I am doing a report for my social science class on why people cheat on their sagnificant others. All I want is stories on what happened, how it happened and why you did it. The more the better I need to fill 10 pages. You will remain completely unnamed. email it to GrndMastrSexay11@hotmail.com Thanks.
2007-09-24 05:03:06 · 19 answers · asked by Jeff G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People usually cheat because their spouse isn't keeping up their end of the bargain. if you don't keep your better half sexually feed they will cheat.
2007-09-24 05:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋
People cheat because they think either consciously or subconsciously another person is responsible for their happiness. People need to realize that their unhappiness stems from choices they have made and from not searching for a more meaningful existence. We are a society that has moved up Maslow's heirarcy of needs so high that we no longer worry about food and shelter, instead we long for self-actualization and fulfillment, which we wrongly blame others for if we can't figure out how to get it ourselves. Fundamentally, we marry people who are not suited to help us achieve these goals and we find ourselves searching for more people to guide us to this even though more often than not those people will also unknowingly misguide us as well.
2007-09-24 05:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sorry i dont want to email. Haha
I never cheated but I've been cheated on and well the reason I got was that he jumped into a relationship with me right out of another one and he was confused about how he felt. He thought he still had feelings for his ex and that everything was moving too fast. He felt he should have taken a break between relationships and really thought things through. I hope this helps. Good luck!
Oh and if you want my point of view, if anyone in a realtionship ever has the urge to cheat, but hasn't, should break up with the person theyre with because if you have the urge then you obviously don't want to be with the person youre with. Thinking about cheating is cheating too. Thats my philosophy on the whole thing.
2007-09-24 05:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by steffi32086 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
i believe people who cheat are basically narcissistic, and the majority of these people have no interest in making any changes, and instead of changing to restore a relationship they choose to leave it because u may be demanding something they are unwilling to give. the narcissistic person also can't see when they are hurting others. they cheat because they have a need to feel loved, and its got all to do with how they view themselves, more than what is going on in their relationship. they are selfish and its all about them so when they feel lust they mistake it for love.
2007-09-24 05:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If 100% of America stopped what they were doing right now and read there significant others Text Messages, without warning the divorce rate would blow through the roof. to answer your question is simply because marriage and love has been devaluized. If it dont make dollars than it dont make sence and that is the going mentality for most.
2014-07-12 06:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I were having problems because she was so depressed and I honestly felt like I tried to help. She kept talking about suicide etc. and there was nothing seriously wrong with her life. She started treating me worse and one day I looked up in the mirror and said how much longer am I going to put up with this.
About this time, naturally, I started to flirt with another woman and we hit it off. I confessed to her that I really enjoyed her company and we ended up kissing.
I knew it was over and left my wife. Then the new woman and I started having sex, after she left her husband too. After 7 months, both divorces were done and we got married a year and half after that. Still married and have two kids. No kids on the first marriage (and that was 23 years).
I am not at all proud of this, but that's my story.
I think some men do it to satisfy their ego, while others do it because of an unmet emotional need at home.
2007-09-24 05:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Some people are young and inmature and don't have any idea what a relationship means.They get involved too soon without really knowing who that person is.So they get bored after a time and move on to another person.Some people don't know how to get themselves out of a relationship and live a life of deceit and lies.Either way it isn't right in my book .People are just plain cruel sometimes
2007-09-24 05:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by mamaw2305 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Difficult question to answer. It's all about ego, if you ask me. People cheat because they can.
2007-09-24 05:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Pretty difficult to take this serious with an e-mail address as juvenile as that.
Plus...'sagnificant" sums it all up.
2007-09-24 05:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unhappiness at home, Sex is not enough, cheating spouses, revenge, hatefullness tendencies, lusting after others.
2007-09-24 08:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋