Marriage & Divorce - 14 August 2007

I want to make nice gesture, but don't want to give her reason to be mad at me if I don't read her mind and do something she expects. That happens enough already.

2007-08-14 05:08:48 · 23 answers · asked by nonickname 3

How long does it take for a divorce to go through if you are not fighting anything at all?

2007-08-14 05:00:16 · 13 answers · asked by LuckyStar1984 2

She is currently married but has been seperated for over 2 years....
the marriage lasted 8 DAYS, wasnt consimated, she fell ill on honeymoon and was left to suffer while "he" went sightseeing..
when they got back she was rushed to hospital where she almost died due to lack of care.
the marriage couldnt be annulled in our stupid state of sc

we met over a year ago and soon started dating... and have been madly in love ever since.
we have talked marriage many a time and that is what we both want...

PROBLEM IS... her parents are VERY CONSERVATIVE..
the fact she was dating while still technically married would probably cause them to NEVER give me a chance

due to this when i meet them later this month (as divorce will be FINAL) they are to be told we have been good friends and been hanging out for over a year but no that we were offical then.

Due to this and the fact she expects me to ask her father for his blessing my plans of asking on her birthday in feb are slim to nill

2007-08-14 04:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-14 04:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy lady 2

2007-08-14 04:32:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

everything was great and all of a sudden she has change.She says she feels numb and don't know what she wants and don't wanna hurt me but she needs space.I dunno know why this is a sudden thing and i thought that things was going good not great but good enough that she wont want this.im heart broke and i think that there is somebody else at work maybe she wants that old feeling like you used to have back in high school i dont know but somebody help me,,we have 2 kids also i cant live without my kids and her...is she cheating what do i do what can i say..im lost

2007-08-14 04:32:04 · 15 answers · asked by slayer 1

36 yrs old
Married 12 yrs
2 Kids
Having sex ONCE every 3-4 months

2007-08-14 04:29:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my gf and treat her like a princess. She always gets her way. Lately she hasn't been treating me so well. Last night i got chineese and opened my fortune cookie, read it and put it in my pocket. She said "what was it" and I said "oh no I can't show you". (I was just joking around). She said "your gonna show me that" and jumped on top of me.(still friendly till this point). I decided to she what would happen if she didn't get her way and because I'm stronger I was able to keep her from getting it. She then got all pissed off and won't talk to me. I think she was surprised that I denied her and she is used to getting her way. I think I spoiled her too much and she takes my kindness for weakness. What do you think?

2007-08-14 04:22:35 · 17 answers · asked by Tool7 3

I have recently filed for divorce. I'm seeking sole custody of my two children. My soon to be ex is seeking Primary Shared Custody. Here's my major issue. He doesn't work, doesn't help out financially, lays around and has his new girlfriend do everything for him. He got injured and suposidly filed for disability. That was 3 years ago and nothing. I personally think he's lying. My kids have both told me that he has been working for cash for a friend of his. He's a complete deadbeat father. Do you honestly think any judge in the great country of ours would actually give this ahole what he wants.

His daughter from a previous relationship wants nothing to do with him.

I also don't think he realized that he would be responsible for half of everything the kids need (he'd had to get insurance on them), medical bills, everything.

Your thoughts and serious answers only.

2007-08-14 04:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

I'm getting married in a few months and I'm just not sure if I really am ready. I've been dating my fiance for about three years now. He asked me to marry him a year ago, I didn't know what to say or what to think. I said yes because I was unsure and he asked me in front of his family, I couldn't say no. One day my fiance started talking about having kids and grandkids. I don't want kids and I thought we'd already had this conversation? To top all of that off, I keep losing weight and the dress is going to be all saggy. Oh my god. I don't know what to do. The invitations were sent out like a week ago. Lately I've been noticing other guys...like before I'd see a hot guy and it was whatever. But now, I just want to take off my ring and start talking to them. I can't go through with calling it off... But I don't know if I can get through the whole marriage part. With kids?? I have a career! Help me?

2007-08-14 04:09:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a chihuahua, and I am interested in getting another dog. She is great with other dogs, and has been brought up around large breed dogs.

I read that Whippets are great with dogs, but may chase some cats.

Does anyone have experience of having a Whippet and a small dog? How do they interact?
Any other information would be great!

2007-08-14 04:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Midwest 6

My husband and I are recently married. He has a longstanding obligation to pay for his 2 younger brother's (v. expensive) college education. He made this commitment when he had a good paying job, which he later lost. Since then, we got married (secretly, with the hopes of having a "real" wedding for our family and friends) and he has begun to recuperate financially. Unfortunately, we are not in the same "financial" position as beforeand although I've been saving money for our wedding, my husband hasn't saved a dime Instead, he's resumed sending money to his family and has lied to me about it. His mother is somewhat manipulative and further complicates the problem by calling to complain about how much she works, her financial woes and seeks advice on how to raise his younger siblings (she left his father many years ago). First, can I get my husband to stop lying to me - finanical infidelity will ruin our marriage; second, how can we get his manipulative mother to leave us alone?

2007-08-14 04:01:18 · 29 answers · asked by mnm 1

I'm not looking for a debate, because pretty much everyone has their mind made up and no amount of arguing will change it. I'm just trying to open up my mind and understand the other point of view, because frankly, I don't get it.

OTHER THAN THE RELIGIOUS ASPECT, why are you anti-gay marriage (if you are)??

Please, state your opinion as an opinion and not as a fact. (instead of "Gay people are crazy!!1!one!!!" say "I feel that homosexuals are crazier than heterosexuals")

2007-08-14 04:00:36 · 16 answers · asked by Liz 4

As I said earlier you are NOT dependable and are NOT determined or commited to make a life with me. It is always unclear, and always a negative result comes out dealing with you.

You have a mind of your own and do not want to connect and work as a friend with me - in the interest of the house, our child and a future. Do exact opposite of what the situation demands and are not a team player. When I help you in writing about your priorities...you still do the opposite. Due to such actions, outsiders/ lawyers/ apartment complex people take advantage and benefit.... and WE... our child, myself and our family loses...

It is very hard to get a hold of you on the phone. WHY ??? You never answer the phone and never return phone calls. I am always in the dark about what is going on or what to expect.
Something is very very wrong..........

IS THIS WORKING LIKE CLOCKWORK ?

Prove me wrong with your actions !!!

I have worked on the move transition to reunite with him.

2007-08-14 03:54:01 · 35 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

Honestly, everytime i mention that my husband makes all the decisions, and choices everyone freaks out. Most people think poor me, and that my life must be sad.
I chose this lifestyle, i like this lifestyle, and im quite happy and my marriage is fantastic. My husband wasnt forced into either, we discussed this before we got married. We agreed before we got married that this was the lifestyle we would have.
He works, i do not. There fore i feel like he should be afforded more authority over money, housing,credit,etc.
I think a lot of people think subservient means he beats me or something. He DOESNT!
To me being subservient to my husband is just letting him make decisions and choices. I trust his judgment, and I feel comfortable in him making the choices.
My husband is fantastic, hes putting me through college for my own entertainment. Bought us a house,and has a good job. I love cooking, and cleaning. It works for us. Its not for everyone i understand that.

2007-08-14 03:46:59 · 25 answers · asked by Cebsme 6

Every since we decided I would stay home with the kids, have no income of my own, he has gotten very contolling.

He feels he have to make all the decisions without consulting me.
He does all the gocery shopping, I have to settle for what he buys.

basically the only decision i have is WHAT TO COOK AND DISCIPLINE THE KIDS

I have expressed my feeling and he still does it. I'm tired of arguing.

I can't get a job because i don't have a babysitter and he want pay.

totally unhappy, but my kids are very happy

2007-08-14 03:40:22 · 16 answers · asked by dennis w 1

I have posted here before. I have been married for just under three months. Some things that happened before our wedding (which turned out to be nothing) pushed me into a cycle of insecurity with my husband. I have actually been seeing a counsellor to deal with my issues. I have been careful not to over-burden my husband with my paranoia...but he's picked up on it...he knows that i have snooped on him. He's trying to be super supportive but I can tell he's freaked out. I want to do everything I can to re-assure him that I'll get past this... but after we have a conversation about what I'm feeling I can tell he gets scared and starts to shut me out a little. Anyone have any advice for how I can put his mind at ease?

2007-08-14 03:36:55 · 13 answers · asked by Sally Ann 1

I have separated from my husband and have 10 months old daughter. At the moment my emotions are all ovet the place and I think I dont know what I want.

At the same time I feel like I am free now (I initiated split up) and I want to meet new people. I would have no problem getting new man, but feel its too early to get into another long term relationship.

Also, I dont want my daughter to suffer and if I started serious relationship now, I can tell that she wouldnt even notice, but I am not ready.

I think I should wait a year or two, but how would she take it then? A new man in her life?

I am young and dont want to stop seeing guys, but then what about my baby?

Any ideas what is the best age for child to get new dad, so it is most naturall and stress free? (Living with her father would be stresfull, although he does love her and wants to be together, but we just argue all the time)

2007-08-14 03:15:41 · 17 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1

I am all for a collaboration but I think that there are somethings that should be handled by just one person so that there is consistancy.

2007-08-14 03:11:25 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, my first love contacted me yesterday through facebook after 7 years without hearing from her. Im married now and have been for the past 18 months, the marriage has gone pretty well so far but ive never had that smae feeling for her as i did my first love (childhood sweetheart of 4 years).

Question is what so i do?, do i keep contact with my first love in the hope that we could just be good friends or would this be dangerous?

Its really strange for me as some of the old feelings come crashing back when i think of her, should i keep contact with her or should i look for some kind of closure?

what do you guys think? do you still habour feelings for your first loves and if so is this natural so long after we stopped seeing each other?

2007-08-14 03:07:00 · 56 answers · asked by chris c 1

FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS

2007-08-14 03:05:02 · 19 answers · asked by Omar 1

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2007-08-14 03:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband will not be release until my kids are over 18, so I will not get any child-support. He is not liable for back pay. I have been told that the state is responsible for paying me, but I don't know who to talk to. Is this true? If so, who do I speak to about this?

2007-08-14 02:55:28 · 21 answers · asked by butterflygirl 1

Why do men who have fathered children in a marriage or not in a marriage thinks they can get away with supporting their children it makes my blood boil. But if a woman decided to leave her children the father would be hell bent on getting money from her!!! I have decided my children and i are better off without my so called childrens dad!!

2007-08-14 02:54:22 · 12 answers · asked by sexiebum 5

I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. When we met, we immediately moved in together and have had the most dishonest relationship you can imagine. I have been ready to move on for the past 9 months and he refuses to leave. I don't feel it's necessary to get authorities involved. What can I do to make him leave? By the way...it's my house he lives in, so I am not moving out.

2007-08-14 02:54:02 · 25 answers · asked by Stephanie 1

my son goes to his fathers every saturday morning around 8:30 am I drop him off before I go to work. My son has told me and my new boy friend who is living with us that he would rather stay at home with my BF and not go to his fathers. Should I be worried about the relationship with my son and his dad?

2007-08-14 02:45:43 · 17 answers · asked by oh_jo123 7

just wondering, how you met your soul mate, whats your story?
i have not met mine yet, but i hope i will VERY soon!

2007-08-14 02:42:38 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long do I have to wait for her to give in. It has been 3 months since I have had sex with my wife. I understood after we had our 2nd child that she may not want to do it for a while but my boy is now 20 months old. Why do women cut us off like this. We never had a problem B4 we had kids, to tell you the truth it almost got sickning because she was so hor*y all the time. And don't tell me to help around the house more. I do all the cooking, half of the cleaning and do my fair share with the kids so she can have some down time. Even after our first kid we never really got into a rhythm, and she is 4. I have talked to her about it and I guess I am not getting through, she says she will try harder but it all stays the same!

2007-08-14 02:38:03 · 34 answers · asked by bigboy56073 2

how much does a divorce cost in tx and is there a time limit to get an annulment.

2007-08-14 02:35:33 · 4 answers · asked by bris 3

In an arranged marriage, is it a legal requirement in India to tell your potential spouse about all your past relationships before marriage? If so, is there not a conflict of interest for the potential groom/bride?

2007-08-14 02:31:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous