why woman are so jealous?pls help?

Question

i have my girl friend.i love her.but the problem is that she is very jealous.if i just take look at another girl on the streets or in metro,she will immediately get angry and will want to separate.she will say that am looking at different woman because she is not my type and i prefer others..what can i do so that to get out this complex out of her head and convince her that i love her and she is the type of woman i like.?looking at others dont necesarily mean i dont like her.

Answer 1

Use your head man! Don't be so obvious. If your head is on a swivel when you're with your girlfriend, she's going to see that, and she's going to feel threatened. If you truly love your girlfriend and she is your type, then don't act like you're looking for something else. It's one thing to notice a pretty girl, it's quite another when you drink her in. Do you know what I'm saying? Make your girlfriend believe that you only have eyes for her.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Maybe she is a little insecure and she feels like you may want to be with other women. Try to make her fell good and let her know that she is the only woman that you want. Also in the mean time dont look at anyone because you already know how that makes her feel, once you build up that confidence , everything will begin to get better...

Answer 4

Through my dating years I discovered something about men looking at other women.

Some men will glance at another woman as though they are reading a street sign. Those glances never affected me.

Then there are men who gawk more than glance. You know, a long up and down look with "thought" in thier eyes. Those looks drove me crazy.

So, I'm saying that it's one of two things. She's either terribly insecure and frights at anything or you may be looking a little too long and hard.

Answer 5

That's not an easy one to answer as I've seen it go both ways. My personal concept is Jealousy is a "Waste Of Energy" if you won't "Trust" the person, then it's based on some past event in her life. Either she has been screwed around on in the past, or she is very insecure about herself.
The easy answer is "I'm with YOU aren't I?" "If I wanted someone ELSE, I wouldn't be with YOU."
Probably the Best thing she could do would be to get some counselling for HER problem. Weather it's low self esteem or a past infidellity problem in her past.
The bottom line, lay it on the line, if she's not going to TRUST you she's "History"
You can't go through life like a horse with "blinders" on....
Hope this helps some.

Answer 6

Well, it would help if you try to not look at other women when you are with her. Also, it is in the way you look that may have a negative effect on her self esteem. People will most likely write and say it is your girlfriend who has a low self esteem problem, and it just may be partly true. But even the most self assured female would find it disrespectful and hurtful for her guy to constantly look at other attractive woman. Relationships take compromise to work, try to control your impulse to look as much as you can and I bet you will find that she will not get so angry all of the time. I am speaking from experience. I used to have an ex who would constantly look at other women and it upset me and hurt me. I have a great guy now, who of course admires other women but has the decency to not stare and look when he is with me. It is just a form of respect for one another's feelings. Best of luck to you!

Answer 7

Well, you could try not to be so obvious when you're looking at other women. If you know this sets her off, try to be a little more subtle. Some women have low self-esteem and it takes a lot of reminders of how nice they look, how pretty, how much they're loved and wanted, etc. She may not be comfortable with her own body and she may feel that she's inadequate. Keep trying to boost her up with compliments --- not just when she's angry because you're looking at other women -- compliment her when she's not expecting it. Low self-esteem is a difficult thing to overcome. And again, while it's not wrong to look at other women, you could try to be a bit more subtle about it when you're with your girlfriend.

Answer 8

Heres a thought, dont look at other women when your with her, just out of respect. She has low self esteem, you need ot let her know you love her, that she is the only one for you and that she doesnt need to feel insecure about you finding someone else that she is the one you want to be with

Answer 9

You will never be able to convince her. This is a complex that she has. She feels inferior the other women you are looking at. I would say, either stop looking at other women when you are with her, or be more discreet than you are now. I know my husband looks at other women, the same as I look at other guys sometimes, but we don't do it to the point that the other one is aware. To me that is just rude.

Answer 10

She is insecure and there is nothing that you can do about it. This is something that she has to work on for herself. Dealing with a person like this will drive you crazy, b/c they will constantly badger you, when they don't accept themselves. She may be a nice girl, but I bet she is not worth all of that trouble. Cut her and find another or let her know that you want to be with her and that she needs to trust you on that.