Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2007

deeply in love with his wife!!!
It cant be!

2007-08-09 15:28:53 · 25 answers · asked by S 1

I had a great Job working as a job recruter. I found myself in the hospital with a near fatal situation. I lost my position at work. Therefore, I have some financial issues of course. Insurance is no good. I was already planning to leave, then this happened. He threatened that he would not help me financially any longer.....I will still leave even if I sleep in a cardboard box! I told him he was too controlling....he argued! He knew I was planning, and that is why he is threatening with financial destitude. Is there life and love out there after 40??? lol

2007-08-09 15:28:29 · 15 answers · asked by spreading wings 1

2007-08-09 15:16:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes i want it but not sure if he does and im afraid to approach him sometimes out of fear of rejection...i know this may sound silly because we have been married for 4 years but i usually let him approach me first....

2007-08-09 15:10:40 · 36 answers · asked by lisa p 2

I feel like I'm living a double life with my divorced parents. They're polar opposites; my mom is a successful business woman, very independent, and addicted to painkillers [which i mentioned in a previous question]. My dad is a biker [harleys], lots of tattoos, and an iron worker who is a raging alcoholic.

My parents bash each other to me, my mom just gets off on telling me all the problems in their former marriage. My dad on the other hand will only make little comments every now and then. When I'm at my dad's I try so hard to not act like my mom I'm this "tell it like it is" tough girl that he really gets a kick out of which is partially me, but when I'm with my mom I'm just trying to impress her with anything I accomplish because I know she's trying to live vicariously through me but she also wants me to be successful as a person versus my dad who just wants me to be happy. Both sides are me but it seems like an act and it's starting to really break me down.
Any advice?

2007-08-09 15:08:24 · 17 answers · asked by laughalot 2

I am going through a REALLY bad divorce. My wife has taken advantage of my love for her and the children. I have signed every paper, and belived her words of "trust me". Then I found out she was having an affair, the true reason for the divorce. Since then she has kept my children from me and has used them as wepons. He Mother and Step-father have encouraged and supported her actions, and told me several times they will keep th kids away from me. I have always been the most loving father a father can be. I have treated my kids the way my father did not treat me. Now I have nothing and am alone. She filed a temp restraining order based on lies & now I have no contact with my kids untill the court date and maby not after that if the judge grants the order. Everyone is telling me to trust God and pray that he is breaking me and I need to wait and that God will fix or restore eveything.

2007-08-09 15:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by Mike M 1

2007-08-09 14:58:57 · 20 answers · asked by spreading wings 1

my husband drinks 5 to 7 beers a night is that a lot?
we have a 3 year old son and a daughter on the way. i wish for the kids that he wouldnt drink that much.
how do i tell him to not drink that much?
how much should he drink?

2007-08-09 14:50:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband had a myspace account and all his friends were women of various sexual orientation and I questioned him on his choices (he's in his 40's, I'm 32 ).He said they were friends. I found out that he was sending them inapporiate messages for a man who is married with 3 kids . We have argued over myspace on various occasions. He cancled his account stating his wife was a ***** she didn't want him to have any friends. He even deleted family members which was why we got myspace in the first place. I recently found out that he has a new account with my space where he list himself as in a relationship and as not being married. He has also started collecting girls and has no family members on this site..........I don't know what to do since I found this out by snooping in his computer because I did not trust him. we have 3 kids and I think what he is doing is wrong. Am I being too uptight and should I be snooping???? I just want to do what is right for my family.

2007-08-09 14:49:30 · 19 answers · asked by Sammi99 1

She left me for her superior at work, is there something that I can do to bring them down? I can't get over it yet, especially that we got kids, and she pretends that nothing is going on!

2007-08-09 14:48:19 · 17 answers · asked by ntpsyc 1

I mean seriously...we all come on here looking for answers to life's problem's, here in particular marriage, why can't it just be easy?

2007-08-09 14:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 17 year old girl. I hear all of these stories about young men and women who were in love and got married, but then divorced. As a young woman, i have dreams of marriage and i want to know the difference between the couples who have married young and have long lasting marriages and those who were married young and then divorced. What were the main reasons for unsucessful marriages aswell as the reason your marriage is successful.

2007-08-09 14:41:04 · 24 answers · asked by Who's Your Buddie 2

I'm 29 single, two kids, divorced, returning student. I don't party, I'm attractive (for those who like thick girls), smart. I don't fool around, I'm intolerant to ingnorance, christian-like values, and republican. So why are losers attracted to me. How can I find a decent man to marry?

2007-08-09 14:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always been big busted and my back really kills me. I want to reduce them but my husband is against it . What should i do?

2007-08-09 14:29:31 · 28 answers · asked by sassy 2

how about you? i was living in fairy tale land.

2007-08-09 14:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by girl 3

I have been with my husband for 12 years, I will be 32.. He is my first love. Everything has been great until I found 6 months ago that he slept with a girl, the same week that we had our first child. That was the reason why he left me in the hospital the next day pretending that he went to take some course. I forgave him, because I do love him. We try to work things out. I feel now that he never felt sorry. Lately, he hanged up on me all the times, calling me stupid. He told me that if I do not pick up the phone, he will start talking to her again. Why is he so mean and evil? All I have done, is loving me. I know that I deserve better, I can find someone who can appreciate my love and treat me well. If I am not happy, my baby won't. I have so much love for him, that it is hard for me to move on, but I know that I have to, I want respect, attention. Why not? I know that I better cry for one year, than be miserable my whole life. How can I be strong, and protect myself from being hurt?

2007-08-09 14:22:46 · 14 answers · asked by renaissance 1

I love every second of being immature.

2007-08-09 13:48:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

In 14 years of marriage she has walked out 4 times. The time before this resulted in an afair. Each time she left the bills were all behind&the house was 2 months late this time . Each time I chased her and wanted her back, I Know it is diffrent this time I dont have any chase left in me . We have been together since we were teens . I have made excuses for her every time, Now I feel like there are none. She just plain dont love me? I Would not have divorced her over money . We have a home & three boys the youngest just starting elementary the oldest high school. She left them with me & we are doing fine, maybe better. She was not taking care of the kids or our house the way she should have for a stay at home mom! I wish Idid not love her but I do. I hope she stays gone , but she wont when it gets to tough she will look for old faithful.

2007-08-09 13:45:42 · 22 answers · asked by Hot Rod 1

My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year I love her very much. before I met her for about 2 years she had an affair with a Married Man he moved away about 3 months before we started dating ......she told me about this affair when we first go together I expressed my extreme disinterest for it. but it was in her past or so I thought ..... a couple months ago I found out she had been talking to him online and the phone on a regular basis. naturally I had a problem with this but she seems to think it is acceptable for her to carry on a friendship with this man who is still married( His wife has no idea of anything) . after we talked she has said she won't talk to him I believe that she does not talk to him, of course she is upset with me because I had a problem with their friendship. my concern is that she seems to think it is acceptable to have an affair with a married man and/or just be friends with him. How do I know it won't happen to me?


Thanks

2007-08-09 13:38:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 13:31:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 13:30:06 · 19 answers · asked by teedy36 1

I was dating a man that I found out was married. He says that he is going to leave his wife when he returns home and I want to believe him. I have been in a relationship with him since 2005 and of course I have fallen in love with him. I think he is my soul mate because he makes me so happy. I smile whenever I say his name but I can't help think about him and her. I keep trying to cut him off and walk away but I find myself being weak and I continue to talk to him but I don't see him. I have cut off all communication once again until he gets the divorce. I want to know after he gets the divorce should I stay with him or should I just walk away now?

2007-08-09 13:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Jade W 1

I have an active support agreement with my ex-wife for our daughter based on her living with her mother. She now lives with me and the custody has reversed. Her mother has agreed to drop the support case based on the new physical custody arrangement. She cannot take care of our daughter for medical reasons, but visits her freely. Neither one of us wants to go to court. How can we modify the Custody documents as well as cancel the support order without spending money on a lawyer and spending time in court or going through the motions in mediation? Is this possible? I am in California.

2007-08-09 13:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by Sammy 3

2007-08-09 13:24:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our anniversary is coming up and she asked me to surprise her with something special. I know she loves fast food, but which restaurant should I take her to? McDonalds or Wendy's?

2007-08-09 13:20:24 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have failed at 3 jobs and gained 45 pounds and this is not like me. Could my husband be sabatoging me? I have always had a healthy body and career with High self esteem but lately I am so miserable I can't stand myself

2007-08-09 13:19:09 · 6 answers · asked by amy a 2

2007-08-09 13:13:36 · 20 answers · asked by mothertrucker9669 1

2007-08-09 13:07:59 · 26 answers · asked by Nice isn't it 1

But I don't care. We've known each other for a few years and even though I suspected he's had feelings for me I ignored them until now and he's currently in a relationship.

We'll be working in the same office starting next week. We had training together and he would start up conversations with me and laugh and smile the whole time with me.

I want to start something. How do I go about doing that?

2007-08-09 13:00:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example,
- would you suspect him taking another "girl" shopping or something?
-would you suspect him seeing someone who works at the mall?
-would you suspect him seeing an Italian lady if he talks too much D&G Dolce & Gabbana?
It's just strange to me because he always says that all he thinks is about paying the bills and supporting family and he has bigger problems to think about than other women. So what is this?he gets air-headed streaks in is brain or something?

2007-08-09 12:58:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous