Marriage & Divorce - 12 September 2007

My name is chasity derives from the name chastity- which means unpromiscouis, virginity and chaste- which means pure. I'm a 22 yo virgin saving myself for marriage, I did NOT grow up in a religious family at all. I even scringe at the thought of having sex before marriage. In high school I hated hearing my friends talk about sex because I felt as though they were all spreading themselves thin having sex with different partners before marriage. Anyone else find that ironic? I just realized it like 20 minutes ago.

2007-09-12 09:03:34 · 20 answers · asked by Cherry 2

in some ways relieved because the relationship took a turn for the worse right before we found out I was pregnant. But in other ways I am scared to death of not being with him and having someone else in her life (other parents) advice to get through this please.

2007-09-12 08:54:23 · 16 answers · asked by Heather 2

A lot of American men identify many advantages with not marrying an American woman. Although they may not be completley correct. More and more men are marrying outside of the United States.

2007-09-12 08:37:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your woman made you feel like you could slay dragons and that you were the world's greatest lover, would you even think of looking for someone else? If she cooked delicious meals, pampered you, never refused sex in general, respected your veiws, gladly gave you reign as head of the house, made your opinion more important than her friends or family, would you want another woman? If she took care of herself and worked on her appearance to remain attractive to you through the years, would you ever consider cheating?
My point is that I think women have become domineering, selfish, and blind in relationships. It's all about the 'woman's' feelings. I'm not saying to let a man walk all over you, I'm just saying give him the respect, love, and nurturing he deserves and he will cherish you like no other. Some women will say 'you are crazy', but these are the things they did while dating and trying to get their guy, so why stop?
Wanted to see the response to this, especially the guys.

2007-09-12 08:34:12 · 34 answers · asked by vixen312 1

If anyone was going to answer Trojan or Lifestyles don't bother answering. I need specifics, and not from any of you amaturs. My Wedding aniverary is on the 17th and I havn't needed them because either my wife was pregnant or on the pill. So what I need is someone who knows his stuff. This will be the first full night out from the kids in 2 years, SO DON"T SCREW AROUND!!

2007-09-12 08:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by Thirsty 1

2007-09-12 08:32:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 08:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by biggshizawn 2

My Husband has become super clingy. I have a very independent side and like to go out with my friends and do things by myself. We spend more time together than most people do. Every time I ask him about doing something or tell him I'm going out he freaks. Is this normal? Do all married couples spend every waking minute together? He always assumes I'm going to leave him if I go anywhere by myself. We have no kids...

2007-09-12 08:30:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a P.O.S of a husband who has landed himself in prison (has been there since Aug 06 until Aug 08) and i tried to work things out but i just can't do it anymore, i have finally got the courage to leave a mentally and phyically abusive relationship... i have two kids with him, one being almost 6 and the other almost 1 1/2, i am a single mom trying to just make ends meet right now, so the cheapest way to get a divorce would be to do it myself, because the cheepest lawyer around here is $900 (uncontested divorce of course) plus the filling fees for our county is $260 which is a GREAT price and if i could afford it i would do it but i can't afford it... so my question is do you think it would be wise to do it myself?? has anyone else filled for divorce themselves??

2007-09-12 08:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by Michelle 1

you found out that a friend of you and your husbands (which you met through your husband while you were dating him) has had a huge crush on him and has always had a crush on him and you just found out yesterday after 4 years of being together

this "friend" of ours has been to dinner parties with us and all kinds of differernt gatherings...i had no clue!!!!
i am confused about my feelings right now--how would you feel?

2007-09-12 08:07:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known women who've married guys they don't really care about just so that they could have a baby and a big house. I know there's pressure on women to get married, but, I mean, isn't there pressure on men too. Why aren't men so desperate? Why do successful, attractive, independant women still find it so necessary to find a husband

2007-09-12 08:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by Cybele 1

women allowed to have many husbands to?

they all sleep in the same bed, and have 7 children between them,all 3 have been married 21 years

2007-09-12 07:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by mirrorbee 6

You are financially ok and lets say not hurting, but not rich. Your Nieghbor is poor and barely making it. He asks you to loan him $100.00 to help pay his sons medical bill which you know he can't pay back. Your wife/girlfriend wants to go to the big concert which costs $75.00. She knows about the nieghbors situation but says NO firmly to loaning/giving him the money. What would you do?

2007-09-12 07:42:53 · 28 answers · asked by aswkingfish 5

2007-09-12 07:19:14 · 60 answers · asked by Jess 3

husband wants to move to suburbs of new jersey. i want to stay in manhattan. i hate the 'burbs. we have no kids. only a golden retriever. i would rather live in a box in the city than live in the 'burbs with the soccer moms and bratty teenagers wearing juicy couture and driving beamers. i like not having to drive everywhere and having an easy commute and having diversity and everything the city has to offer. both of us won't budge, is this the end of our relationship? thanks.

2007-09-12 07:08:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a women decides to be a stay-at-home wife, but doesn't cook and clean, is she falling down on her job? My mom did this for a while, (she has a great, high-paying job that allowed her to do this if she wanted, so no, I didn't come from a family with a stay-at-home mom normally) and she said that while she was home, that stuff WAS her job. When she had a job outside the home, THAT was her job, and all the home stuff was divided between her and my father. So what do you guys think? Is it sexist to require a stay-at-home wife to cook and clean, if she decides she'd rather stay home than hold a job? If you do think it is, than what should a stay-at-home wife do?

2007-09-12 06:39:57 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 06:12:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do if your husband confessed that he helped a female co-worker get a car because she had problems (credit, financial etc.). If your husband was supportive, loving and took care of you and the household would you divorce him if he had done this with this female co-worker? He did not pull monies from the account you all have but from his checking account.

2007-09-12 06:04:43 · 43 answers · asked by stergre1975 3

a man goes to his bos and asks him " boss, how do i make my wife listen to me? " the boss replied " well son, who wears the pants in the house?" "i do" he said " well then, tose them at her and see if they fit her " the man went home and he saw his wife in the kitchen, he did what his boss told him to do and she just stared confused " why the hell are u throwing ur pants at me?!" "well want to see if they fit" she put them on " theyre too big" " thats right, so that means i wear the pants in the house and u have to obey me in everything!" well the wife got so freaking mad she threw her panties at him and told him to try them on............ he did " i cant get into them" " thats right and intill u gat ur act together wont wont be getting tino them for a lons *** while!!!!"

2007-09-12 06:02:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is someone else that i care alot about, and every time i am around him or just talk to him it makes me fell happy. when i am around my husband i am depressed and not happy. what should i do. my husband says he loves me and he is relly trying. he has started doing things in the house and treating me really well, it is like he is trying too hard. if he had always acted this way maybe i wouldn't be un happy now. i am just scared that this will ony last a month or so just long enough for me to say i am staying. it still doesn't make me happy that he is doing all this, maybe it is just to late. what should i do. this other guy that makes me happy says that he cares for me too, there has nothing sexual happened between us. but we enjoy being around each other. help....

2007-09-12 05:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by stacy 2

2007-09-12 05:34:50 · 34 answers · asked by klay 1

ok lets say you have a bf who already has a son from a previouse marriage and than you had a son with the same guy ok right i have a question its reagarding christmas a holidays that you buy gifts for would it be fair to spend more money on one son than another the baby will amost be a yr round christmas time and the other son is 7 years older than his baby brother i just want to know if it would be fair to always spend more money on the older son adn not the younger son and if not fair do you think that it is showing favratism toward his older son bc he is his first i dont think that its right to spend different amounts on kids on holidays for one it isnt right and not fair and two you should spend a even amount of money on the kids the same amount like you spen 100.00 than it should be for both what do you all think bc i am caught in a qestion that needs some answering ya know please reply

2007-09-12 05:30:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex fiance are going through a break up right now and some days I wake up knowing I can get through this, then some I wake up really lonely and "yearning" for him.
It's hard being strong for our daughter.
what can I do?

2007-09-12 05:21:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could build your perfect man (the man you would marry), what characteristics and qualities would he possess? personality traits?....etc...
(not physical)

2nd- if he wasn't the most attractive thing in the book , would you still feel the same? (wanting to spend the rest of your life with him?)

2nd -

2007-09-12 05:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by russiansgirl5 2

VERy uncompatible. AND you have a cruch on another guy, and he soooo your type. The guy that you are with does nothing but scream at you and treat you like ****. The child even knows, and hands you tissues when he makes you cry!! What would you do? I will admit that I am scared to leave him!!

2007-09-12 05:13:37 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 05:06:47 · 17 answers · asked by fading 2

An Amish family went to the shopping mall for the first time.

It was a wife, husband, and their son.

Well the wife wandered off (like always) to the admiring the never before seen outlets while the guys walked down the opposite corridor doing the same.

The husband and his son walked by an elevator and of course did not know what it was.

All they saw the doors opening and people coming out and others walking in.

They saw a old gray hair lady go in the elevator then the doors closed then when it opened a hot blonde walked out!

They saw it again but this time they saw a old woman go in the elevator and a really good looking hot latina walked right out!

They were amazed and were clueless about what they were looking at!

The son turned to his father and asked, "dad that's amazing, how is that happening? How is that possible?"

The father replied by saying, "I have no idea son, but quick go get your mom!"

2007-09-12 05:04:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son does be up there alot and this girl does not like me can i stop him moving her in

2007-09-12 04:46:15 · 39 answers · asked by sparks 1

I just had a baby almost six weeks ago and I weigh less than I did now before I got pregant. Well my hubby tells me all the time how good I look, and I feel great. He beams when his friends tell him how good I look and everything...
Yesturday we were getting ready to go out, and I put on a pair of white shorts(the athletic type), and a tank top...and he told me no, your not wearing those shorts go change them. I was like why? He didn't give me a reason. So do you think he's afriad of people looking at me or is he lying about how good he thinks I look and is embarrassed?
He has never once before asked me to change my clothes before going out, so I'm just so confused. Jealous or embarrassed?

2007-09-12 04:38:23 · 25 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5

Is that so wrong? I am going to be getting a divorce and I am afraid that I will be like this. I have alot of love to give and after living with nothing but grief for 17 years I'm ready for the real thing. How can I keep myself from just settling for someone that pays me a little attention?

2007-09-12 04:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous