ok, so I'm seeing this really great guy for over 3 months now.. What I loved about him was that he had a life. What I mean is that I see him once a week, usually on Saturdays and he'd go out w/his friends on Thurs or Fridays. Lately, though, he's not going out w/his friends anymore. If it's not w/me he'll just stay home. I love going out w/my friends and I don't want to start expecting this from me, plus I don't want him to become too dependent on me. Am I crazy? isn't this what every woman wants???
2007-08-01 05:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why isn't this question in the 'dating' section along with all the other kiddie questions?
2007-08-01 05:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think him staying home has anything to do with you!
Maybe he just got burned out on going with friends every weekend. The best solution is to ASK HIM!
That is what is wrong with today's marriages they have to resort to asking strangers about their own relationships and marriage!
How the hell r we supossed to know???
It's called communication! Plus, you've only been going out 3 months and you only see him on Sat.? I'm sorry but you seem like you have issues with commitment...Hopefully he realizes this and gets the hell OUT!!!!
Good luck...2 pts. for me!
2007-08-01 05:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by CJ&Drewsmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people want different things.
I personally wouldn't have even started dating someone who's out hanging out with friends a couple times a week. I'd rather spend time with him.
So, no, it's not what every woman wants.
2007-08-01 05:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep going out with your friends and if he chooses to stay home let him.he will see that you are going to keep on doing that and maybe he will get the hint and keep going out with his.guys are used to the women wanting to spend all the time with them and hes not sure how to take it.let him know that they are an important part of your life and your not giving them up.
2007-08-01 05:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are simply not ready for a serious relationship...please make sure he knows this so that he can move on if he doesn't wish to wait for u
2007-08-01 06:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him and ask him why he is not going out with freinds. good luck.
2007-08-01 05:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋