If you are/were happily married but had the oppurtunity to have a 1 night stand only would you cheat?
2007-08-01 05:35:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with bea cause we all know men they cant pass up some "strange"
2007-08-01 05:45:15 · update #1
Handsome your the only 1 with the guts to tell the truth.
2007-08-01 05:56:55 · update #2
No I wouldn't... would you?
2007-08-01 05:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't ever. Being happily married would mean that I would want no other woman other then my wife. Heck, just being married means NOBODY ELSE. It's okay to look I suppose, but anything other then that would be a big no no no.
I think most men feel the same way, things have changed a lot in the past decade or so. Men don't cheat as much as women think we do. We understand that being happy with one woman is so much more important then having sex with many.
2007-08-01 05:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man but that's a silly question: If you are happily married, then why would you want to have a 1 night stand?
Only a man with low morals and IQ would be that dumb to risk his health for 1 night of pleasure. There are so many STDs out there it isnt funny.
Any smart guy would know he has someone at home that he could do anything he wants with! Why go out with a stranger? It is always better when its with someone that you love. I dont have to be a man to know this. Its common sense.
2007-08-01 05:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by CaliGirl 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, and there was a chance when I did have the opportunity when out of town on business.
Was I tempted? Yes. My wife would never have known. But I would still have to look at myself in the mirror and known what I had done to my marriage vows and my promise to God.
My wife asked me once if I would ever cheat on her and I told her I'd kick her to the curb before I cheated. She wasn't sure if she liked that answer but it was the truth.
You may not believe it but some men actually do take their marriage vows seriously.
2007-08-01 06:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has been so long since I was happy with my marriage I can't remember what it was like, so I am not sure, but I have never cheated even though I am so unhappy it makes me physically sick to my stomach, litterally.
And to Bea, if women cared half as much about their man as they claim to here or they do themselves, men wouldn't have to lie.
2007-08-01 05:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by s1lvermidnight 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. Even if I were somehow tempted, I would need only think of how I would feel if my wife were to do that to me.
Edit: If you're so convinced you've got it all figured out, why did you bother to ask the question? Someone cheated on you, so now you want to blame all men collectively? That's sad.
2007-08-01 05:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by Alowishus B 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
No not worth it, no matter who the woman is. Even if not happily married, although I know a guy who had a one night stand the day he got married. What kind of shiggity is that?
2007-08-01 05:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i have women from the chat line that i talk to daily that are just waiting for me to say come down this weekend and they would be on the plane friday night, but i dont, talking is ok even a little flirting can be fun once and a whial, but i have no desire to cheat on my wife
2007-08-01 05:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice question, how would the wives answer this one.....if a man is truly happy in his marriage there in no way he would cheat if the opportunity was there 3 times over. that if he have any sense....why would one who truly value something (love)they believe in (their companion) and work hard (through their ups and downs over the years together and still be happy with them) to risk it all over for one night. my vote is no!
2007-08-01 05:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nope. If I was happily married, I wouldn't even think about having a one night stand
2007-08-01 05:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by PSU840 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you know what, its nice to say no but who really knows until you're in that situation. No one really ever sets out to cheat or have an affair. it sneaks up on you and next thing you know you have feelings and are cheating.
as far as a one night stand- look dump a 6 pack in me with a couple shots and i dont know whats gonna happen. you just try to stay out of those situations and hope for the best.
2007-08-01 06:04:51 · answer #11 · answered by zeke58 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋