Some people get married after 5-6 months` acquaintance, the others keep dating for many years. Why?
2007-08-14 09:16:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some people are very open and just happen to find " the one". don't ever compare your relationship with any one else's. what's right for them may not be right for you. no matter how open and honest someone was with me, i'm just not the type to get married quick. just not my personality.
2007-08-14 09:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never actually really know someone until after you are married, it is not the same thing. Even living together can be fooling. But I could not marry someone after only months, I would not feel sure I know that person. I would say about 2 years together. Visit the house where they live, see what they are like. That person you love could be a source of pet peves you cannot stand. So many little details about a house that are ignored until both are under the same roof!
2007-08-14 16:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Laurita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Husband and I were together for 5 months when he asked me to marry him and we were together for 8 months when we got married. We have now been married for almost 4 years and our relationship is perfect. I really don't think it matters how long you are together what matters is how you feel about that person. If in your heart you love and care about that person and you could never imagine your life without that person then time does not matter. Do what your heart tells you to do.
2007-08-14 16:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by cl_burns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many who have the ability to analyse and judge a person.But it realy takes some time to see the true colours of the person,one needs patience and time to check for all the adventages and disadvantages.
Some may take a minimum of 6 months and some may take a maximum of 2-3 years this much of time is sufficient enough to judge one person.
2007-08-14 17:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Husband and I were together for 7or 8 months when he asked me to marry him and we were together for 8 months when we got married ya . We have now been married for almost 19 years and our relationship is not always perfect put so happy I did marry him . I really don't think it matters how long you are together , you will no .what matters is how you feel about that person.and how they feel about you. If in your heart you love and care about that person and you could never imagine your life without that person then time does not matter. Do what your heart tells you to do. best of luck hope you have 19 good yrs also .
2007-08-14 16:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by MeccafromNJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband Oct 2nd, got engaged Nov 2nd and married January 23---we have been married for 5 years and have a very strong marriage. I have NO regrets in getting married so soon and to tell you the truth I would do it over again!
2007-08-14 17:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be 2-3 years. It is easy to pretend and fabricate ourselves for months or a year but extended time span shows the cracks of our personality, therefore period of 2-3 years is necessary
2007-08-14 16:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know a person for a few years. Sometimes even when you know a person for years they change. Some people adapt just to get you then they show their true colors. Be careful and get to know the person you love.
2007-08-14 16:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter how well you know the person before marriage. There will be a side you won't see until after you are married.
2007-08-14 16:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to my husband for almost 5 yrs and i still dont know everything about him. But i love him and he loves me and that is all that matters
2007-08-14 16:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by bdmrplemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋