Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2007

2007-08-09 09:59:54 · 21 answers · asked by beba 1

I have recently moved in with my boyfriend. He was served with divorce papers 2 weeks ago. He is now trying to look for his ex every time we go somewhere. He drives around until we find her car. She is a complusive gambler. He told her boyfriend she was back gambling and she called the cops on him for it. What do i do?

2007-08-09 09:56:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 and engaged to my unborn sons dad. He is 100% convinced im the one hes suppose to be with forever....I'm not so sure. I love him but I am so scared what if I am not suppose to be with him? What if we wont have a good marriage? Is it normal to feel this way?

2007-08-09 09:54:16 · 16 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2

What are your reasons for your present state?
Why did you marry?
Why are you single?
What do you think?

2007-08-09 09:18:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

But he talks to his baby's momma (kid is 16) everyday. He thinks that it's okay for him to deal with his ex but he told me that if I went into (a legit) business with an ex that he would leave me. Does that sound like doubles standards to you? Should I let him leave?

2007-08-09 09:09:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been living with this man for a year now...we've been together for 3.....but he's not going forward with his divorce because he doesn't want to pay for it......He feels that since she is the one that filed then she should pay, but I feel like it's a small price to pay for US to really start our lives together without this over our heads. He says it doesn't matter it's just a piece of paper..."You're my Wife" but somehow none of this feels right to me.....We spend money on SO MANY material things....$2,000 Apple Laptop, $500 XBox 360, 2-3 Video games a month....and now he want's to purchase a $1,500 HDTV....WTF?!?!? Should I just kick his *** out.....has it gotten to a point where I need to hand down an ultimatum??

2007-08-09 09:07:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband recently lost a job that he worshipped. Since then, he has become very controlling. He accuses me of emailing men, he goes thru my cellphone and call the numbers, he complains about the way I do stuff, he calls me sneaky, now he complains about what I wear to work. He is like Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde. One minute we're fine, then the next he's angry about something. Lately he's been clocking me on how long it should take me to get home from work or anywhere else. If I don't answer the phone on the second ring, he get very angry and wonders where I am, if I'm in the shower and he calls, he gets very upset. I told him I was leaving and he threw all of my stuff out of the closet onto the floor. Then he told me the door was open. So I took my chances and left. Now he thinks I'm coming back home. Please tell me what I should do? I don't know if I can take his controlling behavior anymore.

2007-08-09 09:00:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend called me today and said that my husband called her early in the morning " trying to come on to her". Me and her have known each other for a while , On the other hand me and my husband just got married July 13th. I am shocked about the news. She even went into detail stating some of the things he said.
She stated that she said " why r u coming on to me , u r married to my friend" she said he replied " soon to be married".. as if we arent married. I find it hard to believe. She even said that he said ..." he been eyeing her for a while now " and " he felt that he should let her know that he was feeling her "..

I called him, after speaking to her.. MIND YOU .. I didnt confront him, as a grown woman I went at the situation the right way, I ASKED him about it. He simply said " she is lying", " she is trying to come in between me and u " he began to yell and use vulgar language. Again as I have stated I am shocked. I dont know who to believe at this moment . PLEASE HELP!

2007-08-09 08:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4

2007-08-09 08:52:42 · 26 answers · asked by Stacy A 1

We have been married for 3 yrs. We have seperate bank accts. My hubby works a lot of overtime and sometimes I wonder what he does with all of the money. He makes good money. I don't know anything about our finances. Lately, it has started to bother me because He wants to know where all of my money goes, but he doesn't share his expenses with me. I want to ask him if we should get a joint account. I would like your input!!! Thanks in advance!!!

2007-08-09 08:51:17 · 15 answers · asked by metalwife 3

What can you do when your spouse want to keep in touch with his ex? and the ex wants him back!!! he said it's friend. trying to be nice!

2007-08-09 08:44:47 · 28 answers · asked by Khim P 1

i was just wondering why my husband hasnt filed for a divorce yet we have been seperated now for goen on 5 months and he knows i do not believe in divorce we do not communicate i put a restraining order on him he had a violent temper and we have no children so guys and gals whats your opinion ty so much and tc jewels

2007-08-09 08:42:03 · 36 answers · asked by jewels 2

I have heard different opinions concerning this issue.

If you are a heavy marijuana user, can it effect your sex life both mentally and physically?

2007-08-09 08:40:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Basically, the short version of the story is that my husband is incredible and loving...when he's not having a tantrum. But when he gets stressed, and gets so angry he has been known to break things, yell, rage, and be verbally abusive. This has been going on in a cycle for a few years...but I never thought it was that bad because all the other times besides when he was angry he was great. When he's calm he tells me he knows he has a problem with anger. A week ago he had another rage and I lost it. I packed my things, and headed for my mothers. We have agreed to stay apart for 6 months, get individual therapy and see what happens. He's moving into a friends and I'm going back to our place when he's finally moved out. We have only spoken to talk about bills we owe, etc. Sometimes he calls when he's really sad and I feel terrible. I took the animals with me which he loves and he says he misses them so much. He keeps using my nicknames. I feel horrible about the whole thing. Am I wrong?

2007-08-09 08:38:28 · 23 answers · asked by Marisa M 1

I got married immediately after graduating college at the age of 23. I was always a wild man, and I enjoyed cavorting with my friends. I met my wife as a sophomore in college and quickly fell in love. I cheated several times regrettably, but only in a one-night-stand. We got married and moved so I could start medical school. Everything seemed great. I was still sexually attracted to other women, but never cheated, alcohol or not. After my first year of school, I went away for the summer to do military training and I met and made friends with another woman, a medical student also in the military. We only hung out on occasion. Despite partying like a rock star with my military peers during the training, I did not cheat on my loving wife at home. I returned and finished a year of school, and then I met that girl again randomly on a school event...the mutual attraction was obvious. We fell for each other. She has a boyfriend of 3 years with intent to marry...we are both confused

2007-08-09 08:36:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately. I'm about to go pick him up from work and he has been working very hard today (and everyday) outside in 100 degree weather. What creative things can I do to really say "I love you," and let's stop arguing so much?

2007-08-09 08:35:07 · 47 answers · asked by allie s 1

I am pretty well off and enjoy my single life. I have lived with women in the past and it wasn't for me....I don't want or really like kids. And I also don't believe want I earned financially should be put at risk. No, prenups are not iron clad either....So why on earth would I ever want to marry?

2007-08-09 08:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is oral sex so important in a relationship?

Why do men sometimes prefer getting "head" to intercourse?? And what makes a woman "good" in
ur opinion??

2007-08-09 08:32:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it more import ant for each person in a marriage to be happy, or is it more important for each person to be committed?

Both are important, but which is more important?

2007-08-09 08:29:15 · 41 answers · asked by Nappy 3

if he were to get in an accident and it turns out he loses alot of brain functions making him/her basically mentally challenged would you stay with them?

or like on that show maury where that guy had sever cancer in his face and they had to carve it out so he has no face, cant see or talk(maybe hearing is good still im not sure) would you stay with him like his wife did?

2007-08-09 08:27:37 · 20 answers · asked by mannyg2199 4

2007-08-09 08:27:16 · 22 answers · asked by wendywoo 1

Is constantly threatening to break up a sign of an un-healthy Marriage? I dont 100% trust my partner, he lied early in the relationship about a few things, to try to keep me, although I would of stayed anyway. Now we seem to have done the relationship backwards, stormy at first, Married very early (4 months in) I have a baby boy. Now it feels more settled and calmer, I think we both had demons to exorcise. We have. But this means we have lots of material to throw at each other, Him for me drinking after my pregnancy (now stopped, completly) Me for him lying, being in touch with female single "friends" behind my back. It just seems we always have something to throw at each other. We hardly ever shout, we exchange words and insults but not often. If something started out so bad can it ever come good? We laugh a lot more now, make our Son happy and balanced, both want to leave the nastyness given by our parents behind. With this in mind, is it worth trying to have the life we want?

2007-08-09 08:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Gemini has been burned by an ex-husband horribley and the Scorpio has never been married...says he just picky and wants to make sure who he chooses he'll be happy with for the rest of his life.

2007-08-09 08:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by rainclock 1

you have already been separated five years and its amicable?
Online so called quickie divorces have hidden court charges.
Any ideas? knowledge on this?

2007-08-09 08:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by littlestarr02 4

2007-08-09 08:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by j-v 3

What does it mean when:

a woman and her boyfriend/husband have sex once every 2-3 months and he takes as long as 45 minutes to ejaculate?

I always thought that when men go without sex for weeks or months on end, they c*m in 5 minutes or less since they have literally "been without it" for so long.

Also, what does it mean when a man can't get an erection no matter how hard he trys, and we have ruled out any medical problems associated with erectile dysfunction???

Just curious

2007-08-09 08:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

MOST all divorces the women take their hubs to the cleaners..and have no problem ruining them financially. You ask me why I would NEVER DARE marry a woman....look no further than this/

2007-08-09 08:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had numerous affairs on my husband. I stopped cheating 5 years ago. I recently confessed everything to my husband. He, with God's help, found a way to forgive me. I have a tremendous amount of pain for hurting him, but I also hurt for the other spouse's involved. Should I tell these other wives or should I keep it to myself and let God handle the situation?

2007-08-09 08:10:55 · 25 answers · asked by BecA 1

How many of you have had an attraction to another woman and not acted on it? I trust my husband. I know though, just from things he says, that he has had an attraction to a woman he works with. From time to time they (with a group) have had to go on business trips together. I have always just trusted that he wouldn't do anything though. Am I being niave?

2007-08-09 08:09:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband 6 months ago because he is an acholic and I thought by me leaving he would change because he said he needed to be alone to sober up.I had to leave because it was starting to affect my daughters lives.Come to find out he never tried to get sober and ended up living with this girl.Now I find out she is pregnant.He is leaving her because he says she is crazy.On Monday he is moving back to my state and says he wants to be all about his kids and he is done with women.My question is,what if turns into the man I always wanted and I fall for him again?Should I just give up on us 100% or should I see what the future holds?My heart tells me to move on cause he has caused so much heartache and now that he has another baby coming with another woman I don't think I could deal with that.Please tell me what you would do?

2007-08-09 08:08:38 · 24 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1