Marriage & Divorce - 24 September 2007

hey girls what would u like married or un married life

2007-09-24 11:16:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I in the next few months are going to try and get custody of his children. Not take them away from their mother but for part of the year. She is a very hard person to talk to or reason with that is why we are going through the courts. Does anyway know of any Web sites or anyone that could give some advice as to what to expect?

2007-09-24 10:56:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to help her in any way I can but I am being dragged down by her depression (marriage break up). I don't know how to deal with it.

2007-09-24 10:51:11 · 24 answers · asked by helen p 4

I have been married for a year to a guy I have been with for 4 years I am 23 he is 28 and we have 2 kids we are happy for the most part but somthing is missing and we both know it he is very controling and it drives me insane my problem is I am a nurse and one of my coworkers a doctor has asked me out he has showed intrest in me for a while and knows I am in a rocky marriage I am extremly attracted to him and he is such a gentlemen although it seems so tempting I have never done anything I dont know if I need to break upmy home and go with what seems so great or try to make what I already have work?!?

2007-09-24 10:49:47 · 35 answers · asked by Ashley 1

My boyfriend just broke up with me, and I’m suspecting that he cheated on me. I have lived with him for a year and about 4 months. However before that, I lived alone in the townhome for about 2 years. Now I am financially drained (had some emergency expenses). I have so much stuff to move, and to be honest I don’t know where to start. I’m moving in with my sister (for financial reasons, and I’m thinking it will be for about a year), and it’s going to be such a big change to live in one room when I have had a two bedroom town home that I was used to. I’m thinking of selling most of my things. I’m taking my cat that has never been around other dogs or cats (my sister has a puppy and three cats, one of which is very crazy). I’m just feeling so overwhelmed with loosing someone I love and having to move and start my life over. Any advice?

2007-09-24 10:47:09 · 8 answers · asked by Lenka 3

A couple I know had an open marriage for 3 years now, and they loved it!
They said they were committed to one another and are allowed to love other with the understanding that they had to get each others permission first and at anytime if one of them said STOP it was over!
Most of all their kids could never find out! well that went south when 2 of their 3 kids walked on mom and her boyfriend. It was VERY BAD, the mother tried to stop both her teen boys but they sent him to the hospital and she also went!
Now Child Welfare is involved and has removed the kids from their home. The parents who work one for Purchasing company, the other for a small business development lost their jobs as well as their "Special Friends" both of whom moved without forward address!

Their kids are so scared and now wont allow their mother to even "KISS" them when the family visitation comes around.
What can this family do to move past this?

Both party's regret these actions and wont do it again!

2007-09-24 10:15:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It happened to me last night. Two Men showed up to house after hearing from sources that I had my 1994 Lexus ES300 for sale. One man gets in his truck and drives off leaving the other man with me. He was well dressed and looked appealing to buy my car and wanted to test drive it. He explained that he just went through a divorce and his wife got most of everything. After hearing the sob story of his life I gave him the keys so he could drive around the block and see how he likes the car and that is the last time I seen him. CRAZY WORLD"

2007-09-24 09:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so me & my ex have 2 kids 2gether. I work full-time, am a full-time stu in college, am renting a house w/ my cousin but about to get my own place, meaning I'll be paying full rent, car, ins., all the kids expenses (i dont' ask him for anything) He only pays half of the daycare $250.00 I also pay the other half. He lives w/ his parents & pays truck pymt. $350.00, couple credit cards, no rent, no food (parents provide) NO were close the bills I pay. So since I'll be taking on more bills so the kids can have their own home & space, I asked him if he could pay the full daycare a month another $250 to help me out when I move into my place. My aunt watches the kids really cheap both fulltime for only 500.00 when it could be double anywhere else. So I ask him & he says NO that he can't afford it, that if I want my own place it's my problem. He thinks it's completely fair to only pay 250 a month in daycare & that's it when I'm struggling to do what I need to so the kids & I can stop

2007-09-24 09:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2

... your current sex life? Does your other half pay attention to you? try new thing? Or is it dull and on a decline?

2007-09-24 09:21:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

watching their personalities ? He seems enthralled by them.

2007-09-24 09:17:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok please answer,
1-]. If he/she cooks realy bad will you still eat ?
2-]. At your birthday you like to have, a gift or a kiss ?
3-]. If her moom calls you a dog/b!tch would you tolorate ?
4-]. Do you want him/her to respect you parents as his/her ?
5-]. Would you like him/her to eat from your hands ?
6-]. Do you fell angry while pressing his/her clothes ?
7-]. When he/she was upset you, have sex or talks a lot ?
8-]. Do you think you are made for each other ?
please also answer segment 1 and 2 of same question,
http://nz.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AojCpcck77jX3bqzqq6StwXIZwx.;_ylv=3?qid=20070924114624AAEdsy7
http://nz.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqCIBW2JsGg9dmspBiEtJwDIZwx.;_ylv=3?qid=20070924123812AAyeLhe

2007-09-24 09:12:50 · 8 answers · asked by little girl 1

he even admitted that seeing our daughter being born freaked him out a little and he didn't view sex the same way as he did before he watched me give birth. she is only 3 months old and it bothers me that he feels this way. will the feeling go away and when? What can i do to help him get over it?

2007-09-24 09:09:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 9 hard yrs, a old crush that I absolutely loved has come back into my life, I can not let him go. He's married and still has feelings for me.He has been with his wife for 9 yrs as well, I believe he has thought of me all this time, I've thought of him everyday for 9 yrs!! What do I do? Is there such a thing as fate?

2007-09-24 09:07:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seperated from the man I married for over 7 years. I don't know anything from him since he moved from the last time I knew of him. We are both now with different people. We do have children together but he has them. Well not really. When I lost contact with him,he (Jose) sent them to Mexico, where he's from with his parents. I don't know of my 5 children or him. I know they're ok with his family but they are mine and I would like to know of them and how they are. I would also like to divorce him already since we don't even have anything to do with each other anymore. I've been wanting to take care of this for a long time but don't really know how or have the money to do so. If anyone could help I'd really appreciate it.

2007-09-24 09:05:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I constantly worry about what my husband thinks about other women. It is so bad that I hardly leave my house because I am afraid that he is comparing me to other women that he sees. I cry when I think about him seeing another woman that he would want to be with. My husband is a very outgoing person who always wants to be with friends, having a good time. We have 3 kids so I can't go out like he does. I want to but someone has to be home with the kids. I am afraid that he sees the other men's wives and wishes he had someone like that. I know he has fun with them and we never have fun together. but now my self esteem is so low that I won't go out in front of any one. I am so scared that I am going to lose him because of this. what can I do.

2007-09-24 09:00:14 · 16 answers · asked by Kari M 2

I also find that the worse the argument, the crazier sex we have

2007-09-24 08:58:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands close friend recently told me how aroused he is when he looks at me and then told me he went to the bathroom to "relieve" himself when we were all out together one evening. I basically told him off right then and there but do I tell my husband? I know my husband would freak out and then there will be major tension amongst all the group of friends.

2007-09-24 08:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now the internet hate machine is after me! Help me do they ever forget or forgive? I am thinking of buying a guard dog. Mah Pa has recived death threats too.

Theres also a yellow van parked outside mah house.

2007-09-24 08:41:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok I had some more questions,
1-]. While you were watching TV who holds the TV remote ?
2-]. Do you guys exchange good night and good bye kisses ?
3-]. While changing your clothes, you go to other room or not ?
4-]. Did you lock your bathroom while you are taking bath ?
5-]. Would you sacrifice your desires to make him/her happy ?
6-]. If his/her father slaps you whould you tolerate for him/her ?
7-]. If she wanta a divorce from you would you let him/her ?
8-]. Do you realy need a baby to make your love more deeper ?
Here is a link to part one,
http://nz.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuVbBsV10HHan3iai9NWu6TIZwx.;_ylv=3?qid=20070924114624AAEdsy7

2007-09-24 08:38:12 · 7 answers · asked by little girl 1

why is it all so crazy and us being who we are choose some of these?

2007-09-24 08:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by 2kisses2affairs1luv 1

instead of clicking the little "_" button at the top right corner wit your mouse....is there a key you can use to minimize the window you're using???

thanks!

2007-09-24 08:33:02 · 7 answers · asked by joey322 6

My freind has sex before marraige. My Pa tells me he is giong to hell. This upsets me as I like my freind, but my Pa tells me it says so in the bilbe? How can I save my freind from going to hell?

2007-09-24 08:29:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

At 16 I became pregnant with my first child, shortly after that I married the father. Now I dont know what to do because I have four children and I want to leave my husband but I have no family ,no freinds, no job, or money, no education and no car. I have no where to go and no way to support myself let alone my children,but I have to get out of this relationship.Any suggestions?

2007-09-24 08:25:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

After a lonely marriage of 7 years, I got back out into the dating game just recently. Saw the girl of my dreams, got to know her some and asked her out. She said yes. This weekend we were having a ball...until she told me she's still got a thing for an 18 year old guy she once kissed in a nightclub. She thinks he's sweet and cool...but doesn't realize that he's doing every girl he comes across. Should I tell her this and risk losing her anyway? Should I dump her or keep her?

2007-09-24 08:25:08 · 49 answers · asked by samrinoma 3

i am very curious! Why do certain women, LIKE to TALK about SEX, with others??????????? Why????????

2007-09-24 08:24:10 · 16 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

go to burning man without you? Say if you had to work...but he wanted to go anyways...and said that he was going to either way...thats what my guy said.

2007-09-24 08:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please be honest. Want to see what the men say versus the women. Thank you all
!

2007-09-24 08:21:54 · 42 answers · asked by pussycat 5

I love my husband very much. We have been married for 12 years. I want to be intimate with him, but when he kisses me I become very turned off. I want to want him like I used to, and satisfy him too. I think he is very attracted to me. We enjoy each others company in general. I have tried lots of things to "spice it up". But still, the sexual attraction has dwindled. I Hate That! I feel very frustrated and need help. I would never have an affair, or anything like that. I just want more lust for the man I love if that makes sense.? He has gained a lot of weight and doesn't care much about his appearance. Although I know it shouldn't matter, I think it might. I don't know what to do. Can you help?

2007-09-24 08:14:47 · 22 answers · asked by Sandigirl 1

2007-09-24 08:12:55 · 23 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

My wife and I have been having some arguments lately about a fetish of mine and I'm scared that she's thinking about leaving me.

I can't say why but since I was a little boy I have been EXTREMELY attracted to cartoon characters and mascots. I can't help it, everytime I see one I get this rush of sexual energy and can't control myself. If I see Daphne from Scooby Doo, I'm overwhelmed with lustful thoughts.

It's not like I'm cheating. She shot down my idea for buying a van and painting it to look like The Mystery Machine. All I'm asking her to do is either wear a mascot head while having intercourse or at least let me watch the Cartoon Network. Do you think she's being unfair? Why can't she accept me for who I am?

2007-09-24 08:11:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous