men love or hate?

Question

there are some decent ones out there but why am i picking the bad ones what have i done to deserve this marriage was hell then this bloke came promised me things the devil must be on my side i need the angels christ this is like a bloody nightmare i can make a horror movie couldnt lol

Answer 1

where is the question in there?

Answer 2

There are lots of wonderful men out there.

What are you bringing to the relationships? If you are down on yourself this much maybe you are picking the wrong men.

Time to take a long hard look at yourself I think, stop feeling sorry for yourself and ask yoursef some tough questions.

Sure, life does'nt always run the way we want it but you can learn and grow from the bad times and prepare for better times to come - learn to recognise the bounty that nature throws into our path and seize those moments when they come.

In my experience a good partner doesn't just offer wonderful things but challenges you to be a better person too. Are you ready for that challenge?

Answer 3

chances are ...
he approached you - and chose him
you both dated
he proposed - and chose him
you got married

and at no point did you get to know him?
and are you going to try and say it was one sided - you didnt do anything, as in you werent involved? only he did wrong?

in my experience anything where two people are involved has tow people involved. and often starts either from misunderstandings and snowballs stupidly where two or one holds grudges or one is secretly holding a diffrent agenda (like trying to change the other one). there are other things Im sure.

you will have played apart tho, even if that part was only to chose to have your problems to be with you. fail to see this - and here is your curse on your self - go forward, do things the same way and get the same results, despite the point you will be expecting diffrent ones.

kick him to touch, or get some serious marriage counseling.
your both going to have to look at each other if thats as bad as you say.

Answer 4

Theirs no such thing as the devil by your side the only devil in your side is your partner. It's not easy to get a partner who is going to love you for the rest of your life but you could work things out with out a conversation turning into a Wrestling match.

Answer 5

step 1 CHILL be calm n then ...
step 2 THINK about the type of men you tend to go for
step 3 AVOID the type of men u go 4
step 4 STOP being so hyper negative (i no its hard i do it all the time)
step 5 give it TIME don't rush into anything, just get to no the guy first
step 6 DONT meet men online if its difficult for you ( no offence)
step 7 DO go to clubs n stuff to meet new peeps

hope things are going good 4 u, keep the faith everything will be alrite

soz bout the spellin
xox

Answer 6

Don't know what your question is- but you should be asking what the problem is if you keep picking bad ones- you and only you can answer that. I suggest you read the Surrendered wife- not what you might think it is- but it helps you to understand what men expect and what they get and how to keep the peace. If this relationship is abusive or violent or he is a cheating lying so and so then get out.

Answer 7

It takes one to know another one! Sister, be a good woman, then you will get a great man.
Please a straight line that you want to follow. Straight line means Set of Rules and Principles.
Try to practice what you preach and make sure that men that come your way must follow and practice them with or without you in their lives. This should be your guideline for men to deal with.

Hope this can you!

Answer 8

Make your own luck in life stop getting hitched up with negative no gooders and do have some self respect. Live your life without a man for a while or until you get your life back. Live for yourself not others.

Answer 9

your message is garbled but i can only gather your not too clever at picking a good guy so where are you hanging out and perhaps you should revise your life a bit because there are a lot of good guys out there so just get away as far as you can from this merchant

Answer 10

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Answer 11

Hmm. I think what your trying to say is that your depressed about marriage? That things aren't going on well and yeah.
Dont worry things will lighten up if you do something about instead of moping and complain about it. =]