For example,
- would you suspect him taking another "girl" shopping or something?
-would you suspect him seeing someone who works at the mall?
-would you suspect him seeing an Italian lady if he talks too much D&G Dolce & Gabbana?
It's just strange to me because he always says that all he thinks is about paying the bills and supporting family and he has bigger problems to think about than other women. So what is this?he gets air-headed streaks in is brain or something?
2007-08-09 12:58:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would suspect him of being gay =0) Fab-U- Lous!
2007-08-09 13:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely in Cali 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, any sudden changes like this might mean trouble. Try to do a little investigating and see if you can get an idea, but be prepared for possible surprises. You might also ask him why he is talking about designer clothes--why the change, but if he has something to hide, you may not get the truth.
Also, is he away from home more than usual, more and secret cell phone use? on computer more? These might be some signs to look for concerning unfaithfullness.
People will find time when they want to have an affair----they will do it on their lunch hour if necessary. Know from experience. Hope you find good news, tho.
2007-08-09 20:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible your husband is going through a mid-life crisis? Maybe being so responsible has just made him want to break out and do something for himself. My first thought would not be that he was cheating. Take in to consideration all angles of this behavior. Look at his age, his background, the length of time you have been married, history, Other factors happening in your lives together at this moment. Don't just jump in to the idea of him cheating.
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2007-08-09 20:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by The PENsive Insomniac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would suspect him of finally being brainwashed by you babbling about them constantly -- or he's gay and ready to come roaring out of the closet.
You *do* mention all those names all the time, right?
If he mentions all the teams in the NFL over and over and you finally learn them, does he accuse you of seeing another man?
Sheeee-it what a hoot you must be to live with.
2007-08-09 20:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by salacious_crumb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suspect nothing other than he is interested in designer brands, which is something either he never shared with you before or you just never noticed before. It is rediculous to accuse him of cheating just because he suddenly expresses appreciation for designer clothes.
2007-08-09 20:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a tale tale sign! I think he could be cheating. Honestly if he is to concerned w/ his appearance, if he begins wearing clothes you've never seen.
These are all clues he's cheating. It was on yahoo. Makes sure to read the signs...his cell phone is now his baby is one as well.
Check further into your husband...keep your eyes open.
2007-08-09 20:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabe a mid-life crises.
Or the begining of one.
Check the facts before hireing a lawyer.
2007-08-09 20:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by bobalo9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all these people who said he was gay are way off the mark.
You know him, you're married to him. If my guy suddenly started talking about designer stuff it WOULD make me think he is cheating, because his mistress has expensive taste. But how freakin stupid would he have to be to start talking to YOU about this stuff?? It's a dead giveaway.
2007-08-09 20:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but I think you are terribly jealous, and perhaps with reason. I think it would be nice if my boyfriend talked about brands, because it is rare to find a man who knows about clothing.
Plus, anyone might think he is gay. But I think that that judgement is unfair, and I also think that you shouldn't worry.
2007-08-09 20:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Xite ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband started talking about designer brands, I'd assume he was gay. Straight men do not know or care about designer brands.
2007-08-09 20:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by backwardsinheels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe, he would just be trying to like things that i like. Not really a big deal. He would have to be doing something else to make me think he was cheating on me.
2007-08-09 20:01:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋