Marriage & Divorce - 1 August 2007

Do all married men do this?
Men, you finally are going to tackle the task your wife has (griped) asked you to do and then you whine about how you don't have tools to do the job properly?! What are you expecting?! Please enlighten me!!

2007-08-01 12:22:07 · 19 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

my man and i have been living together for 1 year and lately since he started his new job he has been coming home late... about one hour or more.... he is working grave yard.. do you think he is cheating???? he ask more lovely with me.. is it his concious.....

2007-08-01 12:20:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe it's very real. My husband does it.

He isn't meeting anyone in person, that I know of. He has long phone conversations with other woman, in the middle of the night, on-line activity, etc.

What are your thoughts about Emotional Cheating? Is it real? What have you done to deal with it? I think it's worse than physical.

2007-08-01 12:07:16 · 29 answers · asked by CeeJay 2

We have just about no money. Hubby has been working his bum off nonstop for the last 2 months but we still are struggling. He wants to go play poker tonight because he feels its been all work and no play (which he is right). But I am 9 months pregnant and am sick of staying home 24/7 with our 7 year old too. So I said no because money is tight and if I can stick it out (staying in 24/7 for the last 2 months with a 7 year old is not my idea of fun) then so can he. But I understand how he feels as well. So should I say yes or no?

2007-08-01 12:05:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this wonderful LDS guy. His family absolutely loves me as well. We have so much in common and understand eachother so well. We don't argue either. We have gotten frustrated at each other but only talked it out. We have shared things with each other and done things with each other that we haven't in past relationships. I never thought I'd get married before our 1 yr anniversary. But how can I put a time limit on a relationship? If you know, you know right?

2007-08-01 12:02:54 · 18 answers · asked by moonstar 3

How do you deal with any unsavory housekeeping or grooming trait of your husbands/live in boyfriend that you are unable to change long term?

I have a few pet peeves about my fiancee's bathroom rituals, nothing extreme but im not used to living with a man. We cant work it out we have tried! there are some things about me that annoy him so i can cope with these few things but i just need to get over them...how did u do it?

2007-08-01 12:01:29 · 12 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5

2007-08-01 11:57:08 · 27 answers · asked by Boy 2

Yah...shouldn't you be allowed a little fun before you croak? Or do the wemen still get bent even with one foot in the grave?

2007-08-01 11:31:21 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3

And at around what age group does the cheating subside. You'll probably see something like a bell curve if you do the stats.

Thanks,

Flavio

P.S. do people in their 70's and 80's cheat too? hmmm

2007-08-01 11:21:41 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and have known e/o for 8. I'm 18 and he's 21. We are in love and he just got a new job that pays $40,000 a year, and his parents have an extra apartment in the city for us to live in. We both want to get married but I'm his first girlfriend and he's my second boyfriend. Are we too young? Should we date other people first? I've mentioned dating other people first to him and he usually breaks down and asks why I would want 2 meet other ppl when I love him?

2007-08-01 11:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 11:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by michal U 1

2007-08-01 11:02:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night my wife ask me if I want to have a three some then she star loughing Then she told me that she wants to invite one of our friend over she told me that she wants a female no a male to join us during sex. i ask her if she doesn't mind if i have sex with her friend she told me that is going to be the three of us no only her friend and me. But she needs an answer by tonight. We have being marry for five years everthing is ok she told me that she love me but she wants to try something else please help or let me know if you are having the same situation to be onest i really like her friend. But I'm afraid that this can destroy our marriage.

2007-08-01 10:55:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has came out and told me that she might be an Lesbian.I love my wife very much and still care for her greatly. I've given her some time to give me an answer (if she truly is or not). I feel a bit hurt and used(used i mean we got married so she can have kids).I dont really know what to do,while i'm wating for an answer?

2007-08-01 10:55:45 · 11 answers · asked by jon v 1

I've been thinking about this recently. That as many open relationships everyone says they are cool with being in. I.E. the swingers and such (though we all know one of the partners sort of regrets that in the end). I have just come to realize that the only true open relationship these days is when the couple gets a seperation. I mean they are still married and both partners can go out and date others without getting mad at one another for it. What everyone think though? Is a seperation the only truly open relationship that a couple can be in without the other partner getting hurt feelings?

2007-08-01 10:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by Cursed_Romantic 6

Any special proposals? Nice gifts? Gestures? I want to be more romantic! Please help. Thanks.

2007-08-01 10:49:42 · 1 answers · asked by boredatwork 2

and why?

say 3 people you would want to meet..

2007-08-01 10:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 10:34:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i have made a huge mistake...my family is and always has been very controlling ( i am working on that) but i have had a boyfriend who loves me more than i have ever felt, BUT he makes mistakes like most of us do... the problem is when i am asked how things are going ...i seem to highlight those bad areas, so they only seem to know the bad side...but he really is awesome and amazing...but now its so bad that my fam says they will stop talking to me if i get back with him, and i have told him i hate him (out of anger not truth) what should i do?
It is so hard to be in a relationship with everyone that cares for you against it. :(:(

2007-08-01 10:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

oks my fiance is at the ocean working. he is coming back on saturday (he left mon morning)! my question is what should, i do for a little change! (im not cutting my hair).. Im planning to go tanning, what else can ido? and where should i take him out? (we both love out doors, keep in mind) when he comes back and sees me i want him to think man, im never leaving her again! serious people only..

2007-08-01 10:13:42 · 24 answers · asked by sara 2

My husband recently found an old box of letters sent to him whild he was at boot camp for the Army. The letters are all over 12 years old and no longer have any meaning to him. The problem is he seems unwilling to do anything with them. He says he dosn't want to throw them away becase they may blow out of the trash can and they are very private. What would be a good way to encourage him to get rid of them, but for him to still feel as if his privacy is not being invaded? They are all from the girl he was dating in highschool. I am not really jealous, but the longer they sit there the more tempted I am to read them, just to see what they had. Any suggestions?

2007-08-01 10:13:21 · 27 answers · asked by j_lynn_griff 3

Is there anyway that i can tell if my boyfriend has put a keylogger on to my computer he keeps telling me he has and i wanna see if he acutally did it... and if he how do i take it off

2007-08-01 10:08:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kia M 1

I am divorcing my husband of two years. He's selling his ring. So I'm selling both my wedding and engagement ring and my wedding dress. Where should I sell them. Please no Ebay.

2007-08-01 10:01:06 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine 4

Ive been married for 7 years. My wife and i split up a year and half ago. We would get into vicious arguments and it would always end in her saying she wanted a divorce. I told her not to say that again or we would. SHe did and i left. I lived with a coworker of mine for awhile. I have since met a girl i really like and she is head over heels in love with me. My wife and i have been recently been talking about getting back together. I would like that for the kids, but thats pretty much it. I dont really want to break the new girls heart but I dont know what to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
PS I know im a dog and an a hole for having a girlfriend before the divorce. My wife hasnt had to work the full 1.5 years so im still taking care of everything financially.

2007-08-01 09:59:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out I was pregnant about a month ago with my boyfriend of 2 years- we have talked about marriage before but im not sure whether I should just hurry up and get married before the baby comes & I start really showing. I think it may be the right thing to do but then again- I don't know!! I just want some opinions!

2007-08-01 09:52:19 · 46 answers · asked by Jami 1

2007-08-01 09:27:27 · 25 answers · asked by misty 1

I am separated from my husband 3 months and I have met some one who is everything that I want in a man, he's attentive, sensative, motivated, caring, fun, funny( makes me laugh all the time), we talk on the phone almost 3-4 times a day. So far he seems perfect ( I know, i know nobody is perfect) but he's pretty damn close. lol Sometimes I think we are clicking so fast but I'm loving every minute of it. He lives out of town so we don't see each other everyday but ...... i don't know i'm smitten. What should I do? No I have absolutely no intentions of reconciling with my husband....making plans as I speak to end it. Just seeking some opinions.....
And yes I know it's ultimately my decision.

2007-08-01 09:21:26 · 36 answers · asked by "Have a great Day" 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 4 months. Living together for 4 months. When we had only been dating for a few weeks, he up and moved 2 and a half hours away for a job. The town we are both from doesn't really have any good jobs. Well, I did most of the commuting to be with him (90%) and in April we moved in together as he found a job in our hometown. Now he wants to move again to a job 4 hours away! Without even talking to me first either. He just up and told me he hates his job and is moving to get a better one. He's been starting arguments since then too. I feel like he's laying the groundwork for just totaling leaving our relationship. Am I right?

2007-08-01 09:18:31 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

It looks inacceptable in your answers if a married man have women friends when they are real friends;always the ghost of distrust ,jealousy and insecurity are present;it's incredible.

Both,men and women distrust theirs partners all the time;the sense of friendship has been destroyed in US society.It's very sad and disappointing,believe me.

Neither men nor women cna have sincere friends of the opposite gender.Society is dead.

Really,i"m very sad to read those answers.

2007-08-01 09:17:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex husband says he likes being with me, he says lets go to the movies, lets go to vegas lets go anywhere. I get excited thinking we'll get back together but after he leaves, nothing. untill i call him about something and then it will start again. I don't understand whats going on.

2007-08-01 09:10:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous