Are your happy with...?

Question

... your current sex life? Does your other half pay attention to you? try new thing? Or is it dull and on a decline?

Answer 1

My wife wanted to wait until we were married to have sex, so I was a little nervous. I have been pleasantly surprised. She keeps things mixed up and sexy and I never know what I'm coming home to. We've been married a few years and it is showing no sign of slowing down.

Answer 2

For the most part I am would be nice if I could see him more often but between his working on the weekends and me the only time I don't have my kids is pretty much the weekends it's kinda hard to get in lots of time, so for now once a week is working for us. The wait is well worth it. Yes he pays very good attention to me both in and out of the bed. We always try new things to keep things fun. He's honestly the best lover I've ever had like I said only thing wrong is not seeing him more often.

Answer 3

I am happy with it...

No I lie, It could be better.

It's on the decline, which sucks becasue when we do "do it" it's great. She seems to have little interst in it anymore, and it's hurting me. I wish she would try some new things!

I'm romantic, I'm sweet to her, I massage her, I make her dinner, get her drinks, take her out. Does that help? No.

Ok, I'm getting a little heated up here talking about this so I'm done. Yeah it gets me a little angry, that she denies me when I approach her about it, or make moves.

Help! E-mail me if anyone can give me some suggestions.

Could be a medical problem, she;s on the pill, and also on anti-depressents, she's 40yrs old (although she was on both of those 2 years ago and things were much differnt.

Answer 4

My current sex life is solo.
My other half pays no attention.
The only thing I try new is varying the speed of my hand.
Yes, it's dull and on the decline.

Answer 5

Well it was starting to get dull until we started batting around a certain kinky idea. If we follow through with it, it will be extremely bold, but it would fulfill one of my wife's fantasies. Making sure your spouse is excited is a sure way to get yourself excited, I have always believed, so even though it's not really a fantasy of mine, toying with her getting what she wants had made our sex life better. We went from sex once a week before we started talking about this, to four times a week for the last few weeks, and we haven't even done the actual deed yet. Let me tell you -- after 21 years of marriage, four times of exciting, passionate sex a week is pretty darned good!

Answer 6

I am very adventurous, very into trying new things. He isn't the most romantic lover, or adventurous - he just kinda likes to "do it" and that's pretty much it. Kinda sucks, but there are definitely great times, he is very focused on my pleasure but he is pretty predictable. Oh well, I'm grateful for what I have and I just gotta try to keep things new and interesting for the both of us. Sex isn't everything.

Answer 7

We don't do it as much as we used too but we're both OK with it. We go through phases of crazy, wild sex often, to weeks without sex. It just depends what's going on in our lives. I can happily say our marriage isn't based on sex (sex is a bonus) : )

Answer 8

he does pay attention to me. we try new things now and then but right now feeling too regular and dull.

Answer 9

I am pretty happy with it. I wish we could have more but we do have other responsibilities like making a living and raising a family. I only wish we were both younger so we could have children together.

Answer 10

The intercourse is good, but like most men, I wish I was getting more oral. When will women stop being so selfish and just start sucking more c o c k already!