Marriage & Divorce - 1 August 2007

2007-08-01 03:52:48 · 20 answers · asked by beba 1

I really want to be with her and go,but i've lived here my whole life and my family is down here. On the other hand she is the love of my life and i've raised her daughter since she was a baby! I can't not be with her either! But my family is giving me hell over not staying where i am. They really are just being selfish,I mean i'm 27 years old! Oh well,do I go with her, despite the "control" my family has holding me back?

2007-08-01 03:45:10 · 24 answers · asked by Mrazda 1

This question is not about incompatibility or love between you and your spouse. It is a comparisson of married life and staying single.

2007-08-01 03:40:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Mom and I were so close. We lived together and I cared for her through her last days. I am in emotional agony and can't seem to find my way back to normal. The part that scares me the most is that my faith has gotten all shaken up... I worry that there may not be a hereafter and that I won't see my Mom in Heaven when I die. I am praying for faith and I would love to hear from anyone who is grieving or at coming out the other side! I have never hurt so bad emotionally. It has been a month since Mama died. Is it normal not to have any energy? I'm so withdrawn and I feel sick. Any response would be wonderful!

2007-08-01 03:34:19 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-08-01 03:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by Luis C 1

My husband and i have been married 14 yrs and for the past month he has been bugging me to try anal sex but i am to scared to try it..He says im a prude and a big baby and a little bit of pain wont kill me..He says as his wife it is my duty to please him and do anything he ask..Is he right do i sound like a prude and a big baby?

2007-08-01 03:26:39 · 18 answers · asked by nicole c 1

Well, I'm not perfect (who is), will a woman cheat on me, how do I stop that from happening? Is it inevitable if I fail to meet her needs? I make mistakes, I cant be wonderful all the time forever.

2007-08-01 03:22:42 · 13 answers · asked by jblack988 1

my boyfriend had girls numbers in the notes section of his cellphone and the names were spelled backwards so i woudent know he says there his girl friends and that he didnt want me to get mad that he hardly talks to them anyway. should i be mad and suspect something or believe him

2007-08-01 03:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by crystalf 3

How did you become a submissive? Was it discussed, or did you just fall into that role, naturally? Anything you wish to share would be a bonus!

I'm curious as to how you keep your man happily satisfied and how far you will go for him...

2007-08-01 02:51:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering what should you say to your ex-spouse after a really bad break up, if they decide to call ask how you were doing after awhile? In my situation, sometimes I can't resist to not picking up the phone. Other time, I know that he called, but let the voicemail does the work. When he called though he usually talk business like what I need to do and whatnot...when picking up the phone, I usually don't want to hear those things. I rather hear something goods from him like he ever cared at all, if you know what I mean.

2007-08-01 02:41:37 · 22 answers · asked by Confused 1

Quick background. Rocky marriage w/ on&off counseling. Married life was blissful when I was an agreeable slave/doormat. She's a workaholic executive w/ infrequent/no libido (towards me) that only grudgingly stopped afterwork 1:1 wine ("Business meetings) w/ male friends.

She secretly keeps in touch w/ past-work male friends. Yes, I've snooped (until she changed her passwords) as she had turned secretive & emotionally distant. In snooping I've found she expresses interest in seeing them when they're in town, etc. but nothing explicit & I've not caught more than "hints".

Her interest in me has improved slightly as I've stopped doing everything around the house & started saying "NO". I'm back to hobbies, sports & business. I have guy friends that I do things with but absolutely no female friends.

Should I seek out female friendship for activities (tennis/biking) the wife is too busy for (that she used to do)?

2007-08-01 02:35:01 · 16 answers · asked by rfrfrfrfrfrf 1

2007-08-01 02:34:19 · 7 answers · asked by farhad n 1

So whats this mean? A man will not commit to me if im giving him everything he wants without hope of a future together. How much is too much to give a man before thet seriously commit to you . . . .

2007-08-01 02:34:04 · 15 answers · asked by Sparkles 2

2007-08-01 02:29:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

divorce....
Friend's husband who is overseas was into sexual nude webcam chatting with females, wanting to meet for fun.

Is this reason enough to divorce him? or would you work it out thinking he is lonely overseas?

2007-08-01 01:39:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before we got married my husband knew I wanted to finish school and to work. I later became pregnant and now he says he wants me to stay at home. He told me he had never had any intention of my working or going to school but did not want me to leave him. I love my husband and I love my child more than anything but I need to be able to go places and work outside of the house to be happy. How can I explain to him that just because I want to work and have a social life doesn't mean I'm abandoning him or our child?

2007-08-01 01:33:43 · 19 answers · asked by CJ 1

2007-08-01 01:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by Amy 3

the slang word for Indians from India. I have heard some say brownie. Are they referring to Indians from India?

2007-08-01 01:24:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

all really mean things about me, why is this happening?????????????

2007-08-01 01:04:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a British man, I got in touch with an Indian girl over the Internet, and I ended up marrying her and bringing her over here. She did rush me into the marriage but it was still my choice. I am really the only person she has in this country. After we were living together for a while I realised that I had made a mistake in marrying her and she wasn't for me. She was needy, insecure, melodramatic and there was no mental connection between us. I told her in April we should finish it and have kept on providing for her and living with her since. She is a Masters student and I paid her fees as well. What should I do now? It would be very difficult for her to return to India as a divorcee because of the stigma, and she would not have much of a future there. If we stay married but separated for about another year we could lie and say that we intend to remain married in order to get her permanent residency over in the UK. Should we do that? What should I do about her future?

2007-08-01 01:04:17 · 21 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1

2007-08-01 01:03:09 · 23 answers · asked by mojo569 4

My wife and I had a big fight last night over our favourite topic to fight about - family obligations. She comes from a large family and is close to them. I can't stand them and the feeling is mutual.

We have come to an uneasy truce on the official events such as weddings and funerals. They are rare and I go without complaint (as least verbally). It is the greyer areas such as parties that we disagree.

I believe that I should be able to boycott these events if I want to. I won't miss them and they won't miss me. After all, I married her; not her family.

She says that it is only an occasional thing and that I should do it as part of marital family obligations, especially because she doesn't ask often (she doesn't).

I'd like mature opinions for either side of the argument.

Thanks.

2007-08-01 00:23:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What you will do if you caught that you`re husband is having an affair with a girl in a chat room.It`s the second time, with different girls. Will you still forgive him? The first one was finished, forgotten and he was being forgiven. But lately, without my knowledge, he have again with a new girl. It is proven because I have read the off line messages of that ***** girl.. ANY ADVICES ????

2007-08-01 00:21:32 · 23 answers · asked by nemo 1

im in love with my bf but my dad want me to get married to his sisters son im yet a minor but as soon as i complete 18yrs of age he will make me to get married to his wish. and i cant convince him . i want my bf .wil i get him

2007-08-01 00:14:17 · 24 answers · asked by nish 1

We are very happy otherwise

2007-08-01 00:12:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous