unto him? He brought it up during dinner. she's pretty too. He said he told her they were just friends. he wasn't interested like that. So why am I upset? now I don't even want him talking to her. She may be on a mission or something... I wish I hadn't known. what do u think?
2007-08-29 06:14:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mandy, since he told you that was a big thing. He is being honest with you. Ask him how he feels. Ask him if it's a joke to him. And above all tell him how you feel...don't let it just set in your heart.
nfd
2007-08-29 06:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by fishineasy™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your man got what he wanted...he wanted to make you jealous. He did a pretty good job didn't he?
I honestly don't think you have anything to worry about. It sounds like your man was probably flattered by the attention and he told you so you'd know he's a still a desirable stud muffin.
If he brings it up again, try taking the bait. Tell him that you're not surprised, but she better stay away from you because he's ALL yours. But don't go overboard. Too much jealousy will turn him off, but just enough, will probably turn him on!
So to sum it up, don't freak out. If you've got a good guy who is committed to you, then there is nothing to worry about.
2007-08-29 06:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by T the D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with a man having a female friend, but you have to watch out for the preditors out there that do not take marriage as life long bond and commentment. It helps that he told you about her, but did he tell you so you would not think he was doing anything. I would be upset, but handle it carefully. There really is not much of a reason for her to have any contact with him unless you are fully involved. If this is going on and he is not involving you in the contact he has with her, there is something to be suspicious about. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-08-29 06:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by D TRAIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being involved with racing, I have a lot of guy friends - in which case their girlfriends/wives get suspicious of me. If I were you, I'd try to meet her and see this girl and your guy interacting. You might be less concerned when you see they might be more brother-sister. Or, if you already have clues, talk to him about it casually. Don't assume anything. Pay attention to your tone of voice and body language. Just ask him, "So, what's going on with [name] these days?" or something like that. That way, he'll feel more at ease talking to you about it. Some guys just avoid talking about it because they think it'll hurt your feelings. It's taking advantage of the "Open Communication Policy". Also, he might be talking to her for your advantage. I know "my guys" always ask me dating questions, what they should wear, what kind of flowers to get a girl, what to do when their girlfriend gets mad, etc.
2007-08-29 06:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you stop talking to co workers or guy friends who hit on you? I mean most men have alterior motives for talking to a woman. He told her no and he told you what happened. Whether they remain friends or not is a choice he makes. You push him into ending their friendship and you may find yourself in an unhappy relationship. Relax a bit and realize that he can be trusted. Know a good thing when you see it.
2007-08-29 06:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the kind of guy most girls would die for. He has nothing to hide from you, so he hides NOTHING.
You want to protect your territory, when there's no danger. This guy is devoted to YOU, so you can relax a little & be proud that your guy is on the most wanted list of other women besides you. It makes him a trophy, so be proud, & enjoy the attention he gets.
Oh, BTW if you are still feeling insecure after his obvious demonstration of his dedication to you, then maybe you need to take a hard look at yourself & ask, WHY?
2007-08-29 06:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you have to no your man, what he is capable of. And if it's the ***** you can't trust then sit him down and talk to him let him no that she is damaging the relationship that you both share and that he should show you the same respect that you show him. Tell him that he does not have to stop talking to her completely but let her back off a little cause it makes you uncomfortable, and I doubt that he wants to make you feel uncomfortable in the relationship.
2007-08-29 06:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad that you do know! Why would he tell you something like this? I think he's trying to see just how jealous you'll get. If he continues a relationship with this girl, then I think it's pretty clear where you stand and what he's like. He sounds very immature.
2007-08-29 06:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are upset becuase you like him. Are you guys boyfriend and girlfriend? if you aren't don't tell him to stop talking to her. You have no right whatsoever. And if you are, tell him how you feel, he will change his ways for you not be hurt and jelous but then again if they have been friend for sometime don't expect him to stop talking to her. but be sure to say that you didn't like what she did. Just keep your eyes and ears open, you never know. Like the person who wrote said, be careful.
2007-08-29 06:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by maria41986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for you to be upset, however, be glad that he let you know what is going on. Trust that he does not have feelings for her and be glad that he is being honest with you. I wish you both the best of luck! Keep your eyes open.
2007-08-29 06:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋