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Marriage & Divorce - 29 August 2007

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I would consider it disrespectful (and a major hinderance to marital intimacy) for my spouse to go behind my back to solve a conflict that is between us with out my consent.

2007-08-29 08:54:35 · 5 answers · asked by Intension Juxtaposed 2

If your wife has not give you oral pleasure in a month or so would you be mad? you both still have sex but no oral? Do you think it's fair to say that the wife does not recieve it so you should not either? thoughts?

2007-08-29 08:52:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

So many times, when I have been happy, or excited etc, he says something cold, or rude, or inapproriate, and then I'm not happy anymore. For about the last 5 or so years, I've noticed it to the point where I hid my enthusiasm from him, hid what made me happy, or misdirect so he says cold, mean stuff about something else, but can't say stuff about what I am really happy about. Recently, i finally started to get mad at him for it. Feeling stupid for being happy in front of him. So he gets angry with me for being mad at him. Says I should just let role off, not take him seriously, give him the benefit of the doubt etc.
I finally asked him if he there something about me being happy, that bothered him, and told him what I noticed. He said "no", and that he does want me to be happy.
I'd be easy to blow him off, if he was a coworker, a clerk in the store, etc, but he is my husband. I've put distance between us to avoid the mess, and once I relax.., he does it again!

2007-08-29 08:49:46 · 29 answers · asked by so tired 2

I am 32 and have been dating a 30 year old guy for 1 year 4 months. We have had a lot of fights about jealousy. He is a very social person with a lot of female friends. He keeps meeting new girls all the time and I get to meet all of them too eventually. Recently he met a girl that works in his building, he introduced her to his coworkers they started all going out for drinks once a week. He clearly told her and all coworkers I know that he has a girlfriend. But after 2 months when I finally met her at happyhour she was rude to me, it was obvious that she thought there been a chance to get him. He was very surprised, agreed that suddenly does seem like she might have misunderstood. I am jealous and claim that he is flirting and sending girls wrong signals. He claims he is just friendly (part of spanish culture) always superclear about having a girlfriend. He just met a new friend at a brunch this weekend and has emailed her about meeting for lunch. He claims it is not flirting? Trust??

2007-08-29 08:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by losing my mind 2

I was just curious on people's opinions because nowadays it seems that people fall out of love, cheat, or just do stupid things in a marriage. People divorce even after 5, 10, 15 years of marriage still. Do you think love doesn't last nowadays?

2007-08-29 08:42:49 · 10 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4

when things happen like 3-5 times a week and i tell each and everything rightaway and expect some responce. I DO NOT make him resolve things coz dats unfair i knw except when big things arises.

We have debates and fights over the way he act practically e.g if really horrible things happening and he goes to some particular member of family and keep laughing and pretend nothing happens.

Even when couple of his family members will say chat with him all the time and im sitting there but wont ever give me importance. e.g his brother's wife would be all so nice to our baby and even do drama of love and will only keep pleasing my hubby and ignore me all together.

He knws it but still will engage in chit chats with her and never ignore her back just like her husband (my bro-in-law) does to me.

when we have fights over such stuff as why he chatted with her, how come it becomes nagging which has to be stopped by me.

2007-08-29 08:41:49 · 2 answers · asked by abeer 2

i recently broke up with my wife and i really love her. should i fight for her and send her flowers and write her a poem to try to let her know im sorry?

2007-08-29 08:34:19 · 70 answers · asked by notaglumguy 1

I had an AFFAIR on ex. husband with my 1st love who was his older brother (i'm older then my EX. by 7 years) after 24 years of marriage!

I hurt my son ( 13 soon to be 14 in NOV.) to the point that he now has POST TRUMATIC STRESS, and has violent outburst when I'm around for and period of time.

The last time he was with me I made a real stupid joke when my then O/man felt me up and said to my son after "a finger in the right place can do wonders" with no thought of hurt I inflicted on him, when he yelled at me I said "grow up it's a joke"!

He got violent, pick up candle stick holder and started to hit both of us , yelling "IT'S JUST A JOKE, IT'S JUST A JOKE".

O/man was hospitalized he's now in wheel chair, I have broken facial bones and jaw!

Son was brought to a judge, she heard why it happen she dismissed case and had Phyic. revue done that how "PTS" charted!

I lost my son that day, and stole his innocents for sex!
I'd want that back for him.
What yours?

2007-08-29 08:28:03 · 15 answers · asked by April Snow 1

-What happens when you call - or don't call -the man in your life can truly make or break your relationship, if so how?

-Is there a such thing as not calling enough?

-How do you really feel about the woman who calls you when your not even calling her?

-What must happen for a man to fall in love with you, and how can the women influence his feelings?

-How can a women make you want her in your life more, simply by the way she handles the phone calls, text messages, and emails she send you?

2007-08-29 08:17:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-29 08:13:56 · 18 answers · asked by lifelover27 1

One day my husband went to the photo studio to develop photos from film he's had for nealy a decade. He returned with a strong desire to take kinky shots of us intimately. I found that fun and exciting and we had a blast.
The next day he asked me to get something out of his pocket book, and as I did so, I found a contact strip of he and his ex adn I'll just say, VERY pornographic. I felt ill and traumatized and obviously I am having a hard time getting over it. The worst part to me is the lying. He told me that he kept them there because he didn't want to throw them away where a small child might find them. He should of thought about putting them in a place where I would never find them, because I can't get over that horrible image in my head!

2007-08-29 08:08:58 · 49 answers · asked by gelfling 2

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after asking my spouse to quit all contact w/these friends of hers she agreed she would. since that time her phone has been in her hand, left on silent or turned off pretty much 100% of the time. she has told me a couple of times that she has rec no text or calls from anyone. i have so much hope that she is for real but i know that there has got to b a reason for the phone being secured in this fashion. my question is this: do i wait for concrete proof of communication between her & them to do something or should i just tell her that i dont appreciate being treated like im stupid and do something?

2007-08-29 08:00:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

You and your partner live together, one is leaving, says bye, but doesn't give you a kiss or nothing, is it over-reacting to get a bit bothered by this?

2007-08-29 08:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by LatinCaramel 1

This morning my wife, of just under eleven years, told me that she's leaving me today. She's taking the kids and going back home to her dad's.
My question, regarding this matter, is why does it not bother me? When she told me, I almost felt as if a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. Am I over her, or do I just not realize what's happened yet?

2007-08-29 07:41:45 · 45 answers · asked by daniel j 2

My mom and my day have been married for 24 years but my mom really wants to get married in the Catholic church. She tried already a few years ago. The thing is my dad was married before. Not through any religious ceremony but he was married and the priest didn't want to approve their marriage because they couldn't find the marriage license of his ex-wife even though they do have his divorce papers. Is there any way they can get married without the license. I would think that the divorce papers would be proof enough that my dad was married. I have been researching this and can't find any answers and my mom is really desperate. Please help!

2007-08-29 07:32:39 · 6 answers · asked by MIMI 2

So I'm 22yrsold, sophmore in college, and I want to get married. I don't know what it is...(well I do know what it is, I'm sick of dating) , but I want to get married. I don't care what anyone else thinks, I want to start my family life young. I've always wanted to get married and start a family young, my parents both did, and it's just in my blood. Family is the most important thing to me in life. Everyone I have talked to, however, says that I'm really young to get married. I do not think 22 is young, and even so, I don't have a set date/year/or even a man! The thing is, and how I see it, is that I'm NOT going to pass up a good opportunity with someone I truly connect with and view as my soulmate, despite what my age is and what others view as acceptable. I dictate my own life! I'm not shopping for a husband, but I'm not dating casually either. I want something longterm, stable, and something I can build upon, and if it leads to marriage then great, even better.

2007-08-29 07:15:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

when she use the bathroom am i the only one who does it? is it normal?

2007-08-29 06:58:37 · 10 answers · asked by dave d 1

im only 21 and been married a year and a half...im very unhappy and just decided to get a divorce. my husband knows and understands that i am very unhappy and need to leave. i want to leave but i feel very upset now what am i supposed to do. i think i really just need some support

2007-08-29 06:40:47 · 17 answers · asked by daisycm 5

My husband and I have been having a hard time with our marriage lately, it got to the point where my husband said he went down to the court house and got divorce papers. There was a period of about 2 and a half weeks where we were fighting all the time and he was always on the phone and texting someone but would never tell me who. We have now decided to work things out and in doing so I found somethings out. The person he was talking to was another girl that he has been friends with and has worked with for 5 years. The thing is they both use to like each other and still flirt ans tease each other, I know this because I have seen it and read text messages that he hadn't deleted yet. I also found out she was the one that gave him the divorce papers because her herself just went through one. I have asked him not to flirt with her and not to talk to her about our relationship, but he says she is a friend who understands him. Should I be worried that something more is there?

2007-08-29 06:35:04 · 29 answers · asked by tracytlctc 2

I have married my wife 20 years this December. Looking back she the more than likely was developing the diese then.
5 years later things started getting worse, and have continued to get worse to present. She was finnally dianosed 5 years ago as being Bipolor. Meds seem to help at times, but then we are back to the mania and depression. Se hasn't worked on over 6 years. I have taken a second full time job to make ends meet. When the depression hits there is no cooking, cleaning, much less conversation. Sex is just a memory, although, (Yes ladies i am man) I think that to be a very important aspect of marrige.The mania manifest itself as anger, not usually at me, but at anything or anyone she seems to be fixated on at the time. We went though a round not long ago and It finnally hit me, that this is going to be the rest of my life. I am not going to leave her cold, I still love her to much for that. We have to get her on disability income and insurance. To be continued......

2007-08-29 06:32:02 · 21 answers · asked by smokey27 1

I live in St. Louis city and trying to find out how i can get free divorce.

2007-08-29 06:28:06 · 15 answers · asked by Black Deadly Femme Fatale 1

I'm very interested in a guy, and we have been dating for 3 months, as we are 2 hours away, we meet up every weekend, last weekend he asked me to move in with him, he said he refused a girl who wants to rent his guestroom bcos he wants me to move in(he is working and has a house, I study in the Uni.). he said he really likes me and he wants more time to be with me to develop this relationship, today he called me and asked me if I checked the information about changing school. This comes so suddenly, I dont know why he is rushing... is he serious about the relationship or just want a convenience?

2007-08-29 06:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend is involved in her 2nd relationship with a married man. She was with the first one for about 3 years and finally realized that he wasn't going to leave his wife for her. (of course the entire time I'm telling her that he wouldn't leave his wife either) Now she is involved with another married man who, like the first, has children. They have been involved for about a year, and from what I can see, this guy is doing the same things that the first guy did. I know that there are a bunch of women out there who choose to date men that they know are married. Why?

2007-08-29 06:18:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

unto him? He brought it up during dinner. she's pretty too. He said he told her they were just friends. he wasn't interested like that. So why am I upset? now I don't even want him talking to her. She may be on a mission or something... I wish I hadn't known. what do u think?

2007-08-29 06:14:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please suggest ways of turning her down without hurting her.

2007-08-29 06:04:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter and granddaughter has moved in and she doesnt take care of my grandchild( my only piece of heaven) my teenage son is out of control and actually i had to contact defax to learn what i should do & they tell me to leave the home and my husband want work in a pie factory. What can i do? I have a full time job and i cant support everybody on what i make. i ask my daughter for $15.00 a week and she won't even do that. my husband told me i knew how he was and learn to live with it.

2007-08-29 05:35:04 · 17 answers · asked by twisty 1

how would you feel if your wife left you little love notes in your car and stuff? Would it embarrass you, or would it make you feel good? What do you think?

2007-08-29 05:26:05 · 16 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3

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