noname 2

to keep a marriage alive? or a relationship for that matter

its always made me wonder because we talk about 'working' at marriage... yet if you think about ur closest friend that relationship is easy. and since you should marry your best friend... shouldnt it be easy?

now dont get me wrong i know its not easy to always get on with each other... but isnt there an element of somehting that just works? somehting that you mearly have to tinker withh everynow and then not the sort of major overhaul people seem to hint at?

what do you all think?

2007-09-26 03:12:00 · 13 answers · asked by LBB 5

2007-09-26 03:00:35 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs.R 1

I have had deep suspiscions that my husband was seeing/having sex with my best friend. I have had a gut feeling
for some time now. Unfortunately I don't have proof so I decided to go straight to the source and just ask my best friend.

I sent her an e-mail asking her if they had sex or were seeing each other. I told her that I just need the truth and I won't be mad at her if she did (which obviously isn't true).

I sent her the e-mail 3 days ago and she hasn't responded or called me and she never attended my baby shower which is not like her at all. Just wondering your thoughts on this.....

Help...

2007-09-26 02:58:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have my girl friend.i love her.but the problem is that she is very jealous.if i just take look at another girl on the streets or in metro,she will immediately get angry and will want to separate.she will say that am looking at different woman because she is not my type and i prefer others..what can i do so that to get out this complex out of her head and convince her that i love her and she is the type of woman i like.?looking at others dont necesarily mean i dont like her.

2007-09-26 02:53:02 · 24 answers · asked by ashvin d 2

when I married my wife we didn't talk to anyone about her changing her name.Has it changed to mine automaticly or do we need to do anything to confirm what we would like to happen?

2007-09-26 02:51:39 · 21 answers · asked by jumbocollins 2

I know I'm wrong. Go ahead and let me have it. I don't know who the dad is and my husband says he'll leave me if it's not his. Should I just leave now?

2007-09-26 02:49:56 · 43 answers · asked by noname 2

We have been married less than 2yrs have a baby who is 5months, and my husband seams to not wanting to have sex lately. We were having sex a lot even when I was 9months preg. I lost all the preg weight, i work out so i look great. I dress sexy for him sometimes i sleep naked, he will give me message but won't have sex with me. We only have sex like twice or once a month for about 4mont. Even when he is in the mood he says he can't do it 'cuase he takes zolaft which makes him not be able to get hard. When we have sex is great but i think once or twice a month for 29 yr old man is not normal im 21. What can I do?Help.

2007-09-26 02:43:28 · 13 answers · asked by Leyla 2

2007-09-26 02:34:14 · 21 answers · asked by mish 2

2007-09-26 02:33:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean what BMI score you will have, but what do you think about that hight and weight together on a man?

2007-09-26 02:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found emails that suggest my husband was cheating while we were still together. We have been seperated for 6 months, but can these emails be used as a grounds for immediate divorce? Or should I just pass and wait the year? The other party lives in another state.

2007-09-26 02:29:26 · 13 answers · asked by butta1898 2

but he refuses to see the docter. He is also drooling like mad all the time. I think mah pa is dying what should I do?

2007-09-26 02:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our daughter is not speaking to us. I absolutely fell in love with her and we had a really good solid family. We had so much fun with soccer, having tea parties, making forts out of old sheets, I helped out at school and sometimes I would have lunch with her and her friends in the cafeteria.

We had out to eat night and we even shared coffee together at our local coffee shop when she was in her teens. We went to the Zoo at least once a week ... and oh the fun I had helping her with school projects!

Where did we go wrong? She married this guy and did not even tell us for over a year. Now she is not speaking to us???
We miss her so much ...
What should we do? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.

2007-09-26 02:26:19 · 24 answers · asked by Shells 4

my husband and i are divorcing, i'm buying him out of the property, and my friend stays a few nights a week. my husband says he wants rent from my friend because he owns half the property at the moment,can he legally get rent from her?

2007-09-26 02:18:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together 12 years... he is a good person and I care about him and consider him my best friend but I just don't love him in a romantic way anymore and I want to be with someone else. I have tried to tell him many times how I feel but he threatens to kill himself if I ever leave him. I believe he may do it as he is emotionally unstable and suffers from anxiety but refuses to see a doctor. He has no family and I feel responsible for him. Now I have met someone else I really want to be with.. but I feel trapped. Is there a way out????

2007-09-26 02:18:18 · 31 answers · asked by wild 9 1

I don't even know how to ask this question because it is so painful. My husbands X accused him of many things and in the war of he said she said the courts believed her. He now has supervised visits with his two small children and has been jumping through hoops for the last 2 1/2 years to try to get regular visitation. He has no police record, there was no proof of anything.
You may think that that makes him a bad guy and I would have leaned toward that too if I didn't live the situation with him. She has taught his kids 3 and 5 to kick and hit. Call his mom "Icky grandma" In front of the supervised visit lady she told them to tell him that they don't like him and don't want to come and call him "big dummy" If we ever did get regular visits I'm afraid with in a week we'd have social services at our door saying we abused them. The pain of having someone demonize you and your family to your kids is awful. Any words of advice?

2007-09-26 02:16:06 · 10 answers · asked by girlnextdoor409 5

2007-09-26 02:15:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

This morning we got into a argument about his brother being in jail and me talking with his parents about it trying to keep them calm, he started screaming and tapped me 3 times on the cheek and spit right in my face and walked away laughing. I could not believe he spit in my face much less touched my face.

2007-09-26 02:12:31 · 17 answers · asked by Secret 1

Hi
please give me some tips to heat up my wife at night...but real good one's !

2007-09-26 01:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone, my husband and I just got married about a month ago and have been together for well over a year, we are very happy together..best friends...inseparable...the whole deal but his need for sex is very low. I know I can't judge men by this, but Ive always thought men wanted sex 24/7 and were major perverts all the time but he's not. He is satisfied having sex just a couple times a month! And no he is not cheating and I havent "let myself go" but what is up with that? Can some men just be that way?

2007-09-26 01:29:36 · 31 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3

what should she have me do that would be humiliating and show my subservience to her? She wil be choosing the best answer.

2007-09-26 00:57:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous