Marriage & Divorce - 24 September 2007

We have been together for two years, we have a five month old son, and our relationship no longer has any trust. I found out while I pregnant that he was still in contact with an ex, and I believe that he still had feelings for her based on some things I found, but he assures me that he only loves me. They are no longer in contact, and it is over (i keep tabs to make sure). But I hate that I'm always paranoid, and I hate living like this. He doesn't trust me because an ex of mine used to contact me (well over a year ago), but the contact was unwanted, I had no feelings for him, and I eventually told him to leave me alone. Where do we go from here? Can we ever rebuild our trust for one another?

2007-09-24 16:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by Mommy_1030 1

My mom just packed up her stuff and walked out the door. She has been cheating on my dad and I need advice from people who have been through this. I feel so lost right now and any advice is welcome.

2007-09-24 16:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by Slacker 5

I go to bed all alone ,I wake up all alone. If I was his character I would get all sorts of action and get played with all day and all night long.Should i sell his game on craigs list or just find a new hubby....

2007-09-24 16:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

I read alot of question about marraiges and they all seem to be bad. How is your marraige/relationship? I think if people invest more time, love, respect, communication, compromising etc., in their marraige/relationship it would be alot better off. Give me your opinion.

2007-09-24 16:16:02 · 20 answers · asked by b n real 4

own up the wrongs they have done????

2007-09-24 16:14:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 34. I have never had a gf. I am not good-looking. I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck and balding. I don't make a lot of money either, even though I work two jobs. Will I ever be married? Or will I be single, ugly, poor and lonely for the rest of my life?

2007-09-24 16:14:07 · 24 answers · asked by NJboy 3

My husband has been gone 1 month from home. When we get back home to see friends he tells everyone that he is going away for three nights to go hunting. uhhh....news to me. My feeling were hurt b/c 1) he didn't tell me, and 2) i would like to have a lil time with him for a weekend and 3) doesn't he want to be with me too? i'd think he would....he decided not to go after I said something to him. Did he think I would be ok with this? haven't seen ya, then yer gonna spend all day in the woods alone?! I'm glad he decided to stay here and go another weekend, but it still hurts me that he didn't think of what I'd have to say in it. Am I wrong to feel this way? What would you say to him?
Thanks.

2007-09-24 16:08:51 · 9 answers · asked by Kat T. 2

license should expire?? some lady wants to pass this, for real

2007-09-24 16:05:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man is on drugs and is not married yet, why in the world would he want to be with a spouse that is highly and vocally dead set against it? Don’t those kind of people want to be with there own?

2007-09-24 16:04:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband calls me at work and says he wants to have a romantic evening with me and the kids will be gone for the entire night. I left work early and bought some new lingerie, candles, etc. I got home and got ready for him. He didn't show up until 1:00am!!!! I was infuriated. He didn't even call and he didn't answer his cell phone. I'm starting to wonder because this isn't the first time this has happened.

2007-09-24 15:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by SHELBY J 2

2007-09-24 15:55:45 · 32 answers · asked by necie82 1

My wife and I have been married for 2 years and I'm trying to gather some ideals of a good honeymoon, since we haven't officially taken one. So share some places activities ect.......

2007-09-24 15:50:21 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

Like how you pictured it would be?

2007-09-24 15:50:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

To know I am tired of his controlling dominating bs, what would you do?

2007-09-24 15:38:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

long story short. 100-120 degrees outside i like it cool i get hot quicker and if its cold out i dont use the heat. husband wears a scully cap sweats and jacket says it is cold out he runs the heater when he gets out ofshower we have gone back and forth on why i like it cool in the house and how he can wear so many clothes and run heater when its 100 degrees out? couldnt he be iron deficient am i normal or is he??

2007-09-24 15:23:37 · 20 answers · asked by laylajai74 5

i grew up in a baptist christian home and i was tought that dancing was always a thing of the world! my fieances parents are catholic and they are putting pressure to have a dance :( i think it would be fun but i wouldnt be comforable being that other pastors and friends i grew up with in church would look down on that ! i always want to stand up for the lord and my testomony but i dont know if thats really letting him down if there is no bad words or nasty music going on ...only love songs related to the wedding theme....when me and my love are alone we dance for fun and romance......what you think would it still be the wrong thing to do??

2007-09-24 15:14:38 · 28 answers · asked by N0EllE 2

My ex husband of 8 yrs. left me for a single woman he met online for sex. She is now his girlfriend. I have a Yahoo 360 page and a friend of mine posted a comment on it (consoling me about my marriage ending) and the new girlfriend posted a comment back on my friend's page. We figured she must of gone to my page. I have everything turned off except for my pictures and comments so she can't see my blogs or any other personal things. She needs to move on with her life and leave me alone. I'm thinking she is already insecure. I think she got instant bad karma when she hooked up with him..lol You never, ever mess with a married man. If they can lie to their wife, they can lie to you. My ex and I do not speak at all. We have no children together (thank gawd) He lives in an apartment across town about a mile from my house. But there is no contact between us. Why is this woman who stole my husband watching what I'm doing? She needs to get a life.

2007-09-24 15:14:28 · 36 answers · asked by texas_redlips 1

2007-09-24 15:08:42 · 21 answers · asked by notamonkey 1

once or twice a month is not cool right what should you do

2007-09-24 15:05:03 · 36 answers · asked by bmcconcrete 1

Can I put a restrain order on someone who is doing a lot of damages to my property but I cant prove it is him?
He painted /scratched my car.
He cut my daughter’s bike tires.
He cut one of our family friends car tires with a knife and 2 of my neighbors sow the car that looks like his car.
He parked last week his car in the middle of the night in front of my house and turned up the music loud so my husband had to go out and talk to him.
He is passing to our street every night driving slow and looking for her.
Once he stopped his car because my daughter was outside talking to some friends and he start talking to her.
He is leaving notes to my daughter when her window is open.
Today he jumped over the fans in the Scholl where my daughter is a student .
It is been a year since she does not want to see him .
Every single action is more aggressive then the last one.
What I could do .
Thank you

2007-09-24 14:57:46 · 13 answers · asked by mamamia8 2

If you file for divorce on the grounds of adultry, what does that really mean for your spouse? I mean do they have to pay a fine or get a stern talking to by the judge? What? Is the purpose of filing on grounds of adultry just to bring it to light that your spouse cheated?

2007-09-24 14:57:39 · 25 answers · asked by cris 2

all through my marriage my ex husband abused me & my 2 children. He is very contolling. it's been 6 yrs that i finally left him. my daughter always complains to me that he goes to her house everyday & makes himself at home. he takes off his pants as soon as he walks in her house. she lives with her husband..they are both sycsofranic..i don't know the spelling. he takes advantage of both. she always says she'll take him to court but never does. i try to help but its a lost cause. i have my own life. she is 36 & always has been under his control. he's not well in his mind. i love my daughter.. my son stays away..he never helps me nor his sister. infact he's for his dad. my son is married& never visits me nor my daughter. my daughter goes with her dad to visit her brother. she doesn't like to ride with her dad but she misses her brother.. plz help!! at least i tried to help her & will always be here for her. i'd like to see him pay for all that he's done. its up to her

2007-09-24 14:53:35 · 19 answers · asked by blondie 1

I am having a horrible time dealing with it. My mom just told me she was going to give him the papers yesterday...its just I think she is going through her midlife crisis, and I know that sounds mean, i just think she is making a mistake and I feel AWFUL for my dad. Its not like either one has cheated or anything...they just kinda grew apart and my dad still loves her so much. How do I deal?

2007-09-24 14:51:05 · 19 answers · asked by Soon to be Mrs. Welsh 4

2007-09-24 14:48:21 · 25 answers · asked by candie 4

Do people change? Or their expectations get more demanding or mid-life crises crop in for the men? Why?

2007-09-24 14:47:06 · 22 answers · asked by candie 4

My husband of 10 years and I broke up 11 months ago. I tried to keep things quiet, thinking we'd be reconciling, but he went straight to our mutual friends and blabbed out his side of the story. Now these mutual friends, who have been my friends from grade school, have decided they're all mad at me and the way I left. They don't call me anymore. They don't see how I'm doing. When I had my baby (I was pregnant when I left my husband), they came to see the baby, but that was about it. I left due to emotional abuse. My husband says that he understands he was not a great husband and he knows he was in the wrong, but he won't tell anyone else this. The friends have all been upset with me because apparently the way I left was really wrong. They completely dismiss the fact that my husband abused me and side with him because I packed up my son and went to a Women's shelter.

I recognize these are not true friends, but Lordy does it ever hurt. Can anyone relate?

2007-09-24 14:45:25 · 17 answers · asked by Shannon H 3

If a father dies, how long does it take for wife and kids to start recieving social security benefits? Is it an indefinite waiting process like waiting for a social security disability hearing?

2007-09-24 14:38:09 · 12 answers · asked by slowboy 2

I just had a big talk with my wife. I told her I love her but not in love with her. I told her everything but divorce. How do I tell her I want a divorce?

2007-09-24 14:36:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this sounds strange, but would you get married ( for religious reasons) knowing that you and your new spouse had to live in seperates homes for about a year.... because of family and financial issues ??
assuming though that you still spent time with each other, like you did while dating

2007-09-24 14:31:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

so, i met a guy in a club/bar not this past weekend but the weekend before. He went home this past week (another state) so we couldnt meet up. He called today, we're doing somethign friday. He had wanted to do somethign thursday but i have class that nite. I think he felt awkward asking me on a first date on a friday. He's like, ok well we can get a bite to eat, some drinks, then he made some comment about me meeting up with my friends after? lol. Dont know if it was his way of wanting to say, i dont want to waste MY friday night with you or I dont want you to waste YOUR friday night with me. I'm trying not to read into things...i know first dates these days are supposed to be quick...but I dont know if he's into me or what??

2007-09-24 14:23:51 · 16 answers · asked by mol78 2