Marriage & Divorce - 1 August 2007

Im married for 3 years now and feels like my husband never treated me as a wife.He never take me somewhere.he never do anything to please me.Instead , he bought some things for somebody and he never bought me anything.And he tried to tell me it was for me .Its not even my size.Our relationship now is in jeopardy since i told his mom he was trying to grow marijuana inside the house .He said it was over since then.I work i do all the things in the house and all he have to do is set down infront of the computer watching those naked womens.He said he dont care what i think thats why he's doing those stuff instead of taking care of the family. I told him many times i wanna a divorce but i always give him a chance.We have 2 kids together.All he cares are the kids now.Im out of the picture but still im the one paying the bills , do the things in the house.He said he dont love me anymore.He said we have to stay together for the kids even if we dont love each other. What should i do?Pls help

2007-08-01 14:28:01 · 23 answers · asked by Jade_2317 1

If you're married to an alcoholic, should you just leave them or try to work it out? What are the chances of things actually changing? I am married to one, and I love him very much, but I don't want to spend the the next 20 years of my life fighting about his addiction? Is there a chance he will change if I force him to make the decision to quit? A.A. or leave? What do you think?

2007-08-01 14:22:15 · 23 answers · asked by portiaraylee 2

I was 19 when I met my husband. He was just separated from his high school sweetheart whome he married. She left him. I dated him for 2 yrs. & lived with him for 8 yrs. I told him to **** or get off the pot. I wanted to have children! I got pregnat within 3 mos. I was married. We have been married for 17 yrs. I had a beautiful daughter & a son. We worked our way up in life. All of our friends were getting devorced! But we always worked things out. Both of us are very old fashioned! I was raised in an strict itilian family. He was hurt so bad by his ex. I felt that I could make him happy?? Guess what I almost destroyed myself doing that! I was soo naive I thought that I could change him. My Mom told me I couldn`t. But I was too young to understand! He developed a bad habit. Alcohal & cocaine. I am not perfect. Last year I realized I`m an alcohalic. I sought help! I am no longer the same naive woman that he met 27 yrs. ago. I want out! I still love him. But feel so sorry for him. HELP!!

2007-08-01 14:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by Little Jeannie 1

I imagine I'm opening myself up to a lot of rude answers but I could really use some advice. My husband and I have been married for 5 years, 3 kids, I love him very much. For some reason the past 3 weeks I have no sex drive. I can't stand to be touched, I don't want him near me. I have no sexual feelings whatsoever. I can't figure out my problem. I asked my doctor about it last week, he acted like I was crazy. My husband is a very attractive man, we get along great, we don't fight. Has anyone else experienced this, or someone you know? I would really like to find a solution here, thanks.

2007-08-01 14:14:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband went to the movies with a huge group of people and called me 10 minutes before the movie and informed me that he is going. Now I am really laid back and I let him go wherever his heart desires. I was upset him for going ( i wanted to go myself but I couldnt make it) and he knew I was upset but he still went anyway. What ever happened to consideration of other people's feelings?

To top it off...he stayed with his friends after the movie and hung out with them for a couple of hours. knowing that I was pissed off and not picking up his calls. I mean its common sense that he should have came straight home after the movie.

of course he comes home and apologizes and says it wont happen again. I am still upset and he says that I am overreacting. Am I?
Right now I am giving him the cold shoulder and today he wants to hang out with his friends again.

2007-08-01 14:13:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

curious on what everyone thinks is the length of most marriage is

2007-08-01 14:07:38 · 24 answers · asked by bebunnynunes 1

I heard some girls talking about getting one. I must be old or something cuz I didn't know what they were talking about. Does it involve electricity and is it painful? What the heck is it?

2007-08-01 14:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Until about 6 or 7 years ago, I always wore pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way for work each day, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity for my pantyhose. Right around the time that my wardrobe transitioning to skirt suits and going bare legged with skirts, I was wearing pantyhose for work only on occasion. One one of those occasions that I was wearing them, I just asked him if he was so curious about the hose, why doesnt he just try them. I then hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. Well long story short, he went absolutely ga ga over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat. Hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again, but I dont want things to get out of hand. At the same time, I don't want to deny it to him because of how much he liked it that one time. What should I do?

2007-08-01 14:05:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i have been married for almost 4 years and recently found out that my husband talks bad and ses awefull things behind my back to his friend and his friends girlfriend she tells me everything and the sad part is that i cannot confront him on this because she doesnot want him to know she told me and it is all true because personal things that go on between us are repeated back to me i really dont know what to do about this i feel like exploding on him than pack up and leave but i have a small child and when me and him are alone he always tells me how much he loves me and i look at him and smile but knowing in mt heart what he ses makes me sick to my stomach,, any advice

2007-08-01 14:02:40 · 10 answers · asked by virgogrl007 2

A couple years ago, I walked in on my girlfriend with another woman and this was two years ago. She made up and I forgave her...but yesterday I got home early and heard noises. I quietly snuck in the room and saw her and another man. I didn't say anything, I just left for a few hours. We have two amazing kids and I don't wanna ruin their life.

2007-08-01 14:01:21 · 5 answers · asked by Dakota 1

I trust my husaband with my very life! I can tell him everything! He is my world and I put my complete trust in him! The best husband in the world is a military man, my husband David!

2007-08-01 14:01:17 · 27 answers · asked by SNAKEDOG 3

Based on what type of personalities, qualities that you would consider a woman a good woman or a good wife? Please be honest from you heart!

2007-08-01 14:00:38 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 1

My husband and I r constantly arguing. I found out the other day that he was messing around onm me while I was pregnant w/ my 6-mo-old. I dont know what to do. If I leave him then i have nowhere to go. I am going to college full time, and have a 2 year old and 6 month old to tend to. I dont work, currently, and have no babysitter, even if I did. What do I do?

2007-08-01 13:45:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy-fied 5

I am helping a 16 year old neighbor boy order his school clothes online. We have lived right by him for 2.5 years and he does not have internet. My husband is a little upset about it, but my neighbor only has to use our computer 1 time.

2007-08-01 13:40:51 · 16 answers · asked by Forever Brooklyn 2

2007-08-01 13:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told her about my feelings. She admits she likes being with me and that she always enjoy my company but she could not cope with a relationship with me since I am married. But I want her. What do I do?

2007-08-01 13:35:38 · 16 answers · asked by boyobanton 1

My wife and I are filling for divorce and we have called around to a couple of places and found that even with a mediator it's going to cost upwards of two thousand dollars and I was just wondering if anyone knows of a cheaper way to go about like if maybe health insurance would cover services or something. I'm filing in texas but living in north carolina

2007-08-01 13:35:35 · 5 answers · asked by Brandon O 1

2007-08-01 13:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by brenda k 1

And NOT just in the bedroom..in fact it can't be sexual at all...

has she done anything for you that was romantic or said anything to you..that you still remember?

2007-08-01 13:32:28 · 6 answers · asked by juanes addicion 6

2007-08-01 13:25:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

That one line or compliment that he gave you that DIDN'T come from a movie and completely melted your heart...

2007-08-01 13:21:00 · 19 answers · asked by juanes addicion 6

They were married in 2000 in Springfield, TN. William's birthdate is 12/20/1967

2007-08-01 13:18:43 · 2 answers · asked by d j 1

Is there such a thing as affair proofing your marriage. Just asking because after being married for 10 yrs. My good freind is leaving her husband. She swears that she thought she would never have an affair. I really thought that her marriage wasn't bad.

2007-08-01 13:09:31 · 19 answers · asked by pbxgirl 2

my aniversery is coming up, its my first, and i have no clue what my husband has in store. i want to plan something sexy, but if he has plans, what do i do? any advise?

2007-08-01 13:08:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We live in Virginia. The person (hopefully) receiving guardianship would be the step-mom

2007-08-01 13:07:40 · 7 answers · asked by aly_des 3

My husband and I are going thru a divorce right now. We have two vehicles. He has a truck that he's been driving and paying for for the last two years. I have a car that I have had for almost three years and been paying for. Both my car and his truck are in my name only. My lawyer said he could ask the judge to try and have him get it refinanced but of course he can't really make a bank extend a loan to my husband. My question is....is there a chance that I could get stuck with both vehicles. My husband doesn't have the best credit which is why they are in my name. Could the judge award him the truck and just make him continue to make payments? If he can't get it refinanced, it would at least be better if the judge says that he HAS to keep paying for it. If anyone knows how this works or has been thru something similar could you let me know how it works?

2007-08-01 13:06:33 · 8 answers · asked by love my life 2

Do you always use both names (hyphenated) when signing important documents and such?

Even if your name is very long?
Mine (hyphenated) would be 20 characters long.
I'm already married, but I miss my old name.

2007-08-01 12:45:15 · 19 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4

My husband is due to go on deployment in 2 months and he wants to get me pregnant so that wen he comes back he can see me give birth. our first son is only 6 months and i really am not ready to have another baby yet...i want to wait til my son is at least 4 or 5 becuz im only 18 and right now i am trying to concentrate on going to college to get my degree. but he doesnt understand...right now i am handling the responsibilities of being a mother, a wife, a full time employee and i am currently taking college courses online...my plate is full...there is no room for another baby...but he doesnt get it...how can i make him understand????

2007-08-01 12:43:13 · 17 answers · asked by CoCoBrown 2

I got married in October following 9/11. My husband wanted nothing to do with me when we got to our hotel because the World Series (game one broadcast live) was on and he thought terrorists would strike. I am still disappointed over this. So let me have it. We didn't have sex until we were 3 weeks married. To this day he still hardly ever wants sex. I am always the agressor and frankly I am tired of it. I don't usually bother him anymore, just play with a toy. I miss this part of our relationship, but we have been together 10 years (married almost 6), it it too late to change his mind about sex?

2007-08-01 12:25:38 · 32 answers · asked by suzieg 3

She paid for the hotel and food, had sex in my car, in other public places, anal sex and caught STD's. We have been married for 15 yrs and she never was this wild with me. She was talking with my boys on the phone while they were sick telling them mommy can't come home right now, because I am working and lots to do and she was with her sex buddy while talking to them. I understand being curious, but why all the wild sex. She is 38. If I leave, all the investments for the kids will disappear, becuase I will not be able to afford them anymore. Its hard. I forgive her, but should I really give her a second chance?

2007-08-01 12:23:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous