Marriage & Divorce - 24 September 2007

I am doing a report for my social science class on why people cheat on their sagnificant others. All I want is stories on what happened, how it happened and why you did it. The more the better I need to fill 10 pages. You will remain completely unnamed. email it to GrndMastrSexay11@hotmail.com Thanks.

2007-09-24 05:03:06 · 19 answers · asked by Jeff G 2

I recently started an affair with a man that I have only recently met. When I met him i found out he had children with his girlfriend but they had not been together long. I had been going through a break up with my boyfriend and father of my children after he cheated on me.
I found the man very sexually attractive and started flirting with him. We ended up having sex after about a week of knowing him and it was amazing. So I did it again. after the third time he casually tells me he's acctually getting married. So I think, ok so his lady had a baby, thats bound to put her off sex and he's just getting it out of his system before getting married. Neither of us are interested in the other, in a relationship way, and since I have started a new realtionship but my new boyfriend lives in france. And whenever the man suggests something i just can't say no. I have called the affair off after seeing him out with his family. but i don't know for how long...

2007-09-24 04:58:28 · 27 answers · asked by hopeless_romantic 1

Have any of you married someone that your parents did not approve of? Or that your parents just couldn't stand? How did you work past that? How are you working past that?

2007-09-24 04:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by mums_the_word 3

I dated this guy whose parents were swingers. After many years of practising that lifestyle they divorced. The guy was very nice at first and all that , but he started acting strange .He kept saying that his family was weird and one thing after the other he wanted to have time alone. As naive as it sounds I didn't even know what swinging was, but for people that are out there could you please explain the psychological issues on their kids. Thank you

2007-09-24 04:54:32 · 4 answers · asked by seagull 1

would you move to another contry with your companion if they were being kicked out of the u.s.? I am thinking about moving to Jamaica or at least take frequent visits to stay with my ex-boyfriend. He is only 23 and has nobody in Jamica. I am 21.

2007-09-24 04:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is slowly dieing each and every day due to several different affications any one of which is terminal and I am powerless to do anything to stop it....he is fighting very hard to stay alive and with me and is suffering so much from the painand all I can do is sit back and watch him slip away from me more and more each and every day......this is not fair!

2007-09-24 04:43:21 · 16 answers · asked by mary's heaven 1

My sister has two kids one is 10the other has 3
She is really pretty, nice.
Do you think she could find a nice man who could love her and treat her nice. I really want her to find someone i dont want her to stay alone for the rest of her life. She says she doesnt need anyone but i think she does.

2007-09-24 04:41:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby likes to Wrestle with his niece's and the other day he was wrestling with them and he almost grabed their private part on accident. Am i wrong for telling him not to wrestle with them anymore? Honest answers please.

2007-09-24 04:40:40 · 19 answers · asked by Totsie 2

Let me explain a bit here... I am going through alot now in my life. I have not been able to find employment in almost a year, and I am 47 years old with a wife and daughter whom I love very much! But, everything I seem to do, or anything that happens to me, even the smallest things, right now really set me off!! And its not that I hit my wife or daughter.. NEVER! But because I am so frustrated about the lack of direction in my life, I snap at them when I know that I should not be! Any and all advice is very welcomed! Thanks...

2007-09-24 04:38:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We been living together for a year and we get along great except for the temperature. We have always disagreed about it but it's started to really bother me. 1st of all I thought we should leave it on 72 all the time but that was too cool for him so we decided on 74. So I never messed w/it until I would get so hot & when I would look at the temp it would be on 80!!! Anytime he gets chilly he turns it to 80. He only wears shorts, no shirt, socks, etc. I wear a pair of shorts & a tee shirt (I don't want to walk around naked). I tell him if he is cold, put some more clothes on, he tells me to take some off. We never really "argue" about it, when I am hot, I turn it back on and he doesn't complain, he only says I am freezing him.Like last night, I went to shower & iron my clothes & he turned it to 80....well I turned it to 70 & told him I was hot ironing and stuff & told him that's why our power bill is so outrageous the way he turns it up & down. What can we do to fix this? THANKS!

2007-09-24 04:30:01 · 13 answers · asked by Jay 2

Last Friday night we went out and my wife got really drunk they were giving away free shots.

She started talking to this new guy their, she was talking really close and serious to him and when he asked her where something was she took him by the hand and showed him.

So he kept asking her stuff to keep her interested.

I could see she was really being motherly to him but he was starting to think that she was after him and really started to hit on her.

I stepped in and told him to take a hike.

She got mad at me and said I was spoiling her fun.

2007-09-24 04:22:26 · 18 answers · asked by Hypnotoad 2

been with this guy 4 21years, and have kids and been married for 16yrs, i think i still luv him or do i? he is my security,i have the nice house and cars, we both worked 4, sometimes he is in2 me and other times he his caught up in other things, ive cheated on him more then once he never foundout, i keep trying 2 make things work and stop the cheating but, know i found some1 else who makes me feel alive again, but he is married also and has kids also, im stuck in 2 worlds what should i do and please be honest. afraid to move on!!!

2007-09-24 04:08:09 · 15 answers · asked by 2kisses2affairs1luv 1

i been married 27 years, was very in love at first, i noticed a red flag in that he was verbaly abusive, but i thought it would go away, and even now it has still been there, his abuse killed the love and passion i once felt for him, i now realize that i dont and never deserved that. except now i cant leave him, he is alot older, i feel responsible and that he needs me because he is older and has basic medical conditions, but i feel i want to be there for him when he needs me for his health. Yet, i feel very alone and lonely. Thank you for listening and for your input.

2007-09-24 03:57:58 · 18 answers · asked by para_servirle 2

I am going to court in three days asking the judge to let me re-locate with my children, I am so nervous. I left my ex-husband one year ago because of his addiction to pain killers. He has since got fired from his job and got injured, so he collecting disability and takes oxy-contin, and just had his girlfriend arrested for domestic violence. I graduated from a trade school, got re- married and landed a great job where I will be living and I have my whole family around me. He lives in a city alone with no family and he wants to keep kids since he is home injured. I have offered to drive kids to see him and I only get 40 more days a year with them, but he said no, and now were going to court. What do you think the judge will do?

P.S. I have an attorney and hes representing himself. I have primary physical custody now.

2007-09-24 03:54:23 · 6 answers · asked by James 4

Ive met the most kindhearted man after a very disasterious relationship and we both love each other very much but the only problem is that he is my sons girlfriends father, we do plan to marry and also does my son to his girlfriend but can i marry this man???

2007-09-24 03:46:30 · 26 answers · asked by ebz28uk 2

...it's just that they are polar opposties, and the fact that putting them in the same category makes it sound like one inevitably leads to the other, like it is just a natural thing.

2007-09-24 03:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by Bill W 【ツ】 6

What is the Common Law Marriage here in Colorado?

My buddy in Denver is 40 years old living on Trust Fund of $30 Millions from his grandfather....He been with his girlfriend for almost 12 years, if he left her, does she have the right to collect everything or not...he has a lawyer and says that she cannot touch any of the money cause its his and family trust fund...

2007-09-24 03:37:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

of her religion. If she says no to divorce after 5yrs have past then how do I get divorced. She says that she can contest it for years. I am not religious and so do not have to worry on theat score.

2007-09-24 03:32:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f of 3.5 years started a fight with me yesterday about the stupidest thing(long story). Anyways, one thing led to another and I asked him if he really loved me. He always told me he did, but then did things to make me feel like he didn't. He asked my why I wanted to know if he loved me. I told him it was a yes or no answer and he told me NO! I have given this man my heart and come to find out he lied to me and doesn't really love me. We live together and I am so mad, I just want to leave, but I really do love him! I just need to know if anyone else has been in this situation and did you continue or leave. I am already looking for places to go as I live in his home. I am just looking for some comfort. Please no mean attacks. I am already emotional. Thanks to all who respond!

2007-09-24 03:29:37 · 12 answers · asked by Independence Baby - 7/4/09 4

Let us say you are going to marry a girl who is earning three times more than you. It is an arranged marriage, your parents are ready for it, the girls parents are ready for it too. Both you and your would be wife are equally well educated. Its just that you finished your education from a less reputed institute and she did it from an elite one and so comes the difference in salaries. Now it is generally accepted in society (with reference to India) that man should earn more or at least equal to what his wife does. So if I am the guy who is supposed to say yes to such a proposal, should I do so? Assume the girl has no issues with this, but will I have my respect after this marriage or will I get a complex? This is an otherwise good proposal, the difference in salary is the only problem. What do you think people? Will I be happy with such a girl?

2007-09-24 03:25:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What problems, hardships, trials have you & your partner / wife, husband encountered in your realtionship? Did you hurt your partner or your partner hurt you in a way?
How did you both deal with it, how has it changed for relationship / feelings towards them?
Has it made you guys grow closer or drift apart?
How did you guys work through it?

It's just that me & my boyfriend are going througha hard pharse at the moment & would like some experiences on how couples have dealt & come through with theirs.

Thanks

2007-09-24 03:18:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone find this problematic? Should I end the friendship? How should I inerpret the fact that she doesnt want to disclose this to her hubby? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

2007-09-24 03:16:02 · 14 answers · asked by Jack W 1

I have been told by many that when you get married, you become "one". I don't know if I like this idea. Is it possible to be married to someone, fully committed to them and in love with them, but still remain your own separate person with your own separate decisions, ideas, interests, friends?

2007-09-24 03:12:06 · 20 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4

I am married and so ready to get out of this relationship but my husband wont take a hint. I have told him over and over how I feel and still he won't leave. I want to be free to have a relationship with someone I met but cant because my husband is always stalking me and acusing me of something i haven't done. I have told him i dont love him anymore but he insists on trying to work it out and won't leave. I dont want to be ugly to him but he doesnt get the hint and because of our son i would like to separate on friendly terms. Someone please tell me what do i do? This man is driving me crazy.

2007-09-24 03:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by BETTY A 1

when my wife kisses me she does not look at my eyes she looks around but she does not look into my eyes.
we have been married for 10 years. ladies does this mean anything or am i just being weird about this?

2007-09-24 03:03:34 · 11 answers · asked by azucena m 1

How has feminism helped women assert themselvs in marriage ?

Has feminism been good or bad for marriage ?

What has feminism taught married women ?

Can all women be labelled as feminists ?

2007-09-24 02:53:35 · 15 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

My ex-wife is pressing for our son to get braces, but the fact is... he doesn't need braces. He has a nice smile with two teeth slightly crooked.

I was told that braces are considered cosmetic and "personal preference" and I dont have to split the cost if I dont want to. That if she wants to get them, she is responsible for the cost. Any truth to this?

2007-09-24 02:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by redwing_nutso 2

2007-09-24 02:51:56 · 18 answers · asked by redlucky7 2

I love my husband, but we have sex so rarely it is getting me so down. I feel so unattractive that I can't bring myself to make advances - I feel sick at the thought of being turned away again. In the early days his idea of sex tended to be from porn (which he still looks at?!), so for a while I made the effort and dressed up etc.. but it got to the point that we only have sex when I did this... So I know I turned him down often back then... but that was 3 or 4 years ago. Now we only ever do it when I have had a bit of dutch courage.
This really is affecting my whole life. I raise this every few weeks or so and he ackowledges that we have a problem... his reaction... pet me like a child so we don't need to talk about it.
We have had counselling (he cheated, although he never admitted anything) 2 years ago - but sex wasn't discussed although it was one of the issues we raised with her, he didn't want to talk about it. Help?

2007-09-24 02:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He only moans when he gets up lol

2007-09-24 02:38:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous