I have failed at 3 jobs and gained 45 pounds and this is not like me. Could my husband be sabatoging me? I have always had a healthy body and career with High self esteem but lately I am so miserable I can't stand myself
2007-08-09 13:19:09 · 6 answers · asked by amy a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is this a marriage and divorce question or a psychological question? You might want to seek counseling so you can ask these questions to someone who might be able to guide you better than a Yahoo Answer. There are just too many variables that could be making you feel miserable and only a properly trained counselor can work through them with you. Good luck.
2007-08-09 13:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by commorancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you are so miserable right now and why can't you stand yourself? Why would you feel that your husband is sabotaging you? These aren't feelings that should be present in a healthy marraige. I think that you should try to talk to your husband and tell him how you are feeling.
2007-08-09 13:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be you that is trying to sabatoge your own marriage? Are you unhappy with the way it is going?
2007-08-09 13:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would automatically blame your husband? No one is responsible for your happiness, don't leave it in his hands. And if he makes you that miserable, why stay with him?
2007-08-09 13:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by godiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible. sometimes guys want to feel like they have all the power. and to have all the power that means he has to take yours away from you.
2007-08-09 13:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your husband have anything to do with it?
2007-08-09 13:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by greysfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋