My sister has two kids one is 10the other has 3
She is really pretty, nice.
Do you think she could find a nice man who could love her and treat her nice. I really want her to find someone i dont want her to stay alone for the rest of her life. She says she doesnt need anyone but i think she does.
2007-09-24 04:41:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll talk to her, I'm looking to start a nice relationship, tired of going out with girls at the bar everynight. tell her to im me on yahoo, dangersnostranger.
2007-09-24 04:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I’m sure she’s thinking that she’d be taking time away from her kids to go on dates and strike out on her own. Give her some advice, but then back off so she can make up her own mind. She could try meeting someone through a hobby group- like a movies group, reading group etc, there might be a divorce care group or she could try online dating. I’ve signed up for eharmony. It’s the only dating site that I have tried, but I think it’s great. They do get the information beforehand if possible matches want to have kids.
2007-09-24 04:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by RSJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably mainly focused on her children. Some mothers do that, have kids and all their energy and love they feel they can get from the kids and do not need a man....
but anyways, yes she find a good husband. Many REAL MEN will see that she's a great woman and have respect for her.
2007-09-24 08:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be very difficult especially with men who don't already have kids of their own. After years and years of getting on the nerves of many of my mother's boyfriends the one that seems as though he's gonna be there for a while is one of the very few who has a daughter of his own. She would have to surely be honest about her kids and if the guys doesn't like the thought of them, it will simply never work. He will not "grow to love them" probably not even "grow to like them" if he has no interest in children. It can be very difficult to come into a family that is already fairly established and change things around.
2007-09-24 05:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to her. If she wants to find someone, she might want to go to counseling and see what went wrong in her past relationships and try not to carry that over into the next one...and find out how to choose a good man too. A lot of women say they want a good man, but they go for the bad boys over and over again and keep getting hurt. She has to be ready to be with someone long term...and there is no saying she has to. Whatever makes her happy. Cause if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
2007-09-24 04:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by ViSaja 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most definetly!! I had four and remarried this past July after being divorced for seven years and my husband is the most wonderful man, totally in love with me and 100% committed to my children as I am to his. I never knew marriage could be this wonderful and thank God everyday for this new life. Finding someone who can love your children the way you do is a gift and it does happen.
2007-09-24 05:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really doesn't need a man. Yes, things are easier... but not a need. If she is happy, why make changes for her. When she is ready, she'll know it.
As for my opinion... She will find a man that will take care of her and her kids the way they were meant to be cared for... like royalty. I just hope that when she meets him, she treats him like a king too.
2007-09-24 04:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally see where your sister is coming from. I am in that same situation. But the bottom line, is that, SHE has to want someone, not you wanting someone for her. If she is satisified being single, let her enjoy that. Dont pester her to find someone. She will when she is ready. But I firmly believe there is someone for everyone and her Prince Charming will find her. And if he truly is the 'right guy' he wont care if she has 2,5 or 10 kids. He will love them just as much as he loves her. I hope this helps! Good luck to your sister.
2007-09-24 04:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by MayMay 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She can and will when she is ready, so don't push her or bug her about it. She is right to just focus on her kids right now. That is best for all of them.
Just be there, be supportive, and let the "she's got to have a man in her life" issue drop until she is ready.
2007-09-24 04:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as her, single w/ 2 kids. She can find someone who will love her but the catch will be finding someone who will love her kids too. Its totally possible, as i have the man of any womans dreams! He loves me and my kids like they are his own. She may not be ready for that relationship now, but its possible when she is ready for it. Good luck to her!
2007-09-24 04:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by BNic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course a single mom with two children can find someone. there is someone for everyone. If she starts dating im sure she will find Mr.Right. As long as he likes children and will treat her children right. But she will know that..All she has to do is be honest right from the beginning and let him know she has two children.
2007-09-24 04:48:39 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋