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just wondering, how you met your soul mate, whats your story?
i have not met mine yet, but i hope i will VERY soon!

2007-08-14 02:42:38 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

44 answers

My sister and her boyfriend wanted to go out and they asked me if I could take them to this bar they knew of, and when we arrived they wanted me to go in with them for a little while. I wasn't comfortable going there to even drop them off much less so I called my friend Anthony to see if he wanted to meet me there. He said alright, and so he called a few buddies to come along as well." I waited on them inside the bar at a table with my sister and her boyfriend. About 30 minutes later my friend Anthony arrived with his friends. He had got his friend James to pick him up and bring him to meet us. James didn't want to go neither but Anthony insisted. When I first laid eyes on James, I knew he was my soul mate. James seen me and was very attracted to me as well. I would catch him starring at me and when I would look his way, he would act like he wasn't looking at me. He'd look at something else. It was too cute. I told myself that this is the man I would have children with before meeting him. -I knew I had found my baby's daddy. (It was intuition, I guess)
A month in a half later, he proposed and we got married.
That was pretty quick ,huh? -We both knew we were meant for eachother and wanted to be with one another for the rest of our lives.
Now we have a baby boy who is 2.
The love and attraction is still very strong.
He and I have hurdled many trials throughout our relationship but none of this couldn't have been possible without God in our lives. Because of the Lord we are blessed with good communication, love, respect, and understanding for one another. We hope you find the same!
-God Bless!!!

2007-08-18 11:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 3 0

Long story: Are you ready?
We actually dated in high school. We dated for about a year and then he got another gf. I told him we would be together again someday, just didn't know when. He actually thought that was funny. We went on about our separate lives; we both got married to different people and divorced them. Fast Forward 8 years: While going through a divorce (what a joke that marriage was) I met up with my "soulmate" again in a college biology class. We were surprised to see one another and we embraced. From that point one, he made an effort to call me and check on me every day. (I was an emotional disaster). He never tried to hit on me or get anything from me. He was a very good friend to me. Little by little I started to have more than "just friends" feelings for him. About a year and a half later we married. Then we divorced each other after a year and then got remarried to each other 3 months later after that. We realized we loved each other more than anything and could work anything out that came our way. We have been married for 14 years since and it gets better all the time. We joke that we can read each others thoughts, he'll say what I'm thinking or he'll call when I'm thinking of him and vice versa.

2007-08-14 03:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 4 · 1 0

I met mine in high school, only I didn't know it.
We were 'acquaintances' through other friends. Didn't know more than his first name, Dave, and I dont think he even knew mine at all, but I had Fox, Cutie, babe...you name it, all over every picture of him in every single year book I had.

I moved away and when I came back, I had a new bf.
Over a couple years, we all separated and moved around. Well, I moved to a new apt. complex with the bf, and met this really really cute guy!! Gosh he was hot! I would flirt with him and all the fun stuff when I'd see him, and he would whistle as I walked by or honk to me on his way off to work each day. I didn't know his name yet.

Well, After a really rough day of abuse from the bf, I ran off and to that guys part of the complex and sat on his steps, crying. It was SAFE for me. He came home and sat beside me, said Hi, Im Dave. Put his arm around me and said 'i dont know you besides living in the same place but you're safe here'. He refused to let me go back. Told me that HE loved me and deserved to be loved and treated like a queen. That if I loved him, I would agree to stay put, and if I didn't, I might learn to love him. Oh...I loved him plenty!! LOL!! Didn't have to ask ME twice!

Well dear, a few years later, after we married, had kids, we went digging through old year books and showing eachother who we thought was the 'thing'. I showed him his own picture and he busted up laughing. I never noticed the name and almost died when I saw it was him!!
He opened his wallet and took out an old jr high school id card. It was MINE!! He said he had seen it on the ground and it was the girl that he swore to find and marry some day. He kept it as the reminder of that girl he knew so long long ago that he was inlove with and afraid to tell.
When he found it, He didn't have the courage to do more than say hi at the time and didn't want to give it back to me.
25 years later, we're still here and happilly married.

2007-08-21 07:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by TBS 2 · 1 0

We were in the cafeteria at college, I looked across the tables and saw this very attractive dark haired girl. There was a mutual friend who was in her class to introduced us the next day about 10:30AM, that was on April 28 1981, married on July 2 1982, just celebrated 25 years of marriage !!
You will find good soul mates in good places, bad mates on the crack corner or liquor store

2007-08-21 10:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I met my soul mate on the job. We worked together and we just clicked!! We worked together often (he was training me) During normal chit chat we just hit it off. We have very similar personalities, interests and the sex is OUT OF THIS WORLD!!!
I really wasn't one of those people that beleived in soul mates- neither was he. But the attraction is just undeniable. We have been dating for the past 10 months and we are each others everything. It is like we are teenagers again. His friends and mine both say that there is something in our eyes that they haven't seen. A happiness and a calmness.

2007-08-19 18:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by FunFlirty&30 1 · 0 0

I met mine through an acquittance. She knew I was in an abusive relationship and I wanted out. I did leave, but he kept coming around. She told me she knew someone that was really nice, so I finally said yes. To my surprise he turned out to be my soul mate. It was just supposed to be a one night stand, well it's going on 9 years now and we're still going strong. Bye, Bye to the jerk I was with. I just pity the woman he's with now. I know he abuses her, but evidently she likes it or she'd be gone. I thank my lucky stars I met my honey. I'll be with him until I no longer am around. And he feels the same, for we talk about everything. Even when we don't agree about everything, it's all good. If we didn't, it would be a very boring relationship. And boring it isn't.

2007-08-22 01:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honestly, I met mine in high school, but didn't know it then. We dated a bit, but were so young, and it didn't work out. We remained very close friends, even living together for a year in college. We both married other people, but stayed close. There was always this connection between us, but the timing was just never right. We are both now divorced, and knew that if we didn't give US a chance, we would regret it for the rest of our lives. Ironically, he is everything I have ever wanted and more! He is truly the love of my life!

2007-08-21 04:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by CuitePie 4 · 0 0

In high school, we both felt each other was kinda weird, but out of all the guys I have met in my life he actually listened to what I had to say, he was so supportive, kind and sweet. We became great friends, and then we fell in love. Now it’s been 7 years, we have been together for 4 years. We recently (Jan) just moved in together, and I have never been happier, he is such a wonderful person. I can’t even describe how he makes me feel it’s so incredible how much joy a person can bring into your life. He means the world to me. Unfortunately hes gotten a little too comfy, and I have to say the same thing over and over again,lol, I still love him.

2007-08-16 02:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 3 · 1 0

My husband and I were both unhappily married to other people and living in different states when we met. He was living in New York and I was living in Michigan. I went to New York to attend to some business matters. I happened to be in Penn Station at 3am on a Friday night. He was a cop working that detail, I was actually talking to another officer when he walked up. There were thousands of people literally and half of them were three sheets to the wind. I wanted to go smoke a cigarette so Gary (my husband) said he would go with me upstairs. As we were riding the escalator we were telling each other that we were both married and all of the sudden he leaned over and kissed me. From that kiss on we have been together. We both got out of our bad marriages and we got married to each other. With Gary it felt like I had come home. It was the first time I can honestly say that. I knew from the second that he kissed me. We have been together for 14 years now and we are still going strong,. When he kisses me now it still makes my knees weak and brings me back to that escalator 14years ago,

2007-08-21 00:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 0 0

We just happened to be out at the same place at the same time. He was with a group of friends and I was with some too. I knew some of the people in his group, but had never met him before. As everybody else started talking the two of us did. I knew the second I saw him that I was going to marry him. After that night we kept running into each other in different places. About a month later he finally asked for my phone number and things went from there. We've been together for 10 years and married for 7 of them.

2007-08-14 03:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 2 1

I believe in soul mates. I'm not sure if everyone has one but I think a lot of people mess it up and that might be why some people don't believe. I met mine on Thanksgiving Day at Waffle House. He walked in and as soon as our eyes met that was it- time stood still and it was as if we had known each other our whole lives. It was the strangest and greatest feeling in the world. We spent most of the night trying to figure out where we knew each other from only to figure out that our paths never crossed before. He believes in reincarnation so in his faith, soul mates go with you from life to life. That is his explanation for how we already knew each other. Before him, I was skeptical and did not believe in soul mates either. You will find yours. But so you know, I had just gotten out of a bad relationship and wasn't looking for another one. Some day when you least expect it, he'll be there and it will happen just the way it was meant to. Good luck with your love life and much happiness to you!

2007-08-14 03:10:58 · answer #11 · answered by Miranda 2 · 3 2

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