Marriage & Divorce - 26 September 2007

My wife and I separated 6 months ago and our 3 children live with me in the family home. While she has contact with the children she does not provide any support for them. Our 2 eldest are at university and working and do not need financial support from their mother but I am not sure whether I should ask for some financial help for our daughter

2007-09-26 08:15:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

To make my story short husband of 13 y cheated on me 2 y ago, i have never been over it but stayed for my 3 children.I got a job overnight and believe me it's my safe haven because i get to leave the house and have my mind on something else.I have made many friends witch i did not have at all b4,and one day someone told him i speak with guy co-workers and flipped.We had an argument that turned violent and he went to jail for a month but still is on trial on top of that he lost his job.He lives with his sister now . He calls me almost every other day 3 or more times a day asking for forgiveness and that he does not want to loose his family.He has lost weight ,does not sleep and is constanly seeking a way to see me.I remind him every time of what he did to me and my sleepless nights also, that killed every deep emotion i had for him.He cries constantly and begs for my forgivness but i have set my foot down.I care for him but love is not in me anymore.

2007-09-26 07:51:03 · 23 answers · asked by flaca 2

i was his first girlfriend. I always think that we end up together. but we lose communications and he called me. we have a nice talk, remembering the past life we shared. He told me he's still single but after few months of sharing love thoughts he told me he was married, deny it at first because he don't want to hurt me for i'm still special. I told him that i can't let him go, i don't want to give him up. it's very hard, it made me sick just thinking of him and the memories we have. help!!!

2007-09-26 07:48:25 · 51 answers · asked by rhodz 2

I have been married what will be 5 yrs soon and I am 25 yrs old going on 26 ; my husband is 35 yrs old.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a previous relationship and a son who will be turning 2 yrs old(not my hubbys).My hubby cheated we seperated 5-6 months and i cheated in retaliation 2 weeks later I got back together with my husband unaware i was pregnant with my son.I informed my hubby that we might need a paternity test but when the doctor placed conception in time line we had gotten back together hubby said dna test was not needed.When my son was 1.5 we had a medical emergency a dna test was done it turned out my hubby was not the dad.My hubby got extremley harsh since then spanking the kids over small things and being very controling with me.I told him last night that we needed to talk today over dinner and this morning i left for 4 hrs to babysit for a friend.To come home to a almost vacant and vandalized house and no clothing?Police came said all i could do is file report?

2007-09-26 07:44:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many women actually buy porn and enjoy it?what about about romantic porn or porn designed to be appealing at women...i can't seem to find it anywhere though i'm sure there must be some out there.any suggestions?

2007-09-26 07:36:17 · 19 answers · asked by luckyi_iducky 1

Most of my friends do. What I mean is, they no longer keep in touch with you, they could care less now that they are married if they even have any friends. They do the same with their family almost.

Is that going to happen to me too when I get married in this upcoming February? Does it happen to all couples? Does this happen just to young couples?

2007-09-26 07:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 07:30:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf & I have talked about getting married he will do it becasue I want it, but to him its just a piece of paper. I dont want to marry someone who thinks that is all it is. Its like a pity marriage, I will do this just to make you happy. If it isnt important to him as well I dont want that on me. I dont know what to do. I dont want him to marry me because its what I want but I dont know what to say to show him that is more then that. Is it hopeless and I should just live with him forever, get married knowing it means nothing to him, or move on? I dont want to move on btw. Thanks.

2007-09-26 07:22:58 · 17 answers · asked by GeorgiaGal 1

and the thing I noticed about him is that he never ask me about my past...at all. Hasnt asked about my childhood, parents, exes...nothing. Is this weird? I have asked him about all this on his end, but he never ask me. Iam 26 and he is 37. He says he cares about me and loves me but I found that his no asking me anything is weird.

2007-09-26 07:18:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

4 years ago my parents got a divorce. I have been tossed around back and forth like a football. My mom is my best friend and i strongly dislike my dad. i live at my dads right now, going to an exemplementary school. But i want to be at my mom's but their education isnt that great. Should i be happy and in a poorer school or should i be depressed in a good school that i hate everyone at????

2007-09-26 07:12:11 · 18 answers · asked by Ella 1

My husband and I are married and I have honestly never cheated on him. She is crazy and claims its my ex boyfriends. For a while she was ok and kept the baby now she started this again. Should she pay for the dna test or should we?

2007-09-26 07:08:41 · 28 answers · asked by Retired Punk 2

We were at this wedding somebody i don't know who the person was but I was sitting next to my husband and I kept noticing that he was trying to have a conversation with someone across the room. And I keep having dreams that my husband is cheating but there all different.

2007-09-26 07:05:29 · 26 answers · asked by adever23 2

Guys, what would you do in this situation?

this girl you've been chasing for months (about four) finally gave in (sexually) but you didn't have a chance to really explore her the way you wanted. When you ask her to do it again, she said no and that was the end of it. No matter how hard you try to persuade her (manipulate). You were not able to get much more than words that showed that she cared about you but she wouldnt give in sexually because she stated that she felt that after that experience she felt that it would be best if she stayed in a non-sexual relationship. What would you do in this situation?

she was a virgin

2007-09-26 06:59:59 · 14 answers · asked by . 3

Why/when would a state get involved in collecting child support when the child support order is in another state (CP is in the state where the order was issued and the NCP lives in another state.)

The specified amount of child support is being withheld from a paycheck. The employer is sending it (or supposed to be sending it to the CP state collection agency). What happens if the employer isn't sending it? What responsibility does the NCP have if it is being withheld and not paid? The NCP has called to verify payments and the employer is saynig that the support is being paid in the correct amount to the correct person.

Thanks for the answers!

2007-09-26 06:54:08 · 13 answers · asked by justcatch13 1

do you think your children know when their parents are mad at each other ..i mean the little ones , i have two boys 5, and 2. lately we have arguing and have plenty of issues , the other day i was making dinner and my husband was still at work so i asked my 5 year old if he would like to eat....his response was "NO i want to wait for my daddy and we are ALL going to eat TOGETHER like a FAMILY " and then he continues " ..and after were done eating we are going to take a WALK together like families do " does this mean my boy is feeling a little sad and is aware of what is happening with his parents?? i'm so sad i don't want to continue to hurt my boys..any advise please.
there has been divorce talk on my husband part i still love him and more than anything i would like to work things out ..but my boys are the most important thing in this crazy world and i don't want to see them hurt anymore! but is it a loose loose situation ..either we divorce and my boys have a broken family ....

2007-09-26 06:43:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband/father of 2 children and i moved back in together a year ago. During our 3 year break-up he has made new female friends (2 in particular). He still continues to have conversations with them as they call him and he returns the calls. I told him in the begining that the friendships needed to be incorporated and still a year later and I do not personally know the 2 women and it makes me feel angry that he continues having conversations with them and has actually been out with them without telling me cause he knew i would get upset. I dont understand why i cant be included in these friendships. Basically i am looking for advise as to if my feelings of resentlment / jealously are valid. And also....
Is it fair to ask him to cut the cord?.....Should I call these specific 2 women and have a heart to heart talk with them stating that it is causing problems and out of respect would appreciate that they not continue having conversations w him unless they come to our house

2007-09-26 06:42:04 · 24 answers · asked by Flaca 1

i want to but not sure if i should?????is this a bad idea????he must love me to want a child with me....

2007-09-26 06:39:00 · 30 answers · asked by badkittykitty2001 1

I read question after question, regarding women who don't have self confidence, why are we so insecure and why don't we stand up to whats right?? Lets get it together foreal, We have to represent, so that our daughters can grow up and be strong and teach there daughters, not allowing them to see men to take advantage of us. Whats up ladies? Do we agree?

2007-09-26 06:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by passionate 3

His first will was done by his sister, it was never signed or witnessed. There were 2 copies. After he passed, her copy was signed with a rubberstamp signature which is illegal. She worded the Will to benefit her. Calif is a state that doesn't recognize common law. Now we found another Will in some papers, what should I do? Basically lawyers I spoke to are saying he passed intestate. So next of kin will get everything, I helped build with him? I can file criminal charges on her too, I don't know what to do or where to turn, lawyers are no help because we weren't married. If I knew a piece of paper would be the solve all to any problems, I would have gotten married. We built a life together, she can just take it away?

2007-09-26 06:37:20 · 4 answers · asked by nascar lady 3 and 8 1

I know someone who just had a baby, weeks old. He is taking care of things financially, and he's there for the mother, but he does not want to be with her. They realized this during the pregnancy. Now he really wants to bond with his daughter, but because he does not want to be with the mother, the family is making that very difficult, and the mother isn't really doing anything about it, except trying to get back with him. He is very frustrated because he actually WANTS to be there, unlike other fathers the world complains about. His friends are saying don't worry, when the daughter gets older she'll decide for herself, but he doesn't want to give up all this time. He actually wants be there, and help take care of her. Has he really given up the right to be there with his baby just because he doesn't want to be with the mother? Shouldn't the baby take precedence over what's going with them? They are very civil with each other by the way. She just wants to be back with him, & he doesnt.

2007-09-26 06:33:40 · 19 answers · asked by Camille J 3

2007-09-26 06:33:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

your spouse and what is your spouses ethnicity?

2007-09-26 06:32:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are expecting our first child and since I have been pregnant he won't have sex with me, I feel that he does not notice me anymore, and I feel that he may be cheating, and do not know how to talk to him about the situation? Please help!!!!

2007-09-26 06:30:13 · 42 answers · asked by Becca 1

what is the biggest turn ons for guys, how do you keep you husband satisfied and interested..

2007-09-26 06:29:12 · 21 answers · asked by kisses 2

Hey!
This questions is for anyone, male, female, any sexuality etc who is STILL in a grade A relationship.
How did you do it? What makesthe two of you 'happy together'?
What are your words of wisdom for all the hopeful romantics out there?
OR have you been in an amazing relationship that sadly went wrong? Why and how did it take that route after initial success?
Congratulations and I wish you continuing happiness.
Oh PS: a few months into your relationship doesn't count lol, you're still high in the honeymoon period!

2007-09-26 06:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 06:27:45 · 22 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3

2007-09-26 06:27:19 · 4 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3

2007-09-26 06:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems as though just about everyone in their early 20's plans to get married eventually. But the divorce rate is 50 percent. And once a couple starts a family, then it's constant stress and responsibility. I'm 26 and I'm not planning to ever get married or have kids and I'm happy about that. I love the idea of being free and spending my free time relaxing at home or traveling abroad, rather than changing pooped diapers and helping with homework.

So, are people really as happy once they get married as they thought they would be or do many feel trapped and wish they were still single with no kids?

2007-09-26 06:10:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 06:01:54 · 49 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3