This man tells me that he really likes me that he wants to be with me, He lives somewhere else. We discussed him moving or me moving and he decided that he wanted to move here. I tell myself everyday that he will, but than again I am scared that he wont. He calls everyday and tells me how much he misses me cant wait to see me and wants to be with me. What do I do. Wait for him or what?
2007-08-09 17:09:45 · 9 answers · asked by Amy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can sympathize with your delimma. If you want him and he is making forward plans (I mean real plans) then wait. Not years with no progress but wait. If he is setting things in motion then go for it. Go with the flow and enjoy the man and his plans. That doesn't mean put your entire life on hold. You don't have to date anyone else but still do you. Let it feel nice to have someone care.
2007-08-09 17:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan for a long engagement. If you live a part someone has to move if you want to be together. We take risks in life all the time. Therefore, do as much research as you can before. If you are saying like wait for him as in you have guys living closer to you that will meet your needs then that is a different story altogether.
2007-08-09 18:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Delay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Pea there is not enough information to help you decide what to do. Have you ever met him or do you know any real things about him? You have to be a little concern and thoughtful on this matter. Don't move anywhere unless you are positive you know everything about this fella. Good luck on your decision!
2007-08-09 17:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by b n real 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he gave you the time frame on when he is moving to your place? If he were to ask you wait for him for 2 years! Ask him not to move in at all... I don't believe in long distance relationship!
2007-08-09 17:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THATS GOOD THAT HE'S WILLIN TO MOVE TO BE WITH YOU..I WOULD SAY WAIT FOR HIM, BUT ONLY FOR SO LONG...DONT JUMP TO THE CONCLUSION THAT HE'S NOT COMIN AND BREAK IT OFF WITH HIM, BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT HIS REAL INTENTIONS WOULD HAVE BEEN, THEN YOU'LL BE STUCK IN THAT "WHAT IF.." PHASE FOR A WHILE...HE SOUNDS LIKE A REAL GOOD GUY...LIKE I SAID BEFORE, GIVE HIM SOME TIME AND SEE HOW THINGS PLAY OUT...JUST DONT WAIT TOO LONG...GOOD LUCK
2007-08-09 17:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by alwayz_smilin_8012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depend on how long you have been waiting for him
to do what he need to do. if he is just playing games then may
be it time to let him know how you feel, then go from there.
i would not wait to long for any one to get his act together.
2007-08-09 17:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met in person? If he someone who's met you through the internet be careful.
2007-08-09 17:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Autumn S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be patient!, but it takes maney to move, if you givr him enought time,and he doesn't move, thaen he's just gaming you!!
2007-08-09 19:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-09 17:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by HELPING LADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋