Marriage & Divorce - 1 August 2007

My wife and I would not survive without God first in our marriage. I wanted to know what others thought. We have been married for 1 1/2 yrs.

2007-08-01 06:20:44 · 24 answers · asked by baseballguy 3

Well I just found out in June that My husband was cheating on me with a fellow employee. He stated that they only talked on the phone, but that is still cheating when you have to hide and lie about it. Now he is stating that he more or less does not want to save our marriage, I still love him and have been doing everything in my power to try to reason with him. I cant figure out what she has that I dont except maybe the newness, maybe he is going through a midlife crisis? I dont know he changes from day to day. But he finally told me over the weekend he was unhappy and didnt want to spend any time with me. (That is I believe what happened from the start of his eyes roaming) I have lost alot of weight over the past two months, I am totally disabled, so it isnt easy, especially trying to walk, but Ive been dealing with the pain, taking my meds right before and laying down after. There is so much more, I dont know what to do here. He's talking divorce, Im in limbo. We have no children.

2007-08-01 06:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

well im american and my boyfriend korean/russian who lives in almaty kazakhstan with his wonderful family. for starts kz is NOTHING at all like the movie burat.. the people in that movie dont even look kazakh. well he lived here in the US with me for 1 year, we have been dating living together, and now he has gone back, he cannot reenter the country for another 2 years.. if you were me, and you knew that this was the person you were going to marry and start a future with would you pack up and leave everything here in america and sacrafise 2 years to move there with your love? I am being faced with this decision.. he has a home i can stay in, he has a job waiting for me, i have no children no debt no car payments, so i ask myself what is holding me back.. Is KZ and moving there temporary for him sound crzy to anyone? would you move to a foreign country to be with the one you love? give me advise if you have had the same experience?

2007-08-01 06:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by *starrynight* 1

When my (now) husband gave me the engagement ring, I have to say it was not what I was expecting. He said he was saving money for about a year to give me something spectacular and then I received a ring I could have bought within two months with a small diamond. I was happy be cause we were to get married, and I love him but... that is not what I had in mind I don't even like wearing it at all...

But I love him, the ring is not the most important thing it’s just that I don’t get it.

2007-08-01 06:05:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

You only live once and you have to spend most of your time working. Even worse is now in order to get by many times both parents have to work while kids go to daycare.

2007-08-01 06:00:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is not joint on any accounts of hers. He does not have money except want he take from her. He broke into her safe and stole checks and made them out to himself and cashed them for drung money and he is on probation for possession. In the state of Ga. can she place charges on him

2007-08-01 05:50:32 · 13 answers · asked by s w 1

lets say that my mom would like to divorce my dad but my dad refuses to pay for that, and my mom has very low income, she cant afford the money to divorce, she heard that there was an office that you could go to and fill out some papers and then you would be divorced without out having to pay anything.she doesnt know were she could refer to or where that office could be so she could go. can you please help!
we are in new york, long island.
I will chose a best asnwer, so if you want the points help me out =)

2007-08-01 05:47:12 · 6 answers · asked by Party_Hottie12 3

ok, so I'm seeing this really great guy for over 3 months now.. What I loved about him was that he had a life. What I mean is that I see him once a week, usually on Saturdays and he'd go out w/his friends on Thurs or Fridays. Lately, though, he's not going out w/his friends anymore. If it's not w/me he'll just stay home. I love going out w/my friends and I don't want to start expecting this from me, plus I don't want him to become too dependent on me. Am I crazy? isn't this what every woman wants???

2007-08-01 05:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

yahoo. if anyone wants background on the situation look @my previous questions. i left my ex 3 weeks ago. i was never married. i finally figured out that i was being taken advantage of by her, the kids, & mom, etc. i came back home & i'm working 2 jobs & rediscovering myself. it will take time for me to get over her. i'm going out again, hanging out w/ friends, & joining clubs & experiencing what a life is w/out the girl & her kids just me. its great!!! no more stress & life is great. i get to do what i want when i want. just yesterday the ex called (haven't heard from her in 3 weeks when i left). she said she's sorry about what happened. she wants to start talking to me again & to get to know me again. she said the kids miss me (they aren't my kids & i never had kids). i told her things are over and that is the truth. i want to be alone for now. she says she wants me to think bout it. i'm nt dating anyone that has kids. just want to know why did she call & what does she want now?

2007-08-01 05:37:53 · 11 answers · asked by jack 1

If you are/were happily married but had the oppurtunity to have a 1 night stand only would you cheat?

2007-08-01 05:35:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 05:12:57 · 26 answers · asked by labrenda m 2

Masturbation is not as good without porn. Without it it takes longer. Is this normal? I've decided to try to quit watching porn, but its not as good without.

2007-08-01 05:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend in a long term relationship (7 years) and he is miserable because the spark is gone. I thought that when you pass some years together, being in love becomes real love, you can get to eachothers nerves, but since you love eachother you are content and happy. BUT, if one stopped loving the other, that is when a person gets miserable, both of them of course, but mostly the one that still loves but doesn't get the love back. So, if I am correct, if my friend is miserable after 7 years, she must've stopped loving him. Or???

2007-08-01 04:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by stargazer 2

I have been with my wife for almost four years now. A month ago things got real weird. She has become addicted to the internet and has multiple emails and web sites which I have no problem with but lately she closes everything when I walk into the room. When she logs off at night she erases all history where I cant even find pages I was on. I have access to all of her emails I know of but her myspace. We tell each other all of our passwords but she has given me false pwords multiple times. She started to claim she wanted to be with me and another woman at the same time which I sure have NO problem with. So now she is on adultfriendfinder and other websites searching personals. All this came without warning. I am concernd she is hiding secrets by the way she acts sneaky about things. I have caught her in lies before. Is this just leading up to the biggest lie of all? I love her but I am not willing to be hurt. Do I need to leave before she drops a bombshell on me or ride things out?

2007-08-01 04:48:23 · 17 answers · asked by Michael D 1

2007-08-01 04:43:39 · 8 answers · asked by gogo 1

2007-08-01 04:39:09 · 8 answers · asked by holla 2

I get nervous often... for dance competitons, recitals, ect.

RIGHT NOW I'M NERVOUS THAT I HAVE TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL (HIGH SCHOOL) IN ONE MONTH! =//

2007-08-01 04:36:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 11 yrs. It seemed towards the end the marriage he was trying to turn me into his mother. I do not know how many times I had said " I am not your mother" to him.

2007-08-01 04:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Trouble 2

I used to work for a married couple at a marketing firm and it was interesting to watch. They would argue endlessly. Anyway, I decided to leave because there was too much drama. Plus the husband started to become flirty with me, which caused friction between his wife (my boss) and myself.

2007-08-01 04:31:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 04:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you choose medevil days, the civil war, today? Tell me and why? This is research for a book. Thank you!

2007-08-01 04:21:55 · 4 answers · asked by fire_side_2003 5

I thought everything was going great in our life. I didn't realize I wasn't paying him attention. Our daughter is only 6 weeks old and I'm giving him sex so thats not the problem. He said it's not the physical part it's mentally,and that I don't even acknowledge he's there anymore. Anyways he stayed out from 11pm till 8am last friday night and said he was at a party with an old friend named Benjy, who I know but he would lie for my hubby if I ask if they were at a party. He also turned his phone off. Was he with a woman? Saturday morning he apoligized and told me he does not want me and our daughter to leave and he will straighten up. I also told him I will try to pay him more attention. I want my marriage to work, I love my husband and want my daughter to grow up with both her parents. Did he cheat? and should I leave him? He has never ever stayed out all night in the 6 years we've been together until last friday. HELP!!!

2007-08-01 04:15:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating a guy who just recently got divorced because his wife of 3 years and they dated for 3 years before that cheated on him, now he thinks I will do the same, and doesnt want to get married ever again. I have never felt this way about anyone before, I think he is my soulmate, how do I get him to marry me???

2007-08-01 04:15:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My single-never-married friend is dating a guy (long distance) that enjoys drinking with his buddies on the weekends. She allows it since they are not serious but claims that if they got married it would all come to a halt. I said she can’t expect him or any guy to just drop his friends and spend the rest of his days with no one except her. Guys need that “guy time” just as girls have their “girl time” together. I said once you get married and start a family that the “going out” phase kind of cools off but she should let him enjoy going out & drinking with his buddies at least 1-2 times a month or so. She thinks that is WAY too much. She said once a YEAR for a guy to hang out with his friends is plenty. And she basically said that she plans to alienate her friends when she marries and this guy should alienate his friends too and then they just have each other and can work on making their marriage work. Married couples- Is her way logical? Does it work that way? What works for you?

2007-08-01 04:10:47 · 20 answers · asked by sugar sweet 5

2007-08-01 04:06:10 · 22 answers · asked by sweet phool 1

here is how i see it from a friends point of view :She has two kids ,her husband controlling ,she is so afraid of him she won't leave cause he has threatin to kill himself and or take one of the boys ,WHAT can i do to help her get out of this realtionship SAFELY ,and also make her see how this actually is affecting her oldest son.PLEASE HELP AND GIVE ADVICE.

2007-08-01 04:05:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read a post yesterday about a guy who explained that he is staying married solely for the sake of his children. This was so disheartening to me. Are there people out there who are happily married after 5, 10+ years of marriage or is everyone out there miserable? I am getting married in a month and would like encouraging and hopeful stories as this mans post really got me down.

2007-08-01 04:02:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i suffer too much trying to prevent having an affiar with him..but im too afraid to be hurt even more and humiliated if the wife enters the scene...help..i need help...only sincere answers pls...

2007-08-01 03:56:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

...is not still in the stage where they sigh and go all googley-eyed and shivery and giggly and twittery over the sight of him?

I am as comitted to my husband as the ocean to the shore, but after 14 years the love is more solid and less like the first blush of passion of high-schoolers. (we met in our late 30's.)

Am I normal, headed for a nasty divorce, or need shock treatments in a mental hosiptal?

2007-08-01 03:53:33 · 17 answers · asked by danashelchan 5

its been 2months since me and gf broke up but still she calls me usually lol. IM thinking should start new life and forget stupid gf like her?
and also what if still have feelings for her? move on or go back


your thoughts please

2007-08-01 03:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous