yahoo. if anyone wants background on the situation look @my previous questions. i left my ex 3 weeks ago. i was never married. i finally figured out that i was being taken advantage of by her, the kids, & mom, etc. i came back home & i'm working 2 jobs & rediscovering myself. it will take time for me to get over her. i'm going out again, hanging out w/ friends, & joining clubs & experiencing what a life is w/out the girl & her kids just me. its great!!! no more stress & life is great. i get to do what i want when i want. just yesterday the ex called (haven't heard from her in 3 weeks when i left). she said she's sorry about what happened. she wants to start talking to me again & to get to know me again. she said the kids miss me (they aren't my kids & i never had kids). i told her things are over and that is the truth. i want to be alone for now. she says she wants me to think bout it. i'm nt dating anyone that has kids. just want to know why did she call & what does she want now?
2007-08-01 05:37:53 · 11 answers · asked by jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She does miss you for being there. But thats all. She misses the stability you gave her.
Before you think about it, go on with your own life for a few months
2007-08-01 05:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by PSU840 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yey for you! it takes a lot of courage to make a choice but if you're sure you made the right one, that's good...better that you figure this out now than if you'd have married her THEN wanted out! she's probably lonely and truly missing you, hard to get over someone but dragging it out will only make it harder...btw, i'm not saying it's great to just leave someone you love so you can do what you want,,,,but it's just that if you aren't ready for a commitment then it's good you notice that...good luck
2007-08-01 05:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She pretty much told you why she was calling, "she said she was sorry about what happened and she wants to start talking to me again & get to know me again".
That pretty much sums up the reason of why she called you.
So I'm not sure of what your question was, but it sure sounds to me like you are trying to "convince" yourself that you are happy without her and the kids.
If you have to convince yourself, then maybe you need to take another look at how you feel for her.
Otherwise you will always regret just leaving and not trying again.
2007-08-01 05:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry that there was a woman who took advantage of you like that. I have two children but they have a father so I would never rely on a boyfriend to take on any responsiblity of them. That would be wrong of me. I dont even like to introduce my boys to the guy im dating until weve been serious for at least six months.
So just remember that not all women are like that.
2007-08-01 05:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by oklasoonersgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're happy so I would ignore the phone calls.Don't talk to her anymore and encourage her to keep calling.It just prolongs the agony for her which is not fait either.
You broke it off with her so let it go and go on with your life.
Good luck.
2007-08-01 05:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said happy with the way i am living my life? yes! absolutely! i am living it and trying to make the best of it though there is not much of a choice. :-) btw if you asked i was happy about how my life is,then may be it would have been a different response from me. :-)
2016-04-01 06:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl misses her meal ticket. Find a place that allows you to be more than that...sounds like you are off to a great start!!!
2007-08-01 05:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on getting yourself where you want to be,you figured out you were being used , perhaps that is why she called, to use you again.Good luck
2007-08-01 05:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to rekindle the relationship so she can put you through the same, old drama all over again.
do yourself a favor, and make your clean break.. move on...
take care of YOU... no one else will!
2007-08-01 05:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care?
You claim you're happy and you should be.
Move on and don't worry about why she's doing and saying things.
2007-08-01 05:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋