I'm 29 single, two kids, divorced, returning student. I don't party, I'm attractive (for those who like thick girls), smart. I don't fool around, I'm intolerant to ingnorance, christian-like values, and republican. So why are losers attracted to me. How can I find a decent man to marry?
2007-08-09 14:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop looking so hard... You will meet a nice guy at school, someone who share your values, and plan to have a future like the one you want. Love comes when your not looking for it... Take your time and work on you. Lot's of luck
2007-08-09 14:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being your age with kids, maybe losers see you as an easier target than someone younger without the family. I'm sure some non-losers are also interested though. Your Christian-like values and conservatism appeal to a guy like me! Do you have purple hair like your avatar? Play the field a lot to meet as many people as possible and use an internet dating site to fit your search into your busy life. Good Luck!
2007-08-09 21:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by oogabooga37 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are decent men in this world, and you know some of them. The question is, are you attracted to them?? The answer is no. Losers are attracted to you because they intrigue you early on and seem to be OK. Nice guys usually come off as weak, or wuss material who have no backbone and that turn you off. The nice guy has your back, won't fool around, has your best interests at heart, but he seems to be "weak". Losers seem to have a backbone, but they cheat, lie, disrespect you, etc. You want the loser to be a diamond in the rough and that is not going to happen. Nice guy or loser? Your choice.
2007-08-09 22:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Truthseeker!
If you look inside a trash can, what will you find? Trash! It is very unlikely you will find a pearl!
Therefore...
If you look for a husband in the wrong places- like bars and gyms- then you will be sorely disappointed.
Try going to places where decent men go...like church or a book club or a language course.
Good luck!
2007-08-09 22:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both u 'n amber will find the right guy for yourselves, it will just happen when u least expect it.
if i may b so bold 2 both of u, 'n please don't take offense if neither of u do but bars and clubs and such r not the places 2 find good men...don't b so in an all-fired hurry 2 wink at the first guy u see, take ur time and get 2 know them first...communication, after GOD should b the first importance in any relationship...and amber, its GOD not g-d.
good luck and GOD bless 2 both of u
2007-08-09 23:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find decent men (imho) you have to look in places where decent men might hang out. I would look at social
events ( clubs,volunteer work, night school, sports events with kids ( ie soccor,hockey). Also check out social events at your church if you attend church. Also losers tend to be attracted to women who dress to show ( if you know what I mean) so check how you dress and maybe tone down.
2007-08-09 22:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by ensoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. I'm 31, single, believe in G-d, i'm polite and politically aware. And I'm in the same boat, one loser after another.
2007-08-09 21:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sumie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to find the right guy, just let it happen naturally ok??? REally what is the rush????
2007-08-09 21:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't want to marry you. I don't even know you!
2007-08-09 21:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God for him and in faith prepare to receive him.
2007-08-09 21:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby Cow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋