I'm a very sexy 34 year-old woman I've been married to a lazy pig for over 12 boring years I'm tired of cooking large meals for this 450lb beast we don't have sex we don't even communicate with each other all I do is work and cook for him and now I'm tired of it I'm thinking of leaving this over sized whale what should I do I'm to young to be tied down with a blimp.
2007-08-09 17:37:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him you are sleeping with me ..
2007-08-09 17:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Derby 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you on here complaining about him? Have you not thought about trying to fix what is lacking? He might be depressed and may need some help. Both of you could probably benefit from some marriage counseling too.
If you think the grass is greener on the other side, it isn't. You might leave him, find someone else, and end up in the same boat. Sometimes the people change, but the stories do not.
2007-08-09 17:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completly there's someone meant for you out there and I think you should go get him. Of course i'm sure he's in hell right were you deserve to be. You know what your husband probably deserves so much better than a cold heartless b.... as you and I hope you don't seriously think your attractive because let me tell you something HONEY attractiveness comes from the inside as well as the out and your nothing but pure ugly inside. So do your husband the biggest favor anyone could and leave. I sure hope you don't believe in Karma because nothing good is comming your way.
2007-08-09 17:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by rebeccaangel2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he is 450lbs i think you should respect yourself and just leave him. He is tying you down and if he is disrespectful to you and you guys dont communicate, there is no love and marriage is based on love. Talk to him about it and if it doesnt work, think deep and think whether you still love him. If not tell him its over.
Who knows, maybe he suffers from depression and put on the weight because of his sadness. Or another psychological problem.
Good luck
2007-08-09 17:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jason Hasda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing the cooking, it's somewhat your fault he is a blimp. You should honor your wedding vows. For better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer until DEATH do us part. You should do what ever you can to make things better.
2007-08-09 18:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why are you still there?
If you aren't in love with him any more, then leave.
But don't leave him because he's a "whale" because who's to say that you aren't going to become a "whale" a few years down the road, when you're with another man.
Would you want him to leave you?
2007-08-09 17:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know what you want. if you are unhappy in the marriage then you need to do what is best for you. but i
would try counseling at least you have made a effort
to save the marriage especially after 12 years together.
2007-08-09 17:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope he hasn't been like that the entire time.
But if you really feel like that get a divorce, find a real man that will treat you right and that won't make you cook all the time.
Good luck
2007-08-09 17:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so i take it that he don't work or do much of nothing else either...ok so if u are not happy then leave...tell him that u are not happy with the way he has been over the last 12 years and get u a divorce....
2007-08-09 17:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead lady if youre tired of that, but if you have kids you still have to be responsible for them as for your husband, i think you first should try helping him get out of that crazy life he is having you have promised to love him for better or for worse, you know what try to help him get out of it, and if he doesnt want to help himself then its time to go, you just dont go marry and then if youre no longer happy then you just get out, learn to face your responsibilites in life, you still have the right to be happy , yes you can still be loved by other men, but listen to what you are saying and thinking really, its very selfish to hear.
2007-08-09 17:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK YOURSELF WHY DO YOU WANT A DIVORCE, IS IT BECAUSE THE LOVE IS GONE, OR DOES HE MENTALLY/PHYSICALLY ABUSE YOU, OR ARE YOU UNHAPPY WITH HIS WEIGHT,LACK OF SEX, AND BORED?? IF THE LATER JUST GET ONLINE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU WANT TO FEEL, IF IT'S THE ABUSE LEAVE NOW!!!
2007-08-09 18:00:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋