I love my gf and treat her like a princess. She always gets her way. Lately she hasn't been treating me so well. Last night i got chineese and opened my fortune cookie, read it and put it in my pocket. She said "what was it" and I said "oh no I can't show you". (I was just joking around). She said "your gonna show me that" and jumped on top of me.(still friendly till this point). I decided to she what would happen if she didn't get her way and because I'm stronger I was able to keep her from getting it. She then got all pissed off and won't talk to me. I think she was surprised that I denied her and she is used to getting her way. I think I spoiled her too much and she takes my kindness for weakness. What do you think?
2007-08-14 04:22:35 · 17 answers · asked by Tool7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you are both immature...thats what I think.
You asked.
2007-08-14 04:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, these are the little things that could lead to a much larger problem later. Right now, just tell her you want to talk to her and explain that you love to spoil her but that sometimes its immature and bratty of her to act like she did when she doesnt get her way, tell her that its a turn off and that you hope that you can keep treating her like a princess but thatshe will act like a queen. Communicating with her could help her to understand how she is responding so she will be more aware of her actions and will be less likely to act like that. Good luck.
2007-08-14 11:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a bit spoiled but you probably didn't have anything to do with it... Probably the people who raised her have... This is really silly it started out fun but turned into uglienessbut it is natural to test one another... I think your kindness she may misunderstand but not take it for weakness. She as well may have only been joking by giving you the silent treatment. Most couples have to play this game a few times before it's no longer an issue.
2007-08-14 11:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to draw a conclusion from your story because a fortune cookie message is pretty trivial. I think a true test is when there are consequences to a decision. People who are "spoiled" are also selfish.
To answer your original question, "Will she get over it?" Of course she will because you will go back to treating her like a princess today and she will forget yesterday's fortune.
2007-08-14 11:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Willie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have created a monster. Kidding!
But you have set your standards of what you will accept and now she is used to that.
You need to just talk to her a let her know she will not always get her way and she cannot get all bratty and not talk to you for it.
But you have to fess up about where you think you went wrong and tell her that you will not continue on this same course.
There has to be a balance, not deny her everything but get up off that front step. LOL
2007-08-14 11:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok me and my boyfriend are the same way...i always get what i want. but the thing is, when u really think about it, dont always let her get what she wants maybe a sweet little here and there kinda thing but if u take it to far she will walk allover u and control your every move. she's afraid that she is going to lose you, and u wont love her anymore if u dont treat her like the little spoiled brat she is.
2007-08-14 11:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_to_be89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are right, but instead of playing a game, try TALKING to her about what you think. You're gonna gather more information that way.
2007-08-14 11:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who would get angry over something like this is not worth having. But then, your girlfriend is a child, so scratch that!
2007-08-14 11:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i think your right....to much of the good thing for her
do you really want to thur life with someone who DOESNT APPRECIATE YOU...I have a sister for you
she would be humble to have a bf like you....
2007-08-14 11:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are correct Sir. You better nip that in the bud or she is always going to walk all over you.
2007-08-14 11:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll get over it, but you need to stop babying her as*... Stop giving into her every whim, or she will continue that kind of behavior.
2007-08-14 11:35:40 · answer #11 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋