Marriage & Divorce - 29 August 2007

How to make MY hubby do just few things ,just COZ I WANT IT.
Like making him be just polite but resreved INSTEAD of being very nice to couple of females who i hate like anything.

1. ONE WHO Tried everything to let our marriage not happen and him/his family to choose her.

2. OTHER ONE who is playing games n politics to make me look bad, creating lot of troubles in my inlaws and hubby. bro's wife. Ignore me, try to win my hubby by all time giving him attention, pick our baby and carry her love her infront of him only.

My hubby knew about both, all they did. Still would be nice to them. How can i make him not 2 be friendly with them andjust stick to hello hi.Nagging for years hasn't worked. I gave up for first girl.

2nd one is latest prob? Such things 've strained our marriage to point of breakup.
my enemies shuld be his too (imp)
& my friends his friends(not imp)
We were best friends + lovers b4 marriage 10 yrs.
dont i deserve dat he listen me on this.HELP suggest

2007-08-29 10:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by abeer 2

I'm talking about fishing weekends with his friends and going out of town for work. I trust him, I do so i dont understand why I get so emotional ... Mad ... crying .,...

2007-08-29 10:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by Shawn G 1

in a relationship (dating, marriage) why is it ok for a women to smack a man but then if a guy smacks a women just as hard police would come

2007-08-29 10:53:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cut all contact with my ex 2 days ago. It's so hard though. We were together for 3 years and I really loved him, more than anyone else. We stayed in contact after the break up but it was too hard for me, especially as he was the one who ended it. He was the one who wanted to stay in contact with me but I just could not because of all the feelings I have for him. We met a couple of weeks ago and it was a really nice meeting. He told me though that he thinks it's for the best to end our relationship and he wants to move on. But he said that he is scared that he might be making a mistake at the same time and we might get together again. i told him that in order to move on, I need to say good bye and go my separate way. It was so sad. I miss him so much and i am scared that I might not see him or hear from him again. Do you think by cutting all contact with him I ruined all chances for us to get back together again in the future? I really didn't want to do it but do I have any choice?

2007-08-29 10:50:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex wants to come over tomorrow to iron out some issues we have with the kids. she also said she wants to get some things off her chest and wants me to listen and keep quiet,then i get a turn. our talks always turn into arguments and she gets very angry she states she wants to keep it to the kids BUT,wants to say some things,then gets angry and brings up stuff from the past,she just recently got remarried,and claims how happy she is,but i get nothing but anger from her,she has no insurance and i"m going to try and steer her towards psychiatric help and pay for it if she will agree.She has a long history of opiate use (pills) and is currently on a maintenace drug suboxone. How do i handle this and do you think she has a hidden agenda? Why so much anger especially when she says i don't seem happy and there is so much out there! thanks

2007-08-29 10:49:36 · 14 answers · asked by pheggie101 1

If only the husbands name is on the house, is there a way the wife can get it in divorce??? No children. Wife paid the down payment (no proof) and pays the house payment monthly. What are the chances of the wife getting the house if it went to court?

2007-08-29 10:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am sure its just dirty i wear it everyday all day and i have had it for 8 months now but i have never cleaned it because i don't know how.

help please.

2007-08-29 10:40:00 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4

2007-08-29 10:36:04 · 20 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3

Clothes shopping specifically.
Is your spouse helpful or annoying?

2007-08-29 10:34:41 · 17 answers · asked by hypno_toad1 7

It's not that I want to be married to him (as far as that goes she can have him) it's more of that I lost in some way because he got married first, and somehow he replaced me with someone who isn't even pretty....I don't know, I think I'm weird....

2007-08-29 10:32:27 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2

Can a re-married mother take her children to another state if her ex-husband does not want her to? The father is thousands of dollars behind in child support, so does that make a difference? The children also are interested in the move, but they are only 14, so does that make a difference as well?

2007-08-29 10:25:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very curious about this. I have always done it with the wife in the bedroom, in the shower room, in the living room sofa, on the lawn chairs. I have ran out of ideas of where else to do it at. Any other cool ideas, where do it at?

2007-08-29 10:15:09 · 15 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

2007-08-29 10:13:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How could I find out for sure?

2007-08-29 10:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

psychology, marriage and divorce, etc?

My question was "Is it weird/normal that I like answering in subjects of psychology, marriage and divorce, etc? (it's in my profile...i think it's about my 10th question that I asked?)

His answer was something like "You say you feel numb and weren't affected by your family problems, but it's not true. See the psychological answer my friend- i think you like to answer in those areas because it makes you feel better. it speaks well of you"

The reason why I'm looking is because I was wondering if he'd talk with me for free online, since my parents would never take me mainly cause they'd blow me off and say I don't need one, and that coming from them would be pretty stupid to say.

Also, if he DOES answer, I have to say I'm pretty bad at describing myself and my life....so if you're not good at helping people..open up i guess? don't answer

2007-08-29 10:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5

Okay - I need opinions here. My husband for the last year sleeps with his cell phone in his pocket. It used to be he kept it on the charger like most normal people but now he charges it in the morning or at work. Does this seem strange to anyone to sleep with your cell phone on your body?

2007-08-29 09:55:22 · 35 answers · asked by ? 1

I have been impotent for the past year. Been seeing a doctor and tried all meds but still no luck. I have tried all "other means" to sexually satisfy her but she wants actual penetration. Don't get us wrong, she is actually a real compassionate person and is heartbroken we have this problem but the marriage is starting to erode. We argue more often. She is mid-forties and still has a strong desire. I want her to be happy so I am considering allowing her to take a lover. I know it's risky but what have I got to lose at this point. How would a counsellor help in this situation?

2007-08-29 09:53:36 · 47 answers · asked by ckretajent 1

I have a friend who lost his wife in a car accident in February of 2006. Sadley, they were still newly weds, only married for 6 weeks. About a year after the death of his wife, he started dating a long time friend (somone he had known for 10 years), and this Saturday they are getting married. That's only a year and a half after the death of his first wife, but he is very happy.

Do you think he should wait longer? Or do you think if he is happy that's all that matters. Some of his ex-inlaws have mixed emotions. They are happy, but it has been less than two years. What do you think?

2007-08-29 09:51:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband got mad at me for buying a work shirt without telling him. The shirt wasnt even that expensive, when I brought it home along with some other items he knew I was buying he took my car, cell phone bank card and emergency credit card away. He was "nice" enough to give me the car for work and school but he is keeping my cell phone (which I need for work and my kids) and cards in his posession to teach me about being responsible. I feel this is controlling behavior but he feels its a good lesson to learn. I admit I have made past mistakes with finances but is this too far?

2007-08-29 09:51:38 · 29 answers · asked by Lovinlife915 2

We live in Illinois and my ex wants to see the kids every other weekend as stated in our divorce decree. However, the decree states he is supposed to have them from 6PM Friday night to 6PM Sunday night. He can only take them during Saturday and Sunday daytimes because he is living with his dad and can't have them overnight there. Does it mean I'm denying visitation if I say that if he can't take them during the allotted time in the decree, he can't take them at all?

2007-08-29 09:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Hanna-Banana 1

I'm 1 1/2 yrs into divorce. Husband cheated, left. I own real estate here & FL. Atty said I can't sell anything because X wants 50/50 even tho he's not on Deed, etc. They are getting title work, appraisals, subpoenaing banks... In the meantime, I've got 2 school aged kids, we asked to move to FL a year ago. My dad is not well and my rentals are empty. I do not get temp support, do not work due to health reasons, been living off line of credit that is now maxed. Kids do not have visits w/ dad; neither he nor they want it. In March my attorney said X was allowing me & kids to relocate to FL. I prepared, school, furniture ... Recently I called Atty to be 100% sure, he says X won't let me go unless I sign Global settlement agreeing to his terms. What did I spent 20K on?! The place we're currently in is rented as of 9/15. Plus, my kids got bullied here as new students last yr. I feel my very high cost lawyer has dropped the ball. He's also made sexual innuendos. We want to be able to go.

2007-08-29 09:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by FLmom 1

I have been with him for two years and we have a new baby girl that is 2 months. We began having problems when I was pregnant when money began to run low. I made matters worse by blaming him for all we didn't have and for ruining my life. He stayed through that and was there for me every step of the way, but I recently discovered he has been talking to other woman, but has been emotionally and physically involved with on of them. He is begging for forgiveness and he says he has no feelings for this other woman and he wants us to work. But I am trying to forgive him but I know in my heart that the trust is completely gone. What do I do. I want to teach him a lesson so I have been killing him with dead silence and ignoring him he is even back at his mother's house. But I know in my heart I need him home with us.

2007-08-29 09:41:15 · 19 answers · asked by Sye S 1

Believe me, i do put him 1st most of the time. I cooked, cleaned, kept myself up and attractive, did the majority of the work around the house, carried the family health insurance, etc..., and I did NOT with hold sex from him. I just didn't want it as often as he did. I have also tried all the things he has asked me to do as far as sexy clothes, etc... I was also molested by my own brother as a teenager, and I had a hysterectomy at 35, and I am on multiple meds for fibromyalgia, and thyroid problems. I don't think he takes any of this in to consideration. I just don't know anymore. My gut feeling, is that he just wants to get rid of me, and find someone new. Like he's outgrown me or something. So confused......

2007-08-29 09:32:51 · 20 answers · asked by CSmom 5

My husband left me and my three children. We have been married 13yrs and this is all I ever known. Each time I start to move on I am pulled back by him saying he doesn't want a divorce and I feel like I am on an emontional rollercoaster. I am very depressed and anger because I feel there is no closure to this. Please help me

2007-08-29 09:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by danaispeace 2

2007-08-29 09:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

since they always bit(h about shallowness but then try to get with a skinny girl.

2007-08-29 09:17:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says that I toss and turn all night and keep her awake. She says she sleeps so much better without me there. I am a restless sleeper, but I don't want our relationship to suffer because we don't actually go to sleep together. Do I have anything to worry about.

2007-08-29 09:16:38 · 40 answers · asked by I wanna talk to Samson 3

My sister's boyfriend wants to get a divorce from his "current" wife. They've been separated for a while and now he wants to marry my sister. But they don't have money to get a lawyer. What can they do?

2007-08-29 09:06:46 · 7 answers · asked by always_sweet_b 2

Left a year ago still comes around. I love him very much and he is a very good man in a lot of ways will some faults not bad ones. We had problems with communication and the way eachother reacted to certain situations. We both weren't that great to eachother at times. anyhow. I feel deep down he comes around and he has fun with the kids and I. But he says he is not coming back home. We are still married and I feel soo alone at times but not alot cus I am busy working going to school and raising four kids but alone in the couple factor. Once in a while we still well you know but I don't know I can't seem to move on. I love him sooo much. Why won't he come back and work it out and go to counseling why does he seem to be happy and have fun around us but not fully want to come home. There are nights he shuts his phone off and goes out with friends. I sit all night wondering if he will meet someone else. I know i should move on and focus on what I have goin on now. But how?I try

2007-08-29 09:04:06 · 53 answers · asked by youcandoit 4

I'm getting married and my dad wants me to hyphenate my name. It is my choice to only keep my future husband's name. Now my dad is saying that he won't contribute any money or even walk me down the aisle. Am I being unreasonable? Has anyone else ever faced this type of drama over name hyphenation?

2007-08-29 08:57:13 · 15 answers · asked by Gods Child fo Life 2