so, i met a guy in a club/bar not this past weekend but the weekend before. He went home this past week (another state) so we couldnt meet up. He called today, we're doing somethign friday. He had wanted to do somethign thursday but i have class that nite. I think he felt awkward asking me on a first date on a friday. He's like, ok well we can get a bite to eat, some drinks, then he made some comment about me meeting up with my friends after? lol. Dont know if it was his way of wanting to say, i dont want to waste MY friday night with you or I dont want you to waste YOUR friday night with me. I'm trying not to read into things...i know first dates these days are supposed to be quick...but I dont know if he's into me or what??
2007-09-24 14:23:51 · 16 answers · asked by mol78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well im divorced? why ask why...i posted this in singles and dating too.
2007-09-24 14:28:34 · update #1
yeah...i mean if we had gone out thursday i dont know what the big difference would have been?
2007-09-24 14:31:03 · update #2
he lives here but went to visit his parents out of state. I"m pretty sure he's not married...lol
2007-09-24 14:33:04 · update #3
WELL IT SOUND LIKE HE LIKES YOU AFTER ALL HE DID ASK YOU OUT AND FRIDAY MIGHT NOT BE A GOOD NIGHT FOR HIM, JUST TELL HIM THAT THURSDAY AFTER YOUR CLASS IS OK. IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO THAT THEN TELL HIM FOR ANOTHER TIME
2007-09-24 14:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by alexia's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friday night is usually for, like, serious dates. He may feel uncomfortable asking you for a date on Friday because he is worried you will think him too forward. Or it could be his way of saying he doesn't plan on sleeping with you after the first date.
2007-09-24 21:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by ejc0782 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he asked you out, now learn from it. Next time, have an alternate plan. eg, I can't go out on Thurs, and am really busy with school, but can we meet up when I walk my dog on Sunday afternoon?
This gives you something to do, and limits the time, but not to the extent that if you are having a great time you can't go longer. Good luck, I am sure he's into you
2007-09-24 21:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by always b natural 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bar is not the greatest place to meet someone, but... so it goes. If he really wanted to be with you, he wouldn't care about meeting up with friends on either part. He'd find a way to be with you. I'd pass.... Don't waste yo time, honey. There will be another man at another bar who may want to spend some time with you...
2007-09-24 21:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by lester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think so deep into it. just go out with him and have fun. laugh and joke, just be your self and see where it leads too.
don't worry about it. just make the most of it.
after words maybe he'll want to take you out for a few drinks.
but then again, have a back up plan, see if the girls are going to be out that night. if nothing else just go out with the girls.
have fun and good luck
2007-09-24 21:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He CALLED, he asked you out.... he didn't HAVE to do that you know...... guys don't usually ask girls out if they don't WANT to go out with them..... maybe he was just very nervous when he asked you out and tripped over his words or something....you know how people are when they do something for the very first time---and he MIGHT have been scared that you might say NO too..... just go on the date and see how it goes...... but don't make HIM do all the talking...
2007-09-24 21:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely hard to say...he may just not want to presume too much and will actually be playing a wait and see...he might be waiting for you to set the direction on the date
2007-09-24 21:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question should be in the Singles/Dating section. Married people don't remember how to conduct first dates. Good luck, BTW.
2007-09-24 21:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like he does like you just dosent want you to be pressured. but if he lives in a different state i would shy away from an ltr. take it slow, very slow. you just met him and you dont want to come off obsessive about him. thats a turn off for guys. take it as just a date for now like one of those "oh well " type of situations.
2007-09-24 21:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by michael t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you and didn't want you to feel pressured if you had something else to do. i think you should be excited. don't take it the wrong way. dont think too much about it at all. good luck/congrats and have a great time
2007-09-24 21:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by tallpaulmwp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋