I was having a good relationship with my wife for more than 9 years.
Recently about a month ago she started to hear voices in her head and she is blaming me and my parents for that.
She thinks that we want to get rid of her for another girl.
I have given all kind of assurance but she is not convinced.
Once of the voice in her head resemble my father's voice and that voice tell her that she married me for my money, she is not fit for me.
I love her but she is bent on destroying our marriage.
We have 3 kids and I love them. Now I am worrying about their future if there is a divorce.
I have tried everything like talking to her, taking her to doctor, making her realise the future of our kids.
I am sure she is not having extra maritial affair.
I was having fanancial issue and since I am the only earning member I never told her the true financial picture but I was talking care of all the bills and groceries.
The only thing we could not do was to take vacation.
Any suggestion?
2007-09-26 03:24:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, personally I think a family can only take so much of what your wife is dishing out. Though I know you love her, and I'm sure those kids do too. But you must think about them and there well being! It isn't fair to them, especially if she and you are arguing in front of them.I would try talking to her one last time Maybe even writing a letter. Sometimes, you can reach a person on a higher level, when there reading how feel. Cause sometimes people choose to block out everything you say, no matter the importance of what you're saying.
Then, once you do this, I would give her a choice. She sounds mentally sick. And I'm not saying that is why you should make a choice, but it sounds like her sickness is causing friction with in your marraige and family. What is best for you and the childre?? Think of that, and you have your answer. Hope this helps!:)
2007-09-26 03:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I am not a doctor, but, it sounds like she could possible have a bipolar disorder. That is one of the symptoms of it anyway. I would talk to her Doctor about it and maybe get a second opinion. Maybe she is feeling worthless since she is a stay at home mom. She could probably be depressed. Either way I would seek medical attention for her.
2007-09-26 03:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Behavin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs psychiatric care. If her doctor isn't taking this seriously then find a doctor who will. Shouldn't give up on her if she has been a good wife for 9 years. This sounds like a serious medical problem. Sometimes medicines can cause psychiatric side effects, is she taking any meds?
2007-09-26 03:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by dobeys2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is hearing voices in her head and has started to act unlike herself, I seriously recommend a psychiatric evaluation. These hallucinations can be signs of a psychiatric disorder. You married her for better or worse, and if she is diagnosed with some serious disease, she will need your support now more than ever. Best of luck!
2007-09-26 03:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by onlinetherapist.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did the doctor say? I am thinking that she needs to see a psychiatrist or be put in a mental institution if she is hearing voices......i would just push her to get help...
2007-09-26 03:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anna J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's hearing 'voices' in her head i seriously doubt a trip to Aruba would be theraputic.
More like some psychotropic drugs. They usually do the trick.
2007-09-26 03:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is ill, seriously ill. You have to regard all the situation from this pint of view. Till your family does not suffer of her illness you should keep loving her. If the situation begins to be difficult for all the family, then you should think of separate her from the family somehow. This is sad, but true.
2007-09-26 04:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, there has to be a reason for this. try giving her a set of head phones, and on the tape record your voice and tell her how much you care out her, about an hour long. and tell her to listen to it as she is going to sleep. and try to pray over her while she is sleep or pray together.
2007-09-26 03:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Hopethishelps! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs medical help immediately. Hearing voices is NOT good. Find a good psychiatrist for her.
2007-09-26 03:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one but you could try counseling. maybe she needs to talk to someone. it's easier for you to figure her out with help from another listener and you are less likely to argue in front of a stranger.
2007-09-26 03:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by in love! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋