Marriage & Divorce - 14 August 2007

Okay, I have been married for little over a year now. We have a baby. He is my world. After his birth, I totally lost my lust for my husband. Anything he does, doesnt turn me on. NOTHING DOES. Im not attracted to him anymore. BUT there is this guy ...who im totally attracted to..big time. BUT..he is married too and has kids. He is bascially in the same boat im in. I havent DONE ANYTHING with him. We are just real good friends. Is it nomal that this has happened to me?? People say that once u have a baby you go through all these changes...believe me, i am. I fantasize about this guy all the time?!?! IS THIS NORMAL??? what do i need to do. Its driving me crazy. I mean, i love my husband though. Just not in a love way...i guess thats how u put it!! PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-08-14 11:32:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anyone on here take the advice that others on here give to them, concerning you relationships?

2007-08-14 11:27:30 · 9 answers · asked by Danu 6

ok i never did this before and neither did he. i sent my husband a e card at 2 30 and he calls rite now so i ask him did u check ur ecards he said o u checked them. he sent me e cards to at same time i sent him two he sent me two. i am in shock. how can we both do this at same time never done it before. are we made for each other :) lol

2007-08-14 11:03:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months ago. It was very painful for me as I didn't want it. He was saying that he doesn't want long-distance anymore. But he kept saying it's for now. When I told him that I need to cut all contact with him as it hurts me to be in contact with him, he was always angry and would be doing everything for us staying in contact. He was telling me that he wants us to talk to each other whenever we need. I tried to be strong but these days I really needed him to talk to me. I asked him 2 days ago to talk but he ended up shouting at me that it's not his role anymore to be alwys there like he used to. I was upset and he then got really angry and told me that he is fed up and he has moved on and he hates me and he doesn't need me anymore. But 2 weeks ago he said he needed me when I wasn't answering my phone. I feel so hurt by this. We arranged to meet to talk face to face but he now asked for a week to think as he needs to decide if we should meet.

2007-08-14 10:48:04 · 36 answers · asked by violet b 1

2007-08-14 10:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

He was sentenced 15yrs. in a state prison.But he is apealing his case and there is a big chance his sentenced will be reduced to 5 yrs with 5 yrs of paroel.He has already served 2yrs....I really love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him.

2007-08-14 10:34:50 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

hang out with at least once a week and we always have the best of times when we're together!!! We all hang out as a group of friends along with numerous other couples ... anyhow on 8/2/7 it was the husbands birthday (of the other couple) and I among other people sent him a Happy Birthday message on myspace ... where we all keep in touch with our long lost friends. So here is the message I sent (which I have sent to guys before!) ...

It's a picture from photobucket.com that says happy birthday and has a picture of a woman (not me!) on it who is shirtless and is holding cupcakes with candles over her boobs! (ok ... I think that it's hilarious) and I wrote a comment I though was hilarious that said ... "I hope your birthday is as nice as these cupcakes :)". I am totally devoted to my husband and do not in anyway find myself attracted to this guy!

She .... our friend ... just went off on me saying it's completely inappropriate that I did this!!! Was I in the wrong?!

2007-08-14 10:25:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Spur of the moment?

Been thinking about her all day?

Guilty conscience?

2007-08-14 10:15:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a pure redneck, which I knew this when I married him, and I knew that he drinks, a lot. The problem is he keeps getting worse about how he treats me after he starts drinking. I've been through the same situation with him everytime he drinks of getting in fights over silly things because he takes things the wrong way when he drinks. I told him he's gotta choose, me and his daughter, or beer. Thats it, that simple. Alcohol has been the cause of all our fights, so was it wrong for me to make him choose like that?

2007-08-14 09:58:52 · 20 answers · asked by tiffthone 1

Is it because they are not satisfy with their spouse??

2007-08-14 09:54:20 · 16 answers · asked by back2future 5

The other day I was telling some people at work how bad my wife has been acting latley. She's been bitchy and has a horrible attitude and cusses and hates everything i do. So one of the other married women said "my husband would take me over his knee and bust my butt good if I acted like that" I was taken aback. I asked if she was serious and not like a sexual thing and she said yeah! I should do the same to my wife. Another younger girl said her boyfriend spanks her bare bottom whenever she acts up. I thought this was abuse? They both recommended it. The one woman even said that her husband uses her hairbrush on her butt occasionally. Is wife spanking really that popular and does it work?

2007-08-14 09:41:58 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently my ex and i tried to get back together per say. But mainly it was an act because his parents were down & going to stay at my house. I think mainly because he didnt want his parents to see how he was really living with his ex girlfriend & was too embarrassed of her & she wasnt good enough to meet his parents. So he went to extremes & moved all of his stuff into my house & made it feel like home to him. Perfectly ok with me. Well his best friend calls and tries to start ****. Well he calls my cell phone to talk to my ex & tells me that he is in love with his best friend's girlfriend but he wasnt calling to start **** between me and my ex & he didnt want to ruin the friendship with my ex either. And then he told me that my ex had moved his ex in with another friend of his. Also my ex's ex gf had been having and affair with his best friend while they were still living together. She is nasty white trash. Is this normal ? I know it isnt!! And he left all his stuff at my house!!!

2007-08-14 09:36:54 · 16 answers · asked by cheeks4u21 1

I have posted a lot of questions in the Marriage & Divorce section of Yahoo! Answers. Sometimes some of the men have really good advice and/or can relate to my situation. One in particular told me to e-mail him anytime if I wanted more advice or if I wanted to blow off some steam. Would that be considered cheating? I haven't accepted his offer, but I wanted to see what other people thought about it.

2007-08-14 09:35:56 · 44 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Are the forms in this kit legal forms? If so what to do after
they have been filled out.
Serious answers please.

2007-08-14 09:28:09 · 5 answers · asked by shadowtwo 2

Why would a man whose family friend for years and in love with me for years suddenly say hes scared to commit marry me so cant meet up.No we are not cheating we are in love.How to convince to get married what to do.

2007-08-14 09:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can outsiders, strangers tell you what you should do and how to live? Can they snoop on you so they can follow your private life?Should you care about their opinion specially if this is a stalker who has been told he is not wanted around many times in many ways?

I have a stalker who tries to keep on telling me I am just not living my life right or piously.

He is so insistent on trying to send educational and job opportunities my way, even plays DJ to radio stations I listen to from India, directs movies even to try and impress me with his goodness :) But I end up only feeling very sick and sorry.

Has this ever happened to anyone? I have a chosen person who is just great but this stalker does not seem to get it.
How do I get away from this stalker?

2007-08-14 09:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-14 09:20:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 36 and he is 27. When we met it was clearly lust. But now I can see the childishness that he carries, jealously, insecurity, and control, not sure if I can handle it. We have been married a year and a half.

2007-08-14 09:18:02 · 25 answers · asked by Secret 1

Some people get married after 5-6 months` acquaintance, the others keep dating for many years. Why?

2007-08-14 09:16:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, if a marriage license was never filed at the court house, was the marriage ever legal?

2007-08-14 09:11:31 · 4 answers · asked by elmgirl 3

we are both 28 married at 22 he was a virgin I already had two kids ,so you know I like sex (0: , he seems to last two minutes, or less and blames it on me. He says I am too good, he never wants to give me foreplay he calls everything nasty, what to do??? I am so frustrated my hormones are going crazy I need tender love ,touches he gives me none! its just lay on your back for a minute then he rolls over and fall to sleep. and that is maybe twice a month thats all I get!!!



Maybe there is something going on with his child good ,he doesn't talk to his father who raised him none of the siblings and his 25 year old sister is a virgin and never dated either, I just think its weird. It has always been like this the first year was tough it was maybe four times and he said because he is too shy, with his own wife?


I have had questions on his sexuality and asked him! he told me that a lot of people have asked him that in the past because he was a virgin

2007-08-14 09:06:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if the two of you are "seperated" from your spouse (pending divorce), but not yet legally "divorced"?

2007-08-14 09:05:12 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my bf for almost 2 years now. We're in an LDR, he's 5000 miles away (he's military) there have been times it's been rocky, but he says he's never cheated on me. He had a myspace page and there were girls on it i didnt know from home and from where he is now. There is one girl he's been friends with all his life, A. I never considered A an issue, she was engaged when we met, i never met her, but she'd drop him off at my house, one time i called her phone (he told me to) when they were out. Well on myspace she'd leave messages like, i love you, miss you, etc. It bugged me. He said, they are just friends, known each other since they were babies. I flew out to see him a month ago. A week ago on his myspace she called me a psycho stalker ***** and said i flew a long way to get laid. I was livid. I told him about it, he doesnt know y she'd say that. Myspace has caused us issues, so shortly after that he deleted the thing. I dont know if i should believe him

2007-08-14 08:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Lilly d 1

I allow my man to brouse porn and often sit with him while he does so. But my Q, is, when does it become a problem? He does it 1 day to 2 weeks a month, depending on situations at hand. No big deal. But last night he broused so heavely that for 3 hours around dinner time he could not be talked to or interrupped. And then he went at it again at midnite till 2am.
Is this normal and is he just chillin or needing a new woman cause I am not good enough? He says it's cause work and kids get him stressed and that his one day or 2 weeks a month is nothing I should worry about. So do I have insecurities or do we need help? Thanks

2007-08-14 08:53:06 · 36 answers · asked by Patience Edmondson 1

The reasons - he was not happy and his needs were not being met. But he told the other woman that he still loved his now ex wife and that his ex wife was his best friend. They were married for 10 years. My question - when a man has these types of feelings for his ex wife - how will his new relationship be impacted? When he sees his ex wife (which is not very often - she was very hurt by his actions and limits contact only when it is about the kids) I swear he is still attracted to her. Is that possible?

2007-08-14 08:39:49 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-14 08:39:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The stasticis says that money is the main cause for divorce even more than infedelity and unfaithfulness, some have also suggested that people do not marry in the will and timing of God. My question is do you think another main reason for divorce is that couples focus too much on romance and not focus enough on true love which believes all things bears all things and endures all things?

2007-08-14 08:37:07 · 12 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

I am a white women and I just want to know what provokes him to do this. I've been pushed, slaped and even once kicked. I don't want to tell anyone because I know he really loves me.
In highschool we really hit it off. Then when we got married he suddenly changed.
One day one of my African American friends and I were talking and this came up. She is also married and she said she would never let her husband hit her. What gives her that kind of courage that I need?

2007-08-14 08:26:30 · 16 answers · asked by no name 1

there are some decent ones out there but why am i picking the bad ones what have i done to deserve this marriage was hell then this bloke came promised me things the devil must be on my side i need the angels christ this is like a bloody nightmare i can make a horror movie couldnt lol

2007-08-14 08:25:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

or odd?

2007-08-14 08:09:43 · 56 answers · asked by menudo c 1