Marriage & Divorce - 9 August 2007

He was cheating on me with her but he claims he dont have a girlfriend shes 27 and hes 19 and she say she dont want him but he sleeps ther every nite and he says shes nothing to him that we are getting back together and he calls me everyday begging

2007-08-09 18:37:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and my sister's husband flirt a lot and some times they are too close from each other. I've endured this for some years, but this time my wife seems to be going to far with the way she expresses her feelings about him.

My kids got her an e-mail address and I decided to do the craziest thing ever I impersonated the guy with an e-mail addres and started to send e-mails to her with friendship stuff, then love poems and a lot of cheese stuff and she fell for all of that.

When I finally told her I was in love with her, she first said was confused and fearful. Then she wrote that she was thinking of me all day, at work,etc that she wanted to see me (him)

I couldn't believe she said how happy she was the night the family met and she was able to see me again and wanted to hold me but many eyes were watching so she had to hold me in her mind.

I think she likes him and wants him, I think she has at least in her heart cheated on me.

What do I do friends?

2007-08-09 18:35:38 · 22 answers · asked by Hector 2

I come home every day, the house is a mess. She homeschools one of our children during the schoolyear for six hours a day, so I do all the laundry to help out, including our two children's, plus all the yard & house maintenance. She complains about having to cook meals, so 75% of the time, she pulls frozen food out of the refrig and throws it into the microwave. The children dont do their chores during the day, I have to nag them when I get home. Its summer, so now she doesnt work in or out of the house, and its still the same routine. She wanted me to pay for a housekeeper, because she says she's tired after 6 hrs of homeschooling. I said it wasnt important enough for me to pay for it, let the mess be. I work 10 hours a day, I come home and work some more to help out. Sometimes, she's napping when I get home. Is it expecting too much to ask her to at least fix me a nice meal and keep the kitchen stocked with decent food?

2007-08-09 18:35:20 · 21 answers · asked by BradNahler 2

I married a man i had only talked to for a few years online and had only met once in person. I had a baby 6 mo before we got married and it changed me into a different person. After the first year it was obvious to me that my husband and i were on totally different wavelengths and we were not meshing well together at all.
But before I left we got pregnant.
Now that we have kids together, I am torn because I feel that I am missing out on a great marriage simply because i am not connected to my husband due to our Huge differences.
He has made many changes and we are living together again, but i feel as though i am just going through the motions and I can't for the life of me feel connected to him.
I don't know which way to go, to accept this as my marriage and situation for life or hope for something better and prepare my life to except a new relationship that is a better fit for me.
what is your opinion?
Harshness invited, let loose, let me know if I'm being a selfish woman.

2007-08-09 18:33:47 · 12 answers · asked by googlebugg 4

I'm 40 yrs old and love everything about every woman i meet. I love their hair, eyes, nose,smell,shoes...I' mean everything.....I have been married 17 yrs--how bad of a man am I?

2007-08-09 18:26:46 · 15 answers · asked by coolest_guy_incanada 1

2007-08-09 18:16:57 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

Friends? Freedom? What kinds of things have you experienced/ witnessed? Serious answers and explanations, please. Thanks :-)

2007-08-09 18:15:36 · 22 answers · asked by Wondering 3

I've been with my husband for 12yrs. & married 7 of it. I have two children. I'm so depressed all the time. I love my husband b/c of my children but, I'm not in love with him. I am not unfaithful to my husband but, my thoughts are. Before I got married I was with someone for 5yrs. and to this day I cannot bring myself to forget him. Last couple of years my husband drinks more, very controlling(more jealous), and we argue every single day. He's a good dad but, we can't seem to get along. I've tried to get along with him and nothing ever seems to work for us. Maybe it's my fault for having these thoughts of someone else but, I've never acted on it. I love my children and would never do anything to hurt them. I always seem to fill guilty after arguing with my husband but, everyday it's the same routine in my life. When we argue we say some really terrible things to one another. I'm just not happy & miserable but, I don't want to hurt my kids. I want a life to.

2007-08-09 18:11:36 · 12 answers · asked by honeybee4u 1

Hi what if am 20 year old and the man I'll marry is 29 to 30 yr old.Do u think that it's a problem?Bcoz I've heard so many women who are 10 years smaller than their husbands.So wat do u think on zat.Please giv me ur opinions n thanx in advance 4 ur answer..

2007-08-09 18:10:16 · 13 answers · asked by gurly 1

My boyfriend says he and his ex wife lives together and it's just for the kids. Hes with me everyother weekend due to them living out of town. He keeps saying hes going to leave, but he loves his kids and theres always an issue? Is he there something else he's hidding.

2007-08-09 17:59:44 · 18 answers · asked by Betty 1

This is a continuation of my yesterday's question. I got convinced this obsession my husband has for my armpit hair must come to an end --after I read the responses I got to my questions here yesterday and thought about it calmly--I told my husband softly that I want that hair off. His reaction was angry--which is rare whith him--and he is sort of avoiding me since this conversation and when I asked him why he was taking this tuft of hair so seriously he said Iam not giving importance to his feelings and added that he will not have physical intimacies with me unless I show respect for his feelings by retaining that damn bush under my arms since he is hurt. Iam shocked! I know that he is not trying to dominate over me and really seems to be hurt! We know we love each other for sure, so there is no question of letting this petty issue remain a problem between us. He seems to get too attached to this hairy look of mime and says he cant imagine me without it any more. What do I do now?

2007-08-09 17:44:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married over 20 years most of them very good but now wife in unhappy,still says she loves me and always will,nothing to do with either of us be unfaithful,just doesn't feel affection for me says it feels more like we are friends and business partners.I'm still crazy about her,I kinda think she has lost respect for me because I've kissed her butt to much over the years,helping with house work and kids and stuff like that trying to be a nice guy and think maybe she doesn't see the strong cocky confident man she fell in love years ago.

2007-08-09 17:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by sch1 1

I'm a very sexy 34 year-old woman I've been married to a lazy pig for over 12 boring years I'm tired of cooking large meals for this 450lb beast we don't have sex we don't even communicate with each other all I do is work and cook for him and now I'm tired of it I'm thinking of leaving this over sized whale what should I do I'm to young to be tied down with a blimp.

2007-08-09 17:37:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone here have any information regarding the process of who do you go to, expenses, ect of having a will done to protect your childrens welfare in the even their parent dies? I want to make sure theres some way I can give legal custody to my sister and her husband, and have it legalized for their protection. Thank so much for your input.

2007-08-09 17:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by firefly_eyes75 3

Want to marry gf from the the philippines does any one know what i need to do for marrage to bring her home to australia what documents i need to do to make this happen?

2007-08-09 17:30:30 · 7 answers · asked by mozie73 2

2007-08-09 17:24:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 17:22:35 · 15 answers · asked by johnny s 1

This man tells me that he really likes me that he wants to be with me, He lives somewhere else. We discussed him moving or me moving and he decided that he wanted to move here. I tell myself everyday that he will, but than again I am scared that he wont. He calls everyday and tells me how much he misses me cant wait to see me and wants to be with me. What do I do. Wait for him or what?

2007-08-09 17:09:45 · 9 answers · asked by Amy B 1

My husband and I fight every single day, we do agree on important matters like children, family, and finances, however we disagree about everything else. He does not kiss me passionately anymore and hardly ever says sorry when he gets really upset at me and calls me bad names. He thinks all the decisions I have made are stupid and he does not respect me as a women, at least I dont feel he does.

I have talked to him about everything that is bothering me and let him know that I will do what I can to improve, yet I am the only one trying to improve. He thinks he does not have to improve at all.

I love him but I am not sure if he loves me, he never says it anymore unless I ask him to. I just dont know what to do anymore. I have tried to convince him in to going to marriage counseling but he does not think counseling helps.

2007-08-09 17:07:51 · 27 answers · asked by tuckerjess 2

2007-08-09 17:05:10 · 13 answers · asked by playboy/playmate 1

What is the best way to deal with a lying spouse? Especially when no matter what the circumstances they won't tell the truth. Even when seperating becomes an option. Examples being lying about internet usage and sites, cheating, and everyday small things.

2007-08-09 17:02:03 · 39 answers · asked by N m 1

My problem is, I really like this girl, and she is sweet and quite cute, however a I thought since she is she may be a little upbeat and carefree... She turned out to be one of those 'quiet, straight talking, No no-nonsense' kind... We ended up discussing business, and I asked her what her did and she is a Corporate Lawyer...

I was a bit intimidated, cause I am not use to a woman like that...

When I initaly approached her, she gave me this cold look...
I have asked about her.. This guy who is alright with her says she is a 'cold fish, almost like she does not show any emotion, she will prob. be that way for a long time'

I asked a friend of her's as well who said 'she is a nice person, and a nice friend, but she can be a bit cold, and sometimes rough around the edges, she also takes work seriously'

I do not know what to do, please advice, Cause I have never been in a situation like this, and I like her, however I do not know what to do or say... also, what do u think?

2007-08-09 16:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by __M___o 1

estly and we will take it. But the only course to marriage at the moment is make vows many don't believe in. For example, you may agree to love your partner for life, but that should not imply that you cannot have another partner sexually, which is not the same thing as love. A physical act to relieve tension or obtain pleasure should be welcomed by the other partner, who wants the best for his loved one.

2007-08-09 16:27:22 · 23 answers · asked by americanhero_aa 2

Why or why not?

2007-08-09 16:15:03 · 41 answers · asked by ncgirl 3

My husband is trying to set his friend up with a girl from his job. He feels the need to tell me about how "great" this girl is. If i did the same to him, he'd pitch a fit about why I was so into this guy! why are guys such hypocrites?

2007-08-09 16:13:59 · 40 answers · asked by Mama08 2

We have been living together for almost three years. I am almost 8 months pregnant. He wants me to place the child for adoption but because I am not willing he says we just cant be together (he thinks he will never get is life "together", and is currently working as a waiter with no real goals or ambitions) we are still living together currently, though I am moving out and into my parents house within the next few weeks (even though the break up wasnt really my choice). He has made no plans for moving out, or finding someone to move in although there is clearly a time contraint here, its almost as if he's in denial. Our friends dont even really believe it could be true, knowing both of us so well. We still hug, and kiss and say I love you. He does nice things (breakfast in bed this morning) its clear we still care for one another and are breaking up because of baby. He is gone for the weekend, and I cant stop thinking about him....this is such an awkward situation, how do I deal?

2007-08-09 16:13:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 15:53:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

when people give advice, on the bottom right corner it shows the little hands one is up for good and one is down for bad. i see some with 2 thats good or 1 thats good or 2 its bad blah blah. can anyone vote for that? how do you do it????

2007-08-09 15:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 7 years and a woman at work KNEW he was married with kids and she kissed him. BOTH of them were writing letters, calling, but there was no sex involved. I am having a hard time getting over this and I want to beat her butt. I have made my husband's life a living h***l. He tells me he loves me and he always has but if he did how could he betray me like that? I ask him why and he tells me it was stupidity. I can't understand that answer. I keep aking what did I do? I really need some advice.

2007-08-09 15:33:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancée pays child suppport will I have pay it? What I'm asking is will it still be based on his income alone or our combined household income when we get married?

2007-08-09 15:30:45 · 19 answers · asked by NeNe 1