I'm very interested in a guy, and we have been dating for 3 months, as we are 2 hours away, we meet up every weekend, last weekend he asked me to move in with him, he said he refused a girl who wants to rent his guestroom bcos he wants me to move in(he is working and has a house, I study in the Uni.). he said he really likes me and he wants more time to be with me to develop this relationship, today he called me and asked me if I checked the information about changing school. This comes so suddenly, I dont know why he is rushing... is he serious about the relationship or just want a convenience?
2007-08-29 06:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't move in with him and complicate matters. Just enjoy the relationship for now and see where it leads before you rush into something you might well regret later. You don't really know him after just three months of seeing each other at weekends. Make him romance you some more. Don't make yourself a convenience for him. Don't change schools. If it is mean't to be then it will survive the distance..
2007-08-31 03:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!! Man, I kid you not! I tell you from experience. I moved in with my boyfriend after about the same time you have been dating your boyfriend. I went through some hard times financially and he "came to my rescue" and asked me to live with him. At first I was apprehensive, but he persisted and I agreed. Don't get me wrong I still love him. But when you throw other stuff in the mix, such as bills, money, ALL of your personal time & space, it gets stifling. These things put a huge strain on a new relationship. It's like we forgot to date and jumped into a marriage.
Good luck with your decision! I hope whatever you choose works out for the best.
2007-08-29 17:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I most definitely agree, G P. I made that mistake. We had dated maybe, 4 months, before we moved in together. We eventually decided to get married and right now I'm looking into a divorce. And, it sounds like he's got some issues if he's forcing this upon you. You have to ask yourself, why would someone be so ademant about getting you to move in with him like that? He's trying to get your to change your life as you know it. For all you know, he could be dangerous. Be careful.
2007-08-29 13:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by IndustrialGirl86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he want or expect you to pay half of his bills? Important question - don't be a convenience for him. I am serious. Three months is still too soon to be moving in with someone - why is he rushing things? I don't think you are comfortable either or you wouldn't be posting this question. Give it a lot of thought - he may certainly be genuine - it's just too soon for me.
2007-08-29 13:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Babycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he needs help with the rent i guess and i am not sure if you live there i guess there is free benefits there? are you ready for this do you love him or is he player? ansger these questions and if its ok go for it.
2007-09-02 00:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋