Last Friday night we went out and my wife got really drunk they were giving away free shots.
She started talking to this new guy their, she was talking really close and serious to him and when he asked her where something was she took him by the hand and showed him.
So he kept asking her stuff to keep her interested.
I could see she was really being motherly to him but he was starting to think that she was after him and really started to hit on her.
I stepped in and told him to take a hike.
She got mad at me and said I was spoiling her fun.
2007-09-24 04:22:26 · 18 answers · asked by Hypnotoad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The first time it started to make you uncomfortable... You should have taken her. Take her out to the dance floor, say you need to talk to her, just get her away. She could have gotten into some trouble if you weren't there to rescue her. (My opinion any way) She should appreciate that you look out for her... AND... IMO, if you were trying to spoil her fun, you would have not let her talk to any man. Period.
2007-09-24 04:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Drinking lowers your resistance and gives you the courage to do things you would not normally do straight. Imagine what could have happened if you had not been there to stop it? This guy would have taken advantage of your wife and God only knows what else? I am sorry but situations like this are avoidable and the both of you need to stay out of the bar scene because to much trouble can happen and someone could have been hurt....including you trying to protect a drunk wife. If I were you I would suggest that the two of you find better things to do together that keeps the both of you focused on each other without alcohol involved. Find something that the two of you are intrested in and find fun and enjoyment out of that. You know there is a problem there when she got mad at you for spoiling her fun .......the realization of that is you know how that guy was taking her and you saved her from something that was going bad here. She does not seem to understand that drinking clouds your normal thought processes and what you were seeing was not good! I would have a talk with her and let her know that this is not going to happen again because you are both staying away from drinking to have fun!
2007-09-24 05:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude grow a pair and admit you picked wrong and get the marriage annulled/divorced. Substance abuse is an excellent reason to split. Old Guy The novella was actually pretty boring since you hit the hi points in the first 6 or 7 lines Remember HS English? Try paragraphs.
2016-04-05 22:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people turn into their true selves when they are drunk. if you have a problem with this than you need to tell her but when she is drunk she has no clue all she sees is a hot guy and she wants to flirt or even more. i get like this when i'm drunk so i don't get drunk around men.
2007-09-24 05:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by stt143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Her fun" huh. Nothing like smoking around a powder keg. Your wife is not only a drunkard...but stupid as well. Tell her she needs help with her drinking problem which seems to give rise to her promiscuous side as well.
If she can't hold her liquor its quite clear she can't hold onto her underwear either. She needs some guidance here pal. If this is her idea of 'fun' let her do it. Just tell her she can do it without you as her husband.
2007-09-24 04:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
her fun should have included you
her actions were not only disrespectful towards you she was demoralizing herself
thank god you did step in and now that she is sober ask her if it would be OK if you were to act in the same manner.
if she says yes then that should tell you what kind of state your marriage is in
good luck
2007-09-24 04:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by rodawg7 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you did the right thing. Having a good time is one thing. When others think that your wife is available... thats when you get in trouble.
2007-09-24 04:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by latenight1010 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first thing you tell her is that she is your wife, you two are not married not no one else.tell her try not to get drunk cause it causes you to act in ways that are not good, secondly she nor you should be in a bar it is just a pick up joint. it is never ok for married people to be around others flirting.
2007-09-24 04:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have stepped in too!! If she'd have been alone what do you think would have happened?? Have you asked her that?? Does she get this drunk often? I think you need a sit down with your wife about this and soon!
2007-09-24 04:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kathleen M 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
spoiling her fun? and you are supposed to be having fun watching her do this crap? forget that... no, it's not ok for her to get drunk and hang off other men... the booze has got to go, and that's that! forsaking all others is the vow, I take it seriously...! good luck...
2007-09-24 05:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋